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    A good friend of mine wrote this, is it a line of BS or do you think he's for real? Would you buy it? I know him so I know how he is, let me know what you ladies think please.

    I am writing this letter with a heavy heart...I am admitting to an addiction...most people will laugh about this, but it is a serious problem of mine...and it is ruining my life...

    I AM ADDICTED TO SEX!!!

    I am asking that anyone that reads this takes it seriously...(you can still laugh, but know it is serious too)

    It seems like every woman I meet I just have sex with...my success rate with women and sexual encounters is amazing to me...recently I met a woman, and like normal expected to meet her and have sex with her...but she did not want to...she said she wanted to wait...and she really meant it...when she said that she also made a statement that made me feel like shit...because I realized sex has consumed my life...she said "what ever happened to being able to go to a guys house and just watch movies" when she said this it was like a loud siren in my head, and more importantly in my heart...


    I am not trying to hurt anyone with this letter, but if I do I apologize...this is me screaming and pleading for help...I do not want to have sex with anyone again until I am in a committed relationship...SERIOUSLY stop laughing now please...lol alright so I laughed too...

    So I know this sounds stupid, and you are probably asking yourself why do I just not have sex...it is not that hard...well it is for me...I cannot stop thinking about, acting on it...and when I do it...well I cannot get enough of it...it has consumed my life, and has cheapened my values...I will actually have sex with someone I do not find attractive, or interesting, and most of all even would consider dating...I just say and do whatever I can to have sex with any person...and that is not right for me to do...to them, or myself.


    So now I am asking anyone out there to be respectful of what I am asking, and help me through this...I am not sure how I became this guy, but this is the exact person I never wanted to be...I have always prided myself in being a gentleman, and that part of me has been mssing for a long time...


    I am going to have a very tough time with this and I will need the help of all my friends on here...if you are a female...please understand that I am not a bad guy...I just have a problem with sexual desires...


    I think that I am using sex as an emotional fix for what I lost in my marriage...companionship, closeness, passion, and the ability to be with someone...I am not comparing anyone to my ex wife, but at the same time. I need to stop treating myself like a boy toy....(thanks for that title Shannon...) I deserve a great woman, and I have been settling for just anything...I have not taken the time to find greatness in anyone...

    I am not being mean to any one woman with this letter, but being honest to all women of myspace land...I usually can tell first meeting someone if I am interested in spending time with them outside of a sexual relationship...and I can honestly say there are less than 5 women I can see myslef wanting to get to know better, and three that I could even give a shit about...that is horrible to say, but thats the truth, and I need to be honest with myself and start trying to respect myself enough to wait to have sex with someone before just jumping in the sack with them...

    If I cannot respect myself enough to wait...should I expect a great woman to want to be in my life...I am not saying the women I have been with were easy, I just talk the talk, and I admit I tell them what they want to hear to get the end result...after it is all over...we just move on...thats bad, and that is what I want to eliminate...

    SO I guess what I am saying here is...I am going to be alone for a very long time, because this letter probably just put the last nail in my coffin...but that is alright..I feel so much better having said all this...


    I am saying all this in hopes that people will not be discouraged to date me, but let's just date...I am going to start telling people that I am not interested in them before we even go out...if that is the case...this is going to be very hard for me, because I am very bad at hurting peoples feelings...but I am destroying my life by living this way...

    Alright well I think I covered all the bases...I am sure the world as I know it will change now, and I truly hope that is the case, because I want to be the guy I am deep inside my heart...the guy you all read about...the guy who writes his heart on paper and blogs....I want to be the good guy again...

    Thanks, and I look forward to seeing what the future brings....
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    Wow, huh. If he's not serious he just totally fucked his sex life. I know sexual addiction can be a very real problem. I would call him see what's up, maybe he could really use a friend right now.

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    I tried no answer. He lives 4 hours away so I can't go see if hes ok.
    “Since the ACLU is trying to take away the word ‘Christmas,’ we thought it would be a great time to send the group a Christmas card this year. If everybody did this, they would be buried in mail.”

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    Seems pretty real to me..

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    Quote Originally Posted by big_daddyII
    I think that I am using sex as an emotional fix for what I lost in my marriage...companionship, closeness, passion, and the ability to be with someone...I am not comparing anyone to my ex wife, but at the same time. I need to stop treating myself like a boy toy....(thanks for that title Shannon...) I deserve a great woman, and I have been settling for just anything...I have not taken the time to find greatness in anyone...

    This is the most telling paragraph in the letter and makes me think the addiction is the real deal.

    The mere fact it isn't making him happy anymore but he is still "using" makes me think it is real.


    I do wish I was in a position where I could plead with women to stop putting out for me.

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    Sex Addicts Anonymous. He can find a meeting in his area online. There is also Sex and Love Addicts Anon, a bit different. I saw this type of person often when stripping. Its seriously a problem, as dangerous an addiction as any.

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    A close friend of mine is a chronic sex addict. For him, group therapy was a huge help. Later on he began running marathons and he's doing well now. He learned from his psychiatrist that participating in extreme sports, including marathons are often really helpfull for sex addicts.

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