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    So... I work at a fairly large club in the south, weekends we pull about 60-100 girls depending the season. So lots of dramatic shit goes on I try not to be a part of.

    I've been robbed by some other women in there (long story, champagne $$ disappeared when I went to get cigarettes after hostess put it down w/o me there..to make it short), slandered, hated on, and once a chick tried to jump the ropes of the CR to fight me.. that was ridiculous. but other than the rope incident, it was all behind my back.

    What gives? I always confront people when I have problems. I'm friendly, upfront and I don't cut-throat. I have several good friends I work with but there are certain females that are just full of negative energy. If the club was smaller it would be a total drag-- thankfully its pretty big so I can stay away and stay focussed on why I'm there. Its just obnoxious to be whispered about right infront of your face. Petty bullshit. This familiar to anyone else?

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    And you have no ideas as to why these girls hate you? What they are doing seems more then just being some "haters" IMO. Don't take this the wrong way but are you a dirty dancer? I know the dirty girls at my club ALWAYS get the short end of the stick at my club. How long have you worked at your club anyway?







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    that's what I was thinking....you really have no idea why? If you don't, ask them because we sure don't.

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    LOL. What exactly is a "dirty dancer"? If that means sucking, fucking, etc, no. Am I sexual? Of course. I'm there to sell dances and make money. I am by no means prude.. but no, I'm definately not dirty. My club is very high mileage, you are on your toes hustling and by far, I am probably one of the LEAST diritiest girls at my club. Anyway:

    A lot of girls hate on other girls when they are getting money. I'm surprised you've never seen this happen. Its slightly refreshing. Maybe its because of the size of the club I work at. My room mate, who is very much into women, yet for work she will act like the biggest dick-hungry girl becuase well, thats what gets her money. BUT, it is an act. Its to sell champagne rooms. And she sells the shit out of them. And the stories people say about her are CRAZY. Completely false and made up either out of spite or jealousy.

    Do I have an idea why these women hate on me? Its not like a whole GANG of bitches, just a few bad apples-- but yes and no. For some instances I could pin-point each scenario but when you work in a club that has new girls all the time, has girls working there for 5-10 yrs, and a shitload of money during season, its going to get catty.

    I've worked at the club 2 years Funny thing is, I've seen this at other clubs too-- not particularly to me, but other women. Do you guys work at very high-hustle factor clubs?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kalligirl
    A lot of girls hate on other girls when they are getting money.

    Its not like a whole GANG of bitches, just a few bad apples-- but yes and no. For some instances I could pin-point each scenario but when you work in a club that has new girls all the time, has girls working there for 5-10 yrs, and a shitload of money during season, its going to get catty.
    I think you already know exactly what's going on!

    I'm lucky enough to be in a club where this type of attitude is pretty sparse. It's a "to each, her own" club where we are all generally friendly but pretty much mind our own business.

    When I was in Houston though, it was very cut-throat though. And yes, it was high-hustle, high-mileage. I got ALOT of shit because I was never in VIP "sucking and fucking" but still managed to always sell champagne courts and be a top-earner. We even had sour management that wanted their nightly cut and if you didn't spot them ATLEAST 10%of your earnings they would start making accusations about you. You had to basically "pay" them to be on your good side. Same with the doorstaff and VIP waitresses. IT was bullshit.




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    Well..for your club to be as big as it is..how are they still able to focus on you and yours?? That's my whole point. Sorry you're having such a hard time with being hated on. I dunno, I'm to busy working to care about how girls feel about me, much less care enough to rant about it.

    Dirty dancer: Allowing higher mileage than what the rest of the girls in the club do. For ex. if your club is no contact, and you let the occasional customer feel you up, then yea you're a dirty dancer. If you're in a club where med contact is the norm and here you go letting the customer feel your boobs and etc then yea you're dirty.







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    I was just ranting. I wanted to see if anyone else had similar situatiouns. I get a long with 95% of the women at the club. I think what set me off the most was last night a friend of my room mate had come over and told me some stuff that was said (COMPLETE BULLSHIT) and hence my rant at 7:00 am.

    I wasn't like "Damn why are they hatin..." It was more like.. "Damn, does anyone else know what I'm talkin about?" I should've clairfied it more. But I appreciate everyones opinions.. I guess it all depends on the club.

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    im having the same problem girls are hating because im new and made more money im friendly with everyone so i dont understand it the girl that told me that people are hating on me because i asked who? she said oh youll find out wtf?

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    Just let it ride... post your rant on here and it will make you feel better instead of holding back in the club and getting frustrated. It honestly makes me work harder when girls are hating because I try to turn the negative energy into a positive-- you're there to work, to get money, let them talk their shit because while their snappin their gums, you're out making $$$. I've had that problem at this one small club when I was 18 and green as grass-- a lot of the older women would yell at me over dumb shit "thats my chair" etc etc. buuuut, i feel ya girl

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    who cares if she rants, can't she do that on here cinnamon?
    to give you some actual advice instead of jumping down your throat like the rest
    maybe they are hating because your really pretty, or because you make more than them.

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    I hear you Kalligirl. We all need to vent sometimes about the competitiveness in the industry that sometimes leads to unjust accusations, and rumors. F the haters girl. They are just trying to get rid of you to take your money. When maybe if they spent more time focusing on their own money they would actually make more. I like this saying and I find it to be true. "Don't hate the playa hate the game." And whatever you do don't ask them why they despise you . The haters can hate a person for breathing to much. Even talking to them can result in drama so don't do it.
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    What I do is avoid the dressing room, unless i'm cool with all the girls present. I fthey want to talk shit behind my back, its like whatever, because I'll never even hear about it. As for the physicaql stuff, everytime it has escalated that much a manager has stepped in and got rid of the girls causing trouble. If a girl is trying to actually physically assault you, management should have gotten rid of her for it. At least thats what happens at my club when the girls can't act like adults.

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    Quote Originally Posted by stripperMBA
    I hear you Kalligirl. We all need to vent sometimes about the competitiveness in the industry that sometimes leads to unjust accusations, and rumors. F the haters girl. They are just trying to get rid of you to take your money. When maybe if they spent more time focusing on their own money they would actually make more. I like this saying and I find it to be true. "Don't hate the playa hate the game." And whatever you do don't ask them why they despise you . The haters can hate a person for breathing to much. Even talking to them can result in drama so don't do it.

    I agree with you! They starts spreading rumors, trying to cause drama, one girls went around telling the customers. I was bald and had a wig on!You dont want dance with her! I know Kalligirl every know again you just want to scream. But you just got to remember what stripper MBA said and this "They have insercurites they need to work on withthin them selves".

    The other day I was at the grocery store and I seen this cute adorable little girl with a cast on her arm with her father.(I had my children with me also)! We started having a conversation about her broken arm.( The little girl is playing with my daughter),Than the man wife came up to him yelling at ranting like, givng me the most evil looks. Her sister was getting ready to fight. I was like ok come on kids next lets go to aisle3. Her mother said I need to stop, talking to him and pay attention to my own kids. which mind u was playing with the little girl in my sight.

    My point is no matter where u go, and what u do, you always going to meet some insercure woman. Buy working in the a club full of them just make life more stressful. Thank God for stripperweb.
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    Fuck em'. The same shit goes on with guy staff too so you aren't the only one. Others trying to make you look bad will only reflect badly on them in the long run.....

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    Sometimes women just don't like women. I've seen girls talk badly about my friends behind their back simply because 'I don't like 'em'. No reason.


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    Thanks ladies. I was so anxietal about all this dramaslast night I didn't go into work. Reading all the posts made me think positive again--Thanks for your support. I'm going back in and just going to ignore the drama and do my thang. I won't let me get me down anymore!!!!!!!!

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