Hi everyone,
I was hoping I could get some advice on a situation I've got:
Saturday I spent the whole night chatting with a customer doing occasional dances. We got on really well but spent the entire time chatting about marathon running and training etc etc. (my luck a blossoming marathon runner sits down with a semi pro!)
Maybe unwisely, exchanged mobile numbers and emails (seperate to my personal number/email). As it happens, he goes to a running club here that I'm keen on joining (although he said first he goes to it, didn't just agree with me once I mentioned it!)
He is aware that I am not single, am in a steady relationship, and am not interested nor offering any further than conversation about running, and he says he accepts and understands this. He's invited me to lunch next week, and I said I'd go. I've picked where, and it's a big busy area that I know well and feel safe in.
As I may actually run into him in local parks (pardon the pun) in the course of taking part in similar groups/clubs and potentially end up in the same 'marathon program' and also that I've made it clear to expect nothing further from me, is it unwise to meet him???? Have read soooo many things saying 'Don't meet customers OTC! Never!' that I feel unsure of what to do!! I don't want to break any cardinal rule but at the same time I think what's the issue here? It's certainly the only time I've considered this and wouldn't of with anyone else, extenuating circumstances????
Should I keep the apt ladies??? Phew* thanks. xxx
Confused in London![]()



) in the course of taking part in similar groups/clubs and potentially end up in the same 'marathon program' and also that I've made it clear to expect nothing further from me, is it unwise to meet him???? Have read soooo many things saying 'Don't meet customers OTC! Never!' that I feel unsure of what to do!! I don't want to break any cardinal rule but at the same time I think what's the issue here? It's certainly the only time I've considered this and wouldn't of with anyone else, extenuating circumstances????
Reply With Quote

Bookmarks