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    let me tell you a bit about my last week at work...

    on tuesday i had a guy rip down my thong within the first 3 seconds of the song during a VIP dance and violently grab my crotch. i told him he couldn't do that and started to move away, and he grabbed me and said "do what i want or you aren't getting any of my money". i kicked him, walked out and had him thrown out.

    on thursday i had a guy pull his cock out of the bottom of his shorts while i was dancing and start masturbating. i was turned around and could see him in the mirror. same action taken ...basically.

    later on thursday i had ANOTHER guy in the vip pull his cock out while i was above him... (my head was higher than his and i couldnt see him) and then try to push me down on it.

    on friday i had a guy at the stage bark orders to see my pussy (i don't work nude right now) and tell me he wanted VIP when i got done.

    i didn't do the vip. why? well, besides the fact that he asked to see my pussy, he also said "have you perfected your private dance?"

    which, very oddly enough, is something all of the 3 previous offenders said. i didn't put it all together till the 3rd time. i'm at a new club right now (AND DESPERATELY SEEKING ANOTHER). i've had things happen in the past at other clubs, but NEVER to this rate or degree. i seriously need to find a better place. anyway, does anyone know if "have you perfected your private dance?" is a code for doing extras?? maybe i should ask on the blue side?

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    Oh that sucks Penny. That's awful. I find when guys at my club ask for specifics about "what I do exactly" when my vague answers are unsatisfactory they usually are looking (sometimes just grabbing) for extras in the back. The decent guys just agree to a dance, they don't get so 50 questions to know every little detail about what I'd do.

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    i should have known. i think i -did- know with at least one of them, but the lack of money in my bank account had me put my intuition to the wayside. uhg.. never again. i just need to find a place where there plenty of decent guys, so that i don't even have to -think- about sitting with someone who seems sketchy. i just hate tampa right now. i used to have more fun, and i still WANT to have fun. i just want respectfull (not mean/rude) customers who want to have a good time, without extras. why is that so fucking hard to find right now?

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    I dunno if it's the time of year or what, but I've noticed a sharp increase in these guys' numbers around here too. Haven't had anything as bad as you though... yikes! The worst customer I got all week was a guy who kept trying to kiss me (I REALLY hate that!) and I told him not to kiss me again or I would stop dancing. So about 20 seconds later, he kissed the small of my back. He couldn't understand why I stopped dancing and started getting dressed!

    "Wait, wait, I'm sorry! I'm so sorry!"

    Yep. I know you are. Because you paid the full price for a dance and now it's over after 30 seconds and you're not getting your money back. <smirk>

    Just get your money up front so you can walk away and not lose out.

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    I had a guy last night who kept trying to put his fingers in my mouth. Nasty motherfucker.
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    I don't think it's code, but I've had many guys say this and this kind of condescending macho shit is very indicative of a guy who is going to push you to your limit and beyond. It's kind of like, "What do I get back there?" or "Why should I get a dance from you?" The nice guys never say shit like this.

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    I've pretty much found that. with very little exceptions, any variation on "what will I get" " how good are your dances" "am i going to be happy/get my moneys worth/have a good time/etc...."
    means they want extras. I dont wast my time..I tell them that I give a great dance if thats what they want, and if they are looking for something more, theres a toothless crackwhore on Federal Blvd that would be more than happy to accomodate them( I say it jokingly...but it is a test). Either they apologize for sounding like they were looking for more(and those guys I usually bank off of since they are so sorry they offended me) or they make some comment about being able to get what they want in other clubs...Either way I know immediatley whether they are worth my time or not.

    " i just want respectfull (not mean/rude) customers who want to have a good time, without extras. why is that so fucking hard to find right now?"
    Welcome to South Fl.....the land of "extras" clubs. Used to be really fun and easy to make money..I actually looked FORWARD to going to work every night...couldnt wait to get there because I banked every night and it was just a big party that I got paid for. Not so much anymore.....and people wonder why I go out of town so often!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl
    I had a guy last night who kept trying to put his fingers in my mouth. Nasty motherfucker.
    God I hate that...what the hell is anyone supposed to get out of that??? I mean, I dont get turned on by someone sucking on MY fingers!!!

    Whenever I get this....I bite their finger. Hard. They dont do it again....but funny enough...I've never had a guy stop dancing with me because of it. Maybe thats what they are looking for??? Who the fuck knows...some guys are just freaks.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Pretty_Penny
    i just need to find a place where there plenty of decent guys
    Tell me about it. I admit, if I can get a guy to buy a dance, even if I can damn well tell he's gonna be an asshole, 9 times out of 10 I'll get the dance. I just know I'll have to smack his hand a few times and not turn my back once. I *hate* having to fight over what $20 is worth. But sometimes it's not like there's a sea of worthy gentleman in the club. Sometimes it's just jerk after jerk and you have to fight and deal until you finally find a nice guy (or else, walk out with next to nothing).

    But for my sanity I still don't even bother, and in fact excuse myself to flee those 10% of mega-jerks. There was this guy I was sitting with once, and I said something about the girl on stage (I'm friendly with her, and she's a nice, pretty girl). He said "Oh yeah, that Mandy girl, I used to get her to dance for me but now she avoids me, I dunno why...". Talk about red flag. But I went for a dance anyway, and sure enough, just creepy creepy guy. There are customers that I've blacklisted and just won't dance for. Not worth it.

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    Have you thought about moving to a different town or city to find a better club? Gosh, I'm so sorry to hear about all that sh$t you had to deal with!!! xoxo

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    Quote Originally Posted by leogirl876
    Have you thought about moving to a different town or city to find a better club? Gosh, I'm so sorry to hear about all that sh$t you had to deal with!!! xoxo
    A. i can't afford to relocate right now
    B. i'm in school full time and moving would really mess with things.
    C. my boyfriend of over 4 years lives with me and works in tampa as well.

    *sigh*

    thanx for all the nice comments btw.

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    I love questions like: "What do I get back there?" or "Why should I get a dance from you?"

    Why? It allows me to show my witty humourous yet not bitchy side.

    "What do I get back there?"
    You get a nice comfortable couch, less noisy music and my naked soft self all over you.. breathing in your ear... touching you... and well.. the rest you will have to find out.. I bet you're ready now, aren't you?

    If they don't sell at that point. Yeh. I move on.

    "Why should I get a dance from you?"
    My standard retort is "You shouldn't get a dance from me actually. I'm so utterly horrible, crap and have no sense of rhythmn. I don't even know what the words sensual and erotic mean. That's why I had to audition to get hired at this club. They only hire the worst of the worst here." with a wink


    It is threads like this one that remind me of why I am a private party dancer these-days. There is just so much more control and due to the xxx nature of the show anyway (usually)... they don't "try" anything! Really. If they do, the security I have usually gets involved quick smart. When I don't have security, I can still easily remove myself from the situation. I'm always paid up-front. No show or topless girl until I am paid (if it's a cash booking).

    Other than a from me as I have totally been there so I can empathise. I don't really have any other advice as you seem to know what to do already (you're searching for a another strip club to work within). In the end the only way for you to win in these situations is to be paid up-front and establish the rules at the beginning of the dance...... however since that seems to not be the norm in the good ol' USA (why? I have no idea..) then I can't really be of any further assistance.


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    This is probably the #1 thing I DON'T miss about dancing but man can I empathize! Customers like these are just...toxic. To me the $ was never worth the feeling I'd leave with after being around them.

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    I'm also glad to be retired. I would get as much $ as I could off of these guys until I couldn't live with myself any longer. Than I'd have them kicked out. But I always felt like a shitty human being constantly having to fight their dirty fingers from trying to enter my panties.. I really wish the clubs would photograph these men before kicking them out, and have the photos up in all the dressing rooms.

    St. James actually had some photos, and credit card receipt copies with names of guys who stiffed the WAITRESSES on their drink tab. Of course, when it came to the club's money, they cared....

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    ^^Yeah, it's when I'm with a real asshole that I think "oh my god, I hate this, I can't do this anymore". And then I drink a red bull, get a string of decent customers, and the feeling goes away. Until the next jerk comes along. I just try to remind myself that it's a spectrum and there can only be so many creeps in one night. But if I've met the creep quota, I just leave. I don't care. Some nights I just can't take any of their crap, even if I have to leave all their money behind.

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