Ok, I put this in the newbie area, even though I am an old dancer. But it's kind of a newbie question. I want to go back to dancing, but as I am reading this site, I realized what nerd I really am. I never really knew how to hustle in a club. I always did better in modeling studios (and I mean legit modeling studios, not those brothels) cause I can't hustle. Well I am in Houston now, and every studio is a brothel. So I want to go to a club. But all those years I danced in clubs, I hardly ever asked a man to dance. I was too shy. I just relied on my looks, as I was young, cute, and new. Who isn't at 18? I usually made 100-200 a night, and left alot of nights owing money. I did have one night where I made $600, but that was a fluke. I was always nervous to ask a guy to sit, and then I would sit there for too long, and then never ask to dance cause I felt silly. It sounds terrible, doesn't it? Perhaps I am exaggerating a bit. But I hate asking for dances, and I think I would do good in a club if I sharpen my hustle skills. Do you guys think that maybe I should take a DW seminar?



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. I would sit @ the bar and just watch other females cash in, I use to hate it and they looked like ass compared to me. Another problem that I had was starting conversation with a guy what to say? I never knew untill today reading all thase girls articles that we are suppose to ask for a dance! better yet ask them mhen we are going to dance for them. Men never bought me drinks unless they offered is that how it is suppose to be or do we ask. Finding this site was the best thing that has happened to me, dude with out this site id be lost. so i only danced for less then a month but im going back U?
I Have The Same Question And Also Danced At 19 And Didnt Even Have To Ask But Was Always Busy. I Talk To Everyone All Of The Time Anyway So Conversation Isnt My Problem. Its The Transition From Talking To Asking That Bothers Me. Also I Hear From My Dancer Friends That You Have To Hustle More Now As Opposed To 5 Years Ago. Thats Why I Am Taking Forever To Go Work. Also, What Club Are You Working , Or Going To Be Working At. My Girlfriends Work At Centerfolds But Discourage Me From Working There Even Though I Was Already Hired. I Have No Idea How To Hustle. I Just Either Watched For Men Making Eye Contact And Went Over, Started Talking , And Sat Down Or Had Someone Grab Me. I Want Opinions On Clubs Because None Sound Good Except Tmc But I Dont Want To Go There Until I Am More Confident.

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