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    I hate my hair. I really hate it. I (stupidly) got a body wave in my boob-length hair, the results of which have been split ends (lots of em!) and enthusiastic frizziness. I usually straighten it for work, which has the fun effect of creating *more* split ends (woot). It does look okay when straightened, though. I just hate damaging my hair like that. And I hate that it feels like straw.
    I can't fix it and straightening it permanently would only cause more damage. At this point, I want to cut it off. The body wave's grown out a few inches and I look cute with a short cut (blessed as I am with a round face).
    What I'm worried about is money. Do girls with short hair make less money? I know the ideal is a tan, big-boobied girlie with long hair. I'm already pale and my Bs are certainly not in the big-boobied category... would trimming my angry dead hair make me a poor, indigent stripper?

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    I dont think that the lenth of hair has anything to do with the buisness you get. Dont worry about it. goto youre hairdresser and get some deep conditioning treatments done. It will help with the dammage. Dont cut it off inless that is really what u want to do.

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    P.s. I have long blonde hair ( naturaly ) But i have been thinking of seriously going brunette because im so sick of blonde jokes and all the FAKE blondes out there..

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    you will regret cutting it.

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    get redken's super conditioning cream. I think they have some other options that are super good. There's also keratin which is expensive but supposedly AWESOME for treatment damaged hair. The good news is that you probably DON'T have to cut your hair. Also consider researching ceramic straighteners. I don't use them but I heard anything ceramic does a lot less damage.

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    Get maybe a one-inch trim and then condition, condition, condition. Also avoid blowdrying!! Try leave-in styling creams to give your hair a piecy, messy look instead of straightening it each time.

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    Ask a hairdresser what you could do to help ease the damage and if she says theres not much hope then cut it. Short hair wouldn't make you lose money - the only thing affecting your money in regards to your hair within reason is how confident you feel!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nautilus
    you will regret cutting it.
    you don't know that. my hair was past my ass for years and i cut it to chin length. i'll never go back. i think i look 100 Xs better with shorter hair, and the "i think" is what matters. sure, some guys prefer girls with long hair as an ideal. it doesn't mean they'll turn you down for dances. i can tell you this though, feeling like you don't look your best is NOT going to help you. if cutting your hair makes you feel sexier, THAT will be more likely to make you money. i've known plenty of top earners who have short hair. also, my hair has gone from long to short and back again (i need to cut it soon) and i honestly think i make MORE with shorter hair. likely because of the way i feel.

    another possible bonus to cutting it is that most dancers have long hair. it could help you to stand out more. basically my advice is to do what you want, what makes you feel like you look your best. make yourself happy first, and the money will come to you. afterall, it's confident sexy women that make the money, regaurdless of how long their hair is (as long as it looks good on them of course).

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    A lot of customers have told me they like girls with really long hair, but that didn't stop them from spending all their money on me and my shoulder lenght hair either way. so either way, it doesnt affect your money much if you are a decent hustler.

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    i have very short hair, and sometimes i regret it, but now it's at a length where it looks alot better than muy sinead o connor inspired hair.

    I make good $ with short hair. Some guys really love it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rozz
    Do girls with short hair make less money?
    Not to hyjack this thread, but I need to know this, too. I hate myself with long hair (anything past the shoulder irratates me). I want to hack it off so bad!!!!

    Here's my problem: When I started dancing three years ago, my hair was a cute, chin lengthed flipped 'do, and I was about 20 lbs lighter. Now, my hair is about 4" past my shoulders and I'm a bigger girl but I make more $$$ now than I did when I was super thin with short hair. I know my selling & hustling skills have dramatically improved , but I'm worried...

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    I HATE to say it, but the rule of thumb is longer hair = more money. I've talked it over with other girls. (I guess the exception to the rule is very kitten-faced, femme-looking girls.) I've regretted chopping my hair off. I hate having it long but I'm going to have to learn to live with it if I want to make more $$$.
    The long hair feeds into the male "hair-centered" fantasies, aside from being a traditional indicator of good health=fertile female.

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    to add to my last post... when guys DO love short hair (and they exist.. many of them) you're probably going to be the one (or maybe one of two or three at most) in the club who stands out.

    i was a top earner at my old club and i had the shortest hair there. again, do what makes -you- happy.

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    i really don't think it matters. i wear wigs sometimes, just because i wish i had great hair, but it really doesn't effect my income.

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    Thanks for the imput. I've tried to care for it, deep condition it and only used my ceramic straightener when absolutely necessary. My hair keeps acting like a shitty boyfriend, demanding and uncooperative.
    I think I look amazing with short hair and it would be really nice to cut down on prep time. Screw the idiotic fantasy crap, it's coming off! I'm hot as hell with or without the inches, and my fiance is already picking out hairstyles he thinks would look good on me.

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    That's cute!

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    Quote Originally Posted by rozz
    ry. My hair keeps acting like a shitty boyfriend, demanding and uncooperative.[/URL]
    My hair acts the same way.
    "Can we read it on the Smoking Gun? "

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    Quote Originally Posted by rozz
    I think I look amazing with short hair and it would be really nice to cut down on prep time. Screw the idiotic fantasy crap, it's coming off! I'm hot as hell with or without the inches, and my fiance is already picking out hairstyles he thinks would look good on me. This is his top pick right now.
    yay! good for you. btw, that haircut is incredibly similar to my last one. same color too, for the most part. i need to cut mine again though.. it's shoulder length now and is making my face look way too long.

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    fuck it, I'm doing it! I'm so sick of my hair!!!

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