Ok, so the other night I had a drunk guy that I was hustling for a dance. I took the "dominant" approach to get him into the friction room full well knowing he would be grabby (he and his friend had already been trying to get extras out of me, I am not an extras girl).
So when I started to dance and he got grabby I got a little rough and pinned his arms down to keep him under control. This worked well for the first part of the song, but then he got out of hand and it backfired...he ended up trying to insert his finger into my butt.
Naturally I was mad as hell...but when things like that happens and it is busy, I just brush it off, grab my money and move on because I don't want to waste my time. But it was uber slow, so I went over and got the bouncer so he could deal with the guy.
Afterwards I was feeling guilty for getting the bouncer because I full well knew the risk I was taking with the grabby guy.
I have found that a lot of aggressive guys like to be controlled or dominated, but when they are drunk, you walk a fine line. Does anyone else ever try this line of tactics? I'd love to hear ideas on this topic.![]()



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