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    first night was last night. the club was dead but i got lucky with a few customers. i had a hard time doing multiple dances because i kept running out of stuff to do and also converstaion and they just started to creep me out after a while!!

    i feel sorta weird, like creeped out a bit. tell me this is normal please!!!

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    umm...not sure how that relates to selling your soul to the devil but anyway...

    it's often a bit awkward when you start dancing and there are always going to be rough nights. still, if you don't enjoy talking to customers and dancing for them, then maybe this isn't the job for you.

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    Don't worry about repititon. If the customer is happy then you are doing fine.

    Yes, it is a bit unsettling when you first learn how men really are on the inside. I'm sure there are some altruistic men out there, but they sure as hell aren't in the strip clubs. Most people are motivated by either money, power or sex. Altruism is also a motivator, but a very weak one.

    Stripping removes the rose colored glasses on the behavior of men, and yes, that is quite unsettling. Becoming a stripper is sort of like chosing the red pill to enter the Matrix. You can't undo it now.


    Promote yourself and earn more money! This is a business that is owned by strippers for strippers. Let's make that money!


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    paris thanks for that i guess it puts things into perspective. i guess it just sorta came as a shock... i'm hoping friday will be a little easier on me as a newbie being that there will be a higher turnover of customers so i don't feel like i have to get to know them.
    i guess it just takes time. sigh!

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    Repetition is one of the things that exhausts me about this job...but then again you get that in most jobs( how many times a day do McDonalds workers say "do you want fries with that?")
    Same questions all day, same conversations all day, same moves all day. But to each guy...its fresh and new to HIM.
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    I am willing to bet he doesn't really care that much about your dancing ability. He just wants you naked and seductive. And as far as conversation, find something special about that man and compliment him. Even if you think he is repulsive, there has to be some redeeming quality that you can boost his ego on. His eyes, his watch, his cologne, his tie or if he has a complex sounding job you can compliment his intelligence. When you run out of things to say tell him how wonderful he is. If he is creeping you out, ask him for a dance. If he says yes, then at least you'll get some money. If he says no, then you can leave and stop killing yourself with boring conversation that you're not getting paid for!

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    Hmm. I would try this:

    Before going in to work, look up some fun/interesting/current/sexy/whatever events on the net....stuff that YOU would enjoy having an easy conversation about. This way, you may not be as bored (I enjoy hearing others' perpectives on issues), and at the same time up your chances of selling that dance.

    Just a thought :p

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    Quote Originally Posted by liah
    Hmm. I would try this:

    Before going in to work, look up some fun/interesting/current/sexy/whatever events on the net....stuff that YOU would enjoy having an easy conversation about. This way, you may not be as bored (I enjoy hearing others' perpectives on issues), and at the same time up your chances of selling that dance.

    Just a thought :p

    i agree. but not all men are terrible. i've met some nice, interesting customers that are a pleasure to talk with. some of them just happen to like strip clubs. others come because they came with someone else and some of them just want someone to talk to. however, i get plenty of horny men looking to pick me up.

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    It's a hard job, but give it time. It will get easier! Don't give up so easily.

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    thanks to everyone who has replied. i am quite determined not to give up, i think i must just remember it's only a job and i am playing a part when i am there.
    the creepiness feeling has gone now i have looked at things logically. now i just need to practice these suggestions!

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    you'll get use to it, if there convo is starting to get creepy, change it.

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    Big thing about this job is, learn to set your limits (with both customers AND employers) and never change them WHILE on the job. Like, "I'll touch a guy's nipples in a dance, but won't grind on his crotch." Or, "My price for sex* is ten thousand dollars."

    In between shifts, if you think something might be worthwhile -- when you're back at home and in your comfort zone -- consider it. Think about it, and think about how you'd feel afterwards. It might seem a little different, or not.

    We are all free, but some things change you. How much do you want to change? I've felt that dancing over the last year has mostly made me stronger and a bit tired of a few things. I snap at people on the street who tell me to smile, but I have a good sense of myself and my place in the world, and I like it. I will only choose to do things that will change me when I want to change.


    * because almost everyone has one, really. Just ask at a party.

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    i thought it was seedy and sad when i first had a go but the more i see the more its just a big old laugh!

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