A few nights ago, a huge group of shady looking mexicans came on in. Usually I find them to be friendly and quite easy to chat with, but these guys looked pissed so I was kinda shy. About an hour later, one of them pulled me by the arm and said his friend demanded a lap dance. I was like, "Cool, show me to him." I was nervous already... so they show me to him and say, "Oh, he doesn't speak english, but that doesn't matter." Oh yes, honey, it does matter...
We sit on the couch and he immediately yanks my arm around him and tugs me in to sit on his lap. I didn't scoot in much so he puts an arm around my waist/ribs area and tries dragging me in... all the while I'm saying "relax, don't worry, stop being so grabby!" and such. Then he tries to pull off my top and I say, "I can take my own clothes off, just wait for the next song." He proceeds to dig his arm that is around my waist into my ribs real hard, and he keeps glancing around.
At that point, I am so nervous and freaked out I just pull away and walk back to the bar... practically in tears. He just stays back there too! Eventually the bouncer found him after searching and tried to tell him and his friends to leave. They do and I have a pleasant night in the end.
But I don't understand. Aren't people supposed to come into SCs for a good time? Some good clean fun? These guys seriously looked like they wanted a fight and the guy I went back with seemed to be trying to restrain me and grope... who enjoys hurting others?![]()




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I am glad the bouncer came to your aid. Some people are just masochistic sociopaths and masocistc sociopaths like to travel in packs. My ex-boyfriend and his friends were of that ilk.
I'm really sorry this happened to you. Cin is right - always go with your instincts and don't do anything just for the money. You didn't do anything wrong and he was totally at fault, but sometimes you can avoid future situations by using better judgement. Please take care...
Pretty shady.



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