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    Sorry ladies this is yet another man rant. Thanks for listening! So I met a guy (at work which I don't do) and right off the bat there was a lot of chemistry. I said screw it and gave him my number and we proceeded to see each other our one day a week. He is always busy with work.

    The guy is rich, handsome and charming and I knew that he was a player. Him being 41 and from a family with more divorces than Liz Taylor, he definitely had some issues. Heck, who doesn't. So I took the relationship for what it is and didn't really invest any emotions into it.

    Well, 2 months later he starts throwing around the word, "girfriend" around his buddies and tells me he is a one woman sort of guy. He starts telling me he misses me and wants to go on a trip and I think there might be something here. Maybe he wants something a little more meaningful. So I decided to let my guard down and actually let myself like the guy.

    So on labor day, I am at his house and I see pantyliner wrappers in the trash and a pair of girls sandals laying around. Little things that guys don't notice and girls do. Obviously a female was there and I was instantly annoyed but didn't say anything. He did tell me he had people visiting but there are 5 bathrooms in his house and no reason for a girl to use the one in his bedroom.

    So I have tried to justify it but I am not stupid. The guy is a player and what I don't get is why he had to put a label on our relationship. I would have still fucked him and hung out with him our one day a week. He led me to believe that the relationship was going somewhere so I let myself really like him. All my friends just tell me to blow him off and "kill him with kindness." When he calls just be sweet and say you are busy. They said that will annoy him more than if he knows I am mad at him for something.

    Last night I worked and I made 200 bucks when I normally average 800. I just wasn't in the mood and felt stupid for falling into this guy's charm when I knew he was a player from the start.

    Oh well, I will get over it and today is another day to get back on track and make some money. *Sigh* are there any good single men left in LA?
    "I love little girls they make me feel so good" -oingo boingo

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    Yea, I notice that when Im out of sorts over a guy my money goes down. Another reason I like to save my calls and text messages for after work. I visualize myself as a different person in a different world totally making either like the other. In my other world I left whatever was bothering at the door and get down to work.

    I hope your mind stays clear of his actions. I think it would be fun to ask him about it and see what kind of turd answer he can come up with. Other than that I like your friends idea.
    you live like an ivy vine
    you can only survive by clinging onto trees
    that's your flaw
    put down some roots so you can stand on your own
    -Kenpachi



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    he totally sounds like a womanizer... I can bet you those sandals and panty line wrappers were from another one of his girlfriends... best to keep your guard up and take it for what its worth...

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