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    Hey Ladies! Before I get started, I just want to say thank you to everyone for all their advise/ words of encouragement, etc. I find this to be the best resourse for women thinking about this industry or those who are already in it. Kudos!!
    I'm still learning how to get my "hustle on", and I'm still not as quick on my feet yet. Ladies, what are your best rebuttals when a guy comes off with some excuse like "Already had a dance", "I'm gonna wait till I see you on stage", "I'm not ready yet", "How good is it going to be", "what am I gonna get", and my ALTIME FAVORITE....."I don't have/just ran out of money."

    I see that being a "nice" stripper is not fattening my pocket. Ladies help!!!

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    ‘I just ran out of cash” – I politely let them know that there is a cash machine/ bar takes credit card available

    “I want to wait for a good song/song I like” – Seductively say: You wont even notice the song when I start dacing for you

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    Depending on the situation, for alot of those I just take that as my cue to find a better target. Most the time, the guys who say that stuff really aren't buying (or really did spend all they could that day) so for me it's better not to waste anymore time there. I like to take the path of least resistance

    Oftentimes, if they are interested and they said something like "wanna see you on stage first", making the suggestion that if they don't get me now they may not catch me later gets them to go ahead and buy. I keep myself busy so it really is true - if they don't get me when I'm right in front of them, they likely won't get the chance again that night! Sometimes letting them know that in a playful way convinces them to go for it - or sometimes they will chase me down a little later.

    The best thing that sells for me is 1) I try to wear stuff that is attention-getting, makes me stand out from the sea of bikinis; 2) attitude; 3) wise-cracking lines; 4) I always look busy, even if I'm not - I never let anyone see me standing or sitting around for more than a minute or two and it makes a WORLD of difference!! And 5) I stay out there working! It is important to note that I didn't use these numbers as any indication of importance - just for easier list-reading.

    I'm all out of cash - "that's what the ATM is for!" wink wink as I press my cleavage up close or run a finger down his chest

    Wanna wait for a better song - "honey I could give you a hard-on to the beat of rhinestone cowboy but the music here is much better" giggle, wink. If he still resists I just tell him he can come find me when a song he likes comes on, if I'm not busy dancing for someone else! It works if he was interested in a dance at all.

    I'm not ready yet - If it's busy, "ok when you get ready you can come get me, if I'm not busy on someone else's lap!" If it's slow, "ok I'll come check on you in a few minutes" (and then go back in 10-15 if I'm not busy elsewhere). Sometimes if I think he might be convinced now I'll say something like "just gimme 10 seconds and I'll make you ready" as I put a hand on his thigh or press my cleavage closer, or some such.

    Do you do a good dance? - "Nah, I suck!" Pause, giggle. Sometimes I'll throw in "honey, I've been doing this 11 years, of COURSE I do a good dance!" That almost always gets a sale - with or without the 11 years comment.

    What am I gonna get? - "The best blowjob you've ever had!" Wait for him to look surprised, giggle, wink "Nah but it'll be a good time anyway" or something similar. Works alot.

    Making smartass remarks to their stupid questions is kinda my schtick. It works for me.

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    I have to agree with eveything that Bridgette said, and it's also great advice. It's very true that when a guy says things like that to not waste your time with him or waste that much time. To me, those are red flags that he's not going to spend and why waste your time with someone who's not going to spend. I'd much rather run into someone like that where I get a good idea within the first 30 seconds that he's not going to spend versus like the guy last night where I wasted too much time with this guy who had money (black AMEX, stayed at the Ritz Carlton) who didn't spend more than a drink and a couple dollar tip last night. His answer was I don't get dances because they're too impersonal, I'd much rather take you out to lunch. *gag, barf* Then when I was getting up to leave he said "I'm sorry for wasting your time" Yeah I bet you're sorry, conartist!!!!!!

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    ^^You could say something like "well you're right but a vip with me is VERY personal" wink wink, when he says dances are too impersonal He may or may not go for it but it has worked sometimes for me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette

    I'm all out of cash - "that's what the ATM is for!" wink wink as I press my cleavage up close or run a finger down his chest
    A better way to say this is to use it as an assumptive sale. In other words, "Well, before I start my first dance we can make a quick stop at the ATM machine." Great advice overall though Bridgette.

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    Yeah, but in the strip club, I think brevity is best. Anytime I can make my point in under 5 seconds, that's what I'm going for

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    When they ask "What am I gonna get?" you can avoid giving a direct answer by saying something like "You gotta pay to play" or "It's too good for words to describe and I have to show you" This way they might get a dance to see what you're talking about.

    Most guys that ask me if I'm gonna give them a good dance, if they'll enjoy/have a good time and have a dance with me (I don't make promises I don't keep, and I always say they will have a good time) they usually say that I am the best dance they've ever had. I don't know if it's because they had low expectations or never had a sensual dance, but I don't do anything illegal or "dirty", and it's surprising how pleased they are after my dances.

    SO basically, when they ask "what am i gonna get" they might not imply that they want a hand job or something like that.. maybe they just want to be assured that their are making the right desicion.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette
    "that's what the ATM is for!" wink wink as I press my cleavage up close or run a finger down his chest

    I'm not sure this one needs to be combined with assumptive sale or anything else!!

    Just reading it sounds good, and I NEVER do the ATM . . . You sound dangerous, Bridge . . .

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    "Already had a dance"
    ~But was it totally mindblowing? You haven't had one with ME and I guarantee you'll have a great time.

    "I'm gonna wait till I see you on stage"
    ~I don't know when I'm on stage next. You should take advantage of me being available right now .
    or
    ~People do enjoy my stage sets, but I'm letting you know now that my moves are way sexier during lap dances.

    "I'm not ready yet"
    ~Okay, I'll come back to you in a little while when (not "if") you're ready. (and call them on it by coming back if you have time)
    or
    ~I might be busy later on. Hopefully I'll have time to come back because I would really love to get naked for you. (similar to what Bridgette said)

    "How good is it going to be"
    ~Almost everyone I've danced for has gotten a big fat hard-on within like, 2 seconds (giggle).
    or
    ~A totally sexy experience can speak for itself better than I could! (giggle - can you tell I work in Southern California? giggle)

    "what am I gonna get"
    ~(see second example above)
    or
    ~A totally erotic dance with me, naked, paying attention to every part of your body! (sly smile - note that I said "pay attention to" and not "fondle". I can pay attention to a lot of things without touching them - hehehe - semantics!)


    and my ALTIME FAVORITE....."I don't have/just ran out of money."
    ~ I usually just walk away at that point...
    or
    ~I know a smart guy like you has a credit card. We take those too!
    or
    ~(point to the ATM with a cutesy smile and grab the inside of their thigh)

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    Quote Originally Posted by casaubon1
    I'm not sure this one needs to be combined with assumptive sale or anything else!!

    Just reading it sounds good, and I NEVER do the ATM . . . You sound dangerous, Bridge . . .
    Only to your wallet.


    Well, maybe to your manhood too if it's sensitive to high blood pressure

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    "I'm not ready yet"

    Well, then I will let you have your drink and I'll come back when you're warmed up.

    "How good is it going to be."

    How good is it going to be? It's not a dance, it's an experience. The best $20 you have ever spent in your life. (using HAVE, past tense, is key.)

    "I just ran out of money."

    Oh no! Well, the next time you come in, don't forget to ask for [my name] and I will give you the best dance you have ever had in your life.

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    So what do I say to the "I'm broke" guys?

    The nincompoops that run my place of employment thinks it's ok to have strip club and NO ATM machine! Idiots.

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    ^^Just move on, spend your time elsewhere. You can't draw blood from a stone!

    Sometimes they are lying to get you to leave, but still, there's nothing you can do...I once had a guy tell me his wallet was stolen/missing and I felt bad, even helped him look a little. Then I saw him getting dances from someone else.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette
    Making smartass remarks to their stupid questions is kinda my schtick. It works for me.
    Naw, your schtick is personal magnetism. I first saw you from 30 feet away in a loud, crowded Bellagio lobby in a swarm of people on a hot Saturday night and I knew exactly who you were. Instantly.

    I can see that working amazingly well for you in any club.

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    I kinda think that "best in your life" line is a bit tired and less-than-effective. And it sounds too much like a cheesy bullshit line, which to many people, is a turn off.

    Pleasure, yeah, if they say that and there's no ATM or credit card capability at your club, time to move on. They either REALLY don't have the money or are simply not interested. Waste of time to say anything else but "have fun then" as you put your game face on and move on to the next one.

    TOO - you also had the edge of having seen my pics beforehand, and I think between the red hair and big tits I stick out a little

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    Quote Originally Posted by AlexxaHex
    ^^Just move on, spend your time elsewhere. You can't draw blood from a stone!

    Sometimes they are lying to get you to leave, but still, there's nothing you can do...I once had a guy tell me his wallet was stolen/missing and I felt bad, even helped him look a little. Then I saw him getting dances from someone else.
    Lol What a pathetic excuse. I guess she 'found' it for him.

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    already had one....

    "oh good!, now your all warmed up and ready for some REAL fun!"

    or

    "well, now you've had entree, i'm main course and dessert rolled into one baby *wink*"
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