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    So i have hit a brick wall!!

    I have goten to a point were I am feeling so ugly unsexy fat and like a tramp. I have no idea what is wrong with me and why i feel this way. I dont even have the motivation to wash my hair or try and look half decent!!!

    What is going on?

    Sorry for this little rant i just had to get it out of my system

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    probably you're depressed. what's going on in your life? What's changed? What are you most unhappy with? When you're dperessed it's hard to do everyday things but if you can pinpoint something you really want to change it can help you snap out of it.

    plus, just showering, even when you don't want to, automatically lifts your frame of mind. I know. I've been sick and depressed and never really feel like showering but when I do and pay attention to stuff like shaving, I feel like I'm normal again.

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    while you ponder what's going on, do one small task at a time, and make a list if you have to.....cross things off as you do them, and take breaks after you complete each small task. you'll feel more accomplished as things get done, and taking one thing at a time makes things more managable. nothing worse than feeling overwhelmed by a seemingly impossible amount of chores/things to do. reward yourself after you get X number of things done if it will motivate you. and do what fancy suggested so you can resolve these issues and get back on track...i agree, you might be depressed.
    "Seeing the landscape at this superficial level only captures its boring uniformity, not allowing you to immerse yourself in the spirit of the place; for that you must stop at least several days."

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    well i have just moved house and i am overwhelmed by the boxes i have to unpack. I have decided i will have a bath tonight and do the old clean up and see if that makes me feel any better
    thanks

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    I can relate completely Kitty.

    Making a list of goals you want to accomplish before the day is over really does help.



    constipated people don't give a crap --unknown

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    I second the whole list thing. When I get into one of those moods I am a list making queen because it is the only thing that will get me motivated. I take immense pleasure in being able to cross things off the list. Makes me feel accomplished.

    I always make every other item something kinda fun, so my list might look like this:

    Things to do:

    *wash the dishes
    *read the latest Vogue
    *sort my laundry
    *take a hot bath
    *go grocery shopping
    *do a mini yoga session
    *vaccum


    It might take longer then usual to get things done that way, but chances are if I'm feeling all blah and icky I wouldn't have been able to get ANYTHING done if I don't do it that way.


    Also, if this happens often, and cuts into your work, sleep, social time you might want to bring it up with you doctor.

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    Okay so at 3.00 I am going to start! here is my list:

    *Vacum!!
    *unpack 2 boxes!!
    *Clean Kitchen and unpack Dish washer
    *Clean my daughter (ashtyns) room
    *Maybe start on our room MAYBE if time permits.
    So i will have 2 ad a half hours to da all of this untill my hubby gets home then i am going to take a bath for all me good work!!

    thanks girls i hope this helps.

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    remember to get hubby to unpack some boxes while you're in the bath. you need help too! then you both can trade massages

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    i fucking hate lists. nothing is more depressing that not getting through your lists. if i had my way i'd ban lists. being a list-maker for far longer than i care to admit, i have decided they're shit.

    maybe i'm in one of those moods today too - and i had a shower already, though my hair resembles something out of whitesnake.

    anxiety is the devil. someone rated moving as high on the anxiety scale as death and divorce. meh. i'm moving in a couple of months too. (die boxes. die)

    wow - issues much? LOL. you can't possibly be as bitter and fucked up as me. Heh heh.

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    lol moving sucks a hell of alot. I feel like such ugly trash, my excema (sp?) has flared up everywhere. I have old pimply face, unwashed hair and i just feel like a complete retard. But hubby is always so supportive and helps out so much!

    I am hoping it is just one of those days and not one of those weeks.
    I know I am not ugly but i just feel like ugly shit bahhhhhhhhhh
    I love being able to rant to you guys thanks for listening and putting up with my shit!

    Alright I am going to start my list!!!! yay!

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    awesome. i love being 30 and having pimples. you're lucky you don't have whitesnake hair and a husband that does 'the pimple check' - where he takes my face, turns it side to side and examines me like a faux-dermatologist, saying 'hmmm', (probably secretly in hopes of finding one he can attack). even better.

    god-speed little list-maker. things can only get better.

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    Unpack 2 boxes-check
    Tidy Kitchen and dishwasher-check
    vacum-check
    clean my daughters room-nil!
    Feeling-shit
    But definatly am looking forward to massage tonight

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    awesome. now burn the list.... massage rules.

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    Lol i agree with that!
    Nice bath
    Great massage........................................... ..........
    You add the rest
    At least that will make me feel sexy

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