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    My baby is due Nov. 16th...i gotta quit dancing either this week or next and chill out. thing is, i live alone, have no family, and pay my own bills and rent. because of Shawn...(u guys should know about him by now, if not look at my car stolen threads) i have a criminal record until the end of this month( i was arrested for theft ) and was later found guilty by association. (i didnt know he was stealing and i dont shoplift, im a stripper, i had money) so until i pay my fines, its on my record. now that makes it hard for me to get a job. what do i do?? i rely on dancing. i was stupid and didnt save....what i did have saved was all used to get myself out of the mess shawn got me into. im so scared and dont know what to do with rent, no car, no job....
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    "any suggestions" sounds pretty stupid. i mean, has anybody been in this situation before? Everybody says to lie about being arrested on job apps. but id rather be up front than to get caught later. at least they will see im honest. but that will make them see a thief...which im freakin not!! :::please dont let this child look anything like this man who ruined my life!::: I need to get on WIC.... i dont NEED it, but it would help. but being a stripper....soon to be out of work, i wonder if id qualify? and food stamps might be an option when i quit. i wanna find a job and work up till the baby is born, then go back the next day. im so confused.

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    Gee since this stuff is on your record. Can you get it sponge off! Than start you your own daycare business. You can be a partime nanny if you can get it sponge off your record.
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    The judge said he will have it EXPUNGED hehe (u said SPONGE....cute hehehe ) anyway... i will be allowed to ask to have it expuinged at the end of this month....but it might take a while before it actually clears. Yea, i thought about day care a while back when i was in military housing. gotta take a lot of classes..... at least if u wanna watch Navy kids. hmmmm... wonder what I gotta do to do that. my apartment is small though...and my lease is up this month....cant get around to look for apartments without a car. im bein stupid not looking, but i dont know where to start.
    ill look into day care though. just a lot to do to get certified. thanx for the advice!

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    Default Re: Baby due in Nov...what about my bills??

    Have you considered phone sex?? Being that you are pregnant and due soon, that may be a good option for you.






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    haha nah,not into that,...lol

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    Default Re: Baby due in Nov...what about my bills??

    Definantly get that expunged!! I have had to do the same in the past and it is definantly worth it. Also remember that there can be statutes of limitations on time you have to get the expungement. So do it as soon as possible. Atleast work till you can get that done.
    One of my former ESL students had her first baby here in the United states. She was able to get wic, food stamps, and into public housing. I would say definantly apply for all that you can as you will be needing it. But wait to do so till after you pay your legal fees as the amount you have in your bank account and your monthly income can affect how much help you will get. When you do apply for assistance actually go to the office to turn in your paperwork. Here is Texas you can get a receipt otherwise you may get a lazy government worker who is going to claim they never received the paperwork. My student also recieved help from a few local churches. I think it was one of those ones that always advertise the "Pregnant...Need Help" signs. Yeah they were annoying but they gave here pregnancy clothes, transportation, and food.
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    what about telemarketing? you can find companies that will actually give you benefits. you choose your own hrs. and don't leave the house. you work 40 hrs. for 3 mos. and your eligable for benefits. google it. but make sure you find something where you don't pay them!!!! also, what do customers say about your belly? got any pregnant fetish customers? has anyone at the club been rude to you about dancing while you are showing? oh, and there are some requirements, like dsl, and int. exp. 6.0. i also know of some places if you want the info pm me.

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    http://www.dca.state.fl.us/programs.cfm

    This one is in florida call and ask see if they can help you!It is best to call early in the morning, but Since you are pregnant and that thing call morning sickness can get in your way if you cant call in the morning pleaas call teo to three hours before closing time. or even trying using public tranportations
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    Manna Food Pantry 850-432-2053
    Catholic Charities 850-435-3500
    Pensacola housing department 850-453-7500

    I would also like to add that many cities have long wait list to get into their public housing. The Manna food pantry also had a mobile pantry.
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    thanx everybody...i will def. look into these places tomorrow!
    i wear a cute black dress that covers my belly but shows my booty.... which is my money maker. most people cant tell, if they do see anything....they say its sexy being pregnant.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Xiomara
    haha nah,not into that,...lol
    Who gives shit what you are into? It's called work, not 'play time' for a reason.

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    ^^^^ I am with lunch box on this phone sex was a great suggestion for you and it was rude of you to knock it like that hello kitty was just trying to help. Now sweeti I have been posting to you for a while and I care about your situation and i have to say you have to be willing to help yourself before your life will get better. Blowing off a perfectly valid suggestion shows me that you might be like that about alot of things. You do need to call the charities and you need to see if there is a genius (sp?) house in you area i am going to search for that now they will let you live there and take care of you while you are pg. It might be a challenge to get on public assitance with a record. The turned down my sisters boy freind becuse had a record. I realy hope this gets better for you soon please feel free to pm me i might even give my phone number so we can talk.

    ***i tryed googling genius house and i can't find anything on it but it is real i am not sure what the proper name is for this charity. My sister lived there during her first pregancy and they gave her free stuff for secound child.****
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    ^^^^^^^^
    Were you thinking of the Genesis House. That is a battered women's shelter as far as I know. I looked it up in Pesacola shelters for Pregnant women- Our Mothers Home 904-944-4885 or 239-267-4663. Also online www.pregnancycenters.org/ has a searchable database for resources.
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    ^^^^ well the pg women shelter in pittsbugh is the genesis hous becuse my sister stayed there her first pregancy maybe it is differnt elsewhere.

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    ^^maybe try spelling it correctly in your search?

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    I didnt mean to be rude Hello Kitty.....i think at the time I tryped that thread i was rushing. Anyways..... I have kinda thought about that but its not something I could do. Dont know how and Im a little uncomfortable doing that. Thanx for the advice though.

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    thats your baby in your avatar? how old? so precious!

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    Thank you. She'll be 3 November 14th. That picture was almost a year ago, i think.
    Thank you.

    get this..... Ahrie's birthday is November 14th. This baby is due Nov. 16th. My birthday is November 18th.

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    that's pretty frikin' weird.....gonna be some partyin' goin' on that week!!!!!

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    I know, Im excited about that. But chances are, the baby will be born early or late. I know she better not come on my birthday! LOL J/K , that would be a great gift. hehe

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    *Maybe u could sell on ebay for extra cash.Start by selling some clothes,shoes,clean out your closets.
    (Babysitting,just put an ad in the paper
    *(Maybe get a local paper route.I think they drop the papers off at your house so you wouldnt need to drive
    *Housecleaning,just place add in the paper
    *Maybe pawn old engagement rings ,jewelry,electronics in serious times in need
    *Get ahold of your city's trustee's or whatever they are called and they will help w/ your rent,maybe some local churches could help w/ that too and maybe w/ baby clothes and other baby items
    *Food Banks in your area?
    *Maybe sell plasma,? Not sure if safe while pregnant,but it pays 50 bucks a whop.Maybe do that once a week.There would be 200 a month.More if you have a rare blood.
    *Try calling your electric company for assistance ,if you dont have income,they will pay your electric,and gas.There is a normally a place that will take care of it.Call the elctric and gas provider for the info.
    *If you get HUD ,you get free rent.Maybe sign up for that since you already have a baby
    *Try any businesses walking distance where u live and apply.It doesnt hurt to try.
    Good luck!

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    misslovelady.... you are awesome. thank you. i used to clean houses for $400 a house, but its a ot of chemicals involved in that, sp maybe some lighter cleaning. thats a good idea

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    if the chemicals bother you cleaning houses you could wear a respirator so you don't breath them in. Could you find another job at your club like working at the door or cocktailing or something?

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    My club let another girl go who was a dancer, then worked the door....then when she got so far along they fired her cuz she had too pee too much. So thats out. Ill look int ohouse cleaning, I think I just got the form to renew my contractors license a few days ago. Must be a sign... hehe. I dont mind cleaning somebody else's house, just not my own! haha (i still do it though..lol) I wonder if people would be willing to hire a preg. lady to clean their house? Im not big, very small for 7 mos.. but still, its a little obvious. Do u think it would matter to them?
    haha... i just saw this ad in th paper " Person needed to clean house. $10/hr. 2 days a week. May encounter nudity." Hmmm.. lol

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