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    Default Guys, what do you like to talk about with them?

    Some of us like to get very personal and ask their "real name" or where they live, work out.

    Some of us like to talk politics and sports.

    Some may try inoccuous subject like the weather.

    And some customers just like to get down to business.

    But seriously, what are some of the more creative and unusual conversations you've had with strippers you've really enjoyed?

    Are there any great convo starters you've learned to use?


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    Default Re: Guys, what do you like to talk about with them?

    If they're new to Vegas and it's only like their 1st or 2nd time dancing in Vegas, I tell them about the "new" Outlet Mall...LOL

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    Default Re: Guys, what do you like to talk about with them?

    I guess I'm generally a conversationalist ... dunno, I talk about whatever seems to fit the moment... sometimes it's about my interests ... or perhaps something weird that I just observed. Or maybe it's a bit more brainy and about current events ...

    Mostly it's whatever random stuff I'd talk to anyone about. It also depends on how into 'conversation' the dancer is Sometimes it's strictly business...

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    Default Re: Guys, what do you like to talk about with them?

    Jeez...anything and everything...

    * The club, the dj, the stage, the layout and every detail about the place we are at.
    * Her. Anything from appearance (flattery, only) to clothes and shoes (Gen LOVES Stripper Shoes.), to hobbies and just generally getting to know her. As personal as she will get. I don't mind hearing about SOs, other jobs, personal challenges and goals. I also don't care if they make it up, though it gets confusing when the same wonderful girl tells me two different out of club occupations. (You KNOW who you are. )
    * Activities. What's going on tonight? Drinking, smoking, etc. Usually leads into general conversation about said topics. You get a girl that likes to drink on the job and you can have a good long talk about all the drinks you are buying her.
    * People watching (other custys only). Interesting dynamics that are playing out in the club. Like the guy sitting at perverts row eating wings or the guy who has tipped the girl on stage more than $50 in tens but she still doesn't go and sit with him after. Or the guy who just sits and doesn't buy a dance from any girl (only to find out later that it is because he is waiting for the girl I am talking to. )
    * Politics and current events. Can be tricky because I am a) generally uninformed b) generally unintelligent c) generally uninsightful and d) generally a Dubya supporter. All of these things mean that most girls I would choose to discuss politics and current events would NOT choose to discuss them with me.
    * Sports teams. I LOVE a dancer who has a long standing and deep seeded love of any sports team. I personally only started liking sports about 18 months ago, so I have the knowledge and insight of the average uninterested lady.
    * The industry. The job of being a dancer and the challenges, rewards and pitfalls of such. The role of being a customer and the rights, responsibilities and rewards thereto. Sometimes, if we get really really deep, I will confide my dream to own a strip club. Of course, this will remain a dream because Dreamland is the only place this is a fun, practical and enjoyable endeavor.
    * Movies, Music and Entertainment. Everyone sees movies and dancers listen to far more popular music (my 2nd favorite genre) than they would like. You can always discuss this with them. If you're REALLY lucky, you can get a dancer with a similar interest in books. Then, you are REALLY in business.

    Last Resorts (If I can't get anything else to work, I will try these topics):
    * Me. What I do for fun or profit. Mrs. Gen and how to be a husband and a SCJ at the same time (IMHO, of course.)
    * Club Management. More often than not, this will get a rant going but sometimes a rant is your only option for passionate conversation.
    * Other girls. (See club management)
    * Religion. (yeah, I've tried it.)

    In the end, if you can't get a conversation going on ANY of these topics, (I've seen it happen.) then probably you have to start looking for a way to dismiss. But THAT is a whole other thread.

    -gen
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    Quote Originally Posted by GenWar
    I am a) generally uninformed b) generally unintelligent c) generally uninsightful and d) generally a Dubya supporter.
    I really want to make a crack about this . . .

    Guys, it's usually fine to talk about anything. We're strippers. It's our job to be able to talk about anything with you. More important than topic is rapport, obviously. I have plenty of great conversations with guys whose opinions on politics vary greatly from mine, because we can always talk about sports, hee hee. And if they don't like sports they probably agree with me on politics.

    In the past couple of weeks my conversations at work have ranged from how you can't tell a woman's bra size by sight to new developments in genetics research to sexual positions to the superiority of the Rolling Stones to . . . you name it. It's just like any other bar; who knows what you'll talk about?

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    About a month ago I had a conversation with a visiting dancer from Toronto about mitochondrial DNA, Haile Selassie's visit to Jamaica in the 1960s, the Kaifeng Jews, Canada's marijuana laws, call centres in India, and the Women's Studies program at U of T.

    Then she asked me if I wanted to fuck her for $150.

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    Agreed Gen, since I drift between the Republicans and the Libertarians politics wasn't a good topic for me in my clubbing days.
    Although religion is a surprisingly fertile topic as long as you're not shooting fire and brimstone. I met a dancer once, she was very interested in religion, discussing the merits and drawbacks of the beliefs of different religions.

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    I enjoy it when guys talk about nearly anything....EXCEPT.... (what is your REAL name) (How many kids do you have) (Are you married)... Generally if guys exhibit decent social skills and are intelligent they have more chance for me being open with them about more personal things --as opposed to starting conversation with, "Hey Montana, what's your real name?" I like politics, religion, science, finance (of course), and I LOVE a GOOD sense of humor. (I also like a fun debate)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Classic'sMontana
    I enjoy it when guys talk about nearly anything....EXCEPT.... (what is your REAL name) (How many kids do you have) (Are you married)... Generally if guys exhibit decent social skills and are intelligent they have more chance for me being open with them about more personal things
    You know, the funny thing is, I would consider these subjects to be taboo myself. What stuns me is how many dancers I've met who actually volunteer to reveal that sort of information to me. I don't know, perhaps I just give off a vibe that its safe to tell me those sort of things.

    But aside from the basic introductions, conversation usually simmers around:

    1. Strip clubs in other cities (what they're like)
    2. Their day job, or previous non-dancing jobs they've had
    3. Local tourist attractions that aren't SC's.
    4. Current events.

    In otherwords, nothing terribly different from what I would discuss with a non-dancer. I just sort of go with the flow. Some gals aren't terribly talkative, and others are chatterboxes, but yes, it certainly does grease the wheels.
    Former SCJ now in rehab.

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    Default Re: Guys, what do you like to talk about with them?

    I talk about the same shit I'd talk about with anybody.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Classic'sMontana
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    I went out last night (shitty day at work and decided I wanted to end Monday on a good note) and the conversation was sorta all over the place. Happened to be a girl working from out of state that I really enjoyed the company of the last time I was there and she remembered me (was surprised) so it was easy to start a conversation. Talked about how long she was going to be in town, other clubs she works at, scl postings (i pointed her to the pink side actually), the guy sitting in the corner doing the crossword puzzle in the newspaper (wtf), how no one was working the floor (she would go make rounds on occasion but there wasn't many people there), pretty much anything without it really being anything personal.

    Hm probably should have formated that as a list but oh well. I actually found that just reading the pink side gives me some things to talk about and start a conversation with. I would have known nothing about the dynamics of a club with this site and just even starting with something about the club or other customers seems to be a good place to start. Either that or she is just a great saleswoman (which works for me to).

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Snark
    About a month ago I had a conversation with a visiting dancer from Toronto about mitochondrial DNA, Haile Selassie's visit to Jamaica in the 1960s, the Kaifeng Jews, Canada's marijuana laws, call centres in India, and the Women's Studies program at U of T.

    Then she asked me if I wanted to fuck her for $150.

    Aw...
    Y $150?

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    Whenever a dancer sits down with me she'll usually start talking "girl" talk - hair, makeup, babies, waxing body parts, their boyfriends......stuff that usually will bore me to death. But I just smile & nod alot, and they usually seem happy enough to reward me with nice dances afterwards.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lopaw
    Whenever a dancer sits down with me she'll usually start talking "girl" talk - hair, makeup, babies, waxing body parts, their boyfriends......stuff that usually will bore me to death. But I just smile & nod alot, and they usually seem happy enough to reward me with nice dances afterwards.
    an old favorite of mine used to do that ALL the time.. i didnt mind thou, im a good listener and would offer my honest opinion on whatever she wanted to get off her chest
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    The ATF and I talk about just about anything that comes to mind. Movies, music, food, other dancers, old relationships, our families, our favorite things, and each other are things we've talked about from time to time.
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    Just a few of the subjects I've discussed are: favorite directors, super-string theory, best vampire novels, what Buffy the Vampire Slayer says about our culture, doll collecting, travel, whether Andy Warhol is classic or dud, hopes, dreams, fears, dream interpretation, serial killers, quickest way to get hammered, penis size, porn and its discontents, mental illnesses, how to pass a drug test, reality TV, families - love em or hate em, whether the 90's was the classic age of Hip-Hop, overplayed songs, can you guess what drug that dancer is on, north vs. south, how many sexual partners have you had, BA's pros and cons, quantum mechanics, the club management – idiots or just tools, classic punk, when did Sabbath start to suck, concerts, how to be a Goth, tattoos – passé or not, drug addiction, sex addiction, car wrecks I’ve survived, alimony, adventures in drunk driving, why the show CSI sucks donkey balls, times you’ve been in the back of a police car, is Blue Monday the best song ever, favorite crime novels, poetry, make-up, who would you go gay for, are you a pervert, the DSM -IV, best animes ever, is Spongebob Squarepants sexy or not, Squidward - closeted gay, cartoon characters you'd fuck, selling your soul - hell yeah!, etc. etc. etc.

    Whew!! The list is endless!!
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    All conversation is a front for negotiation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine
    All conversation is a front for negotiation.
    Absolutely!! I love it though when it's done with a little bit of imagination, flair, and wit. A little bit of sugar helps the negotiation go down.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lopaw
    Whenever a dancer sits down with me she'll usually start talking "girl" talk - hair, makeup, babies, waxing body parts, their boyfriends......stuff that usually will bore me to death. But I just smile & nod alot, and they usually seem happy enough to reward me with nice dances afterwards.

    WOW. i honestly don't know -any- girls personally at the club who do this. seems like a money killer right there. lol who the hell plops down and starts talking about boyfriends and babies???

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pretty_Penny
    WOW. i honestly don't know -any- girls personally at the club who do this. seems like a money killer right there. lol who the hell plops down and starts talking about boyfriends and babies???

    well, the only thing I can figure is that since I'm a woman, maybe they assume that I want to talk about that kinda stuff. They wouldn't typically talk about those kinds of things with a male custy, and they also seem to want to vent abit. I'm usually more than happy to listen, and often lend a shoulder for them to cry on. Eventually they'll ask if I want a dance, and I'll usually say yes. It doesn't really kill the deal for me, since alot of the girls really need to unload, and afterwards during our dance(s), they treat me extra special!

    It's a very symbioic relationship!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine
    All conversation is a front for negotiation.
    Only for the girls who are really working, ma'am. For those that don't want to work, either ever or just not that night, it can be a very enjoyable excuse to not do so. Many many times I have had terrific, dance-buying nights with ladies who spent the whole evening with me and then blamed me for them not working.

    I remember one girl in Vegas who kept telling me, "I am gonna get up and go work the room." I would nod supportively. She would sit for a second and then say, "You want to order another shot." "I do." I would reply and then we drank more. I think I had to carry her to the DR we drank so much.

    Just saying...in general, you are right. But, it takes all kinds...surely you had a night or two where you just sat around and didn't bother...

    -gen
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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine
    All conversation is a front for negotiation.
    Hehe, very true. Last night a very bitter and and angry dancer stormed off muttering something that sounded like " two lousy dances for an hour of this bullshit, its been like this all night, all these motherf**kers wanna do is talk, 40 bucks doesn't even fill up my gas tank.....".

    So much for my wit and charm, but OTOH, somehow I ended up in the champagne room for free with 2 young lovelies, and on the way out the angry dancer gave me the most evil and hateful look I've ever seen.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine
    All conversation is a front for negotiation.
    Kat, while I hate to disagree with anyone as hot as you, I'm with GenWar on this one. I ordered a lap once from a gal, talked for two dances before getting one, then I went to the bar only to have her change out of her work clothes to sit with me and chat for the rest of the night.

    We all have days at work when we just don't feel up to it and need a respite.


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    That comment was somewhat jocular. I've had many good conversations over the years as dancer and customer.

    As a dancer, topic #1 was sex, followed by movies, music, travel, backgrounds, etc....

    As a customer, I like to sniff out money in the room and strategize with the dancer, if she is open for it. But to be honest, I don't really like to spend too much time talking to the dancer, I want the action, and then I want her gone. Most strippers don't have much interesting to say.

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