Kittykats07 post's kind of reminded me of how there are always things to learn, and for me lately, I feel that my hustling looks too much like hustling. Now, it's possible that this is a Vancouver thing. I have said the same thing to guys in other places, and they eat it up, while in Vancouver, they look at me and think, "she's trying to sell me something".
Lately, I feel like my hustling looks too much like I'm trying to sell them something as opposed to, "I'm so interested in you, let's have some private time together". As a result, I think that I've been getting a lot of nos. What can I do about this? At this club, I don't want to spend too much time talking to the customers because most customers don't get dances. In Vancouver, private dancing is not the norm and lots of guys practically don't know what it is so spending time talking to them feels like a bit of waste of time. On the other hand, I think I could benefit from having a few good conversation starters that are light, not too serious, that could lead to bringing up dances, or at least could lead to opening them up a little.
Any suggestions? Good short conversation starters?



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