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    Dancers Get Jealous?

    Ladies, do you ever get jealous having just had some good conversation, maybe a lap dance-- only to watch the customer get a lap dance right away with another girl? I know it is a business, but when a customer says you are the best, prettiest or nicest dancer girl, then immediately hangs with another dancer does that bother you?

    Just wondering...

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    frustrated, but not jealous

    I get the same feeling when I'm playing texas hold 'em and I think I have the best hand and I don't win the pot.

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    It only bothers me if he talks to me awhile and enjoys my company and then doesn't get a dance with me. I understand that variety is the spice of life and he might like to get dances from several different girls; that's no problem. And I understand if I'm just not his type. I only mind if he DOES seem to like me and he spends some of my time, and then I don't make any money off of him. That either pisses me off or makes me feel insecure, depending on how my night is going.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dighost
    but when a customer says you are the best, prettiest or nicest dancer girl, then immediately hangs with another dancer does that bother you?

    Just wondering...
    Not jealous, pretty much what Yekhefah said. It's quite harsh when it happens repeatedly on a bad night as well meaning as some customers may be trying to be. I get all of the above alot, without meaning to sound full of myself. Most nights it's fine, people who say it and tip or get shows or just leave without spending money on anyone - I like it when people go out of their way before they leave to come up and shake my hand and say how much they enjoyed my stage show for instance even if they haven't spent any money or I havent spoken to them at all during the night.
    Some nights though I hear it over and over again and make next to nothing. I dont have a problem as such if customers get a show with one of the other dancers - I am shit at husstling and some of the other girls work hard to get shows, that's life, and of course the customer may prefur the look / personality of someone else over me anyway regardless. It does get to me though when customers then come back and complain about the show they just had and tell me they should have booked me afterall. Well HELLO!!! Im not sure how they expect me to act to that.

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    Jealousy implies that I actually care about the customers, which, for the most part, I do not. There's always another one (or hundred) around the corner.
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    It BUGS me when they talk with me for a bit and they give me compliments but 'they don't get dances' and five minutes later they're going upstairs with BIGTITS. Like geezus Christ, doesn't personality mean shit these days anymore?


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    Quote Originally Posted by lilithmorrigan
    It BUGS me when they talk with me for a bit and they give me compliments but 'they don't get dances' and five minutes later they're going upstairs with BIGTITS. Like geezus Christ, doesn't personality mean shit these days anymore?
    yes! that is irritating. ah, and there are some nights when it seems like you just aren't anyone's type, bleh

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    Quote Originally Posted by georgiapeach
    yes! that is irritating. ah, and there are some nights when it seems like you just aren't anyone's type, bleh
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    Quote Originally Posted by lilithmorrigan
    It BUGS me when they talk with me for a bit and they give me compliments but 'they don't get dances' and five minutes later they're going upstairs with BIGTITS. Like geezus Christ, doesn't personality mean shit these days anymore?
    So for sure big tits equals no personality, right? When I got my implants I had a personality reduction, good thing personality doesn't mean shit!

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    wow, sometimes a guy just wants what he wants.

    Maybe he wasn't digging your personality and Miss BIGTITS told him what he wanted to hear?

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    No- as long as he doesn't spend more on her than he did on me

    Yeah, it stings a little when I see a guy I danced for go to the VIP with someone else, or get 20 dances or whatever, but it's not jealousy...or it is, but I'm jealous of the money she's making, not that he 'likes her better'.

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    I meant when she doesn't even say anything or when you know she has no personality. There's a girl who's more dense than a block of wood but guys tell me that even though they hate talking to her that at least she has a nice rack. Sorry for the generalization.


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    yeah, there's been times when a guy ditches me for Ms. Smalltits. Most guys are able to be hustled by a good personality but some are just so superficial that they just want something that looks good to them, even though it's a complete idiot. As for the originl question, not jealous, just irritated, annoyed, frustrated, broke, etc. . .

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    Morri, you ARE BigTits, or at least you were the last time I saw you. Anyway tonight I kept getting ditched for LameAccent so I know what you mean. My new glasses are in and I will pick them up tomorrow or Thursday, so maybe I will start raking in the dough as Sexy Librarian. My fingers are crossed.

    Tonight I did get "jealous" in a sense, when the guys who swore up and down to me that they would love a dance but just didn't have the money wound up getting dances from another girl. One guy told me he would love a dance but first he had to go outside to put the top down on his convertible and he would be right back. He went outside, came back in, and got a dance from someone else, while giving me a little shrug. Grrr. Why not just say no??

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    Quote Originally Posted by dighost
    Ladies, do you ever get jealous having just had some good conversation, maybe a lap dance-- only to watch the customer get a lap dance right away with another girl? I know it is a business, but when a customer says you are the best, prettiest or nicest dancer girl, then immediately hangs with another dancer does that bother you?

    Just wondering...
    No. It's just those guys letting their full pig tendencies free. Can't take it personally. They really do mean it for the time you're in front of them. Then they mean it again when the next one comes along. It's part of what we call Customer Shit. It gets deep.

    This is why you're supposed to treat them like busses. In 5 minutes, another will come along.

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    I know it is a business, but when a customer says you are the best, prettiest or nicest dancer girl, then immediately hangs with another dancer does that bother you?
    Try this version:

    I know it is a business, but when a dancer says you are the best, most handsome or nicest customer, then immediately hangs with another customer, does that bother you?

    Just the flip side of the equation, nothing more, nothing less. Like B said, it's CS versus SS in a never-ending battle for dominance and victory. : Movie guy voice: In a world...

    That said, it's still pretty poor CS if there ever was, since it only creates the potential for drama later.

    It's much easier to tell a dancer, "Thanks, I'm not interested," and be done with it. However, I admit that method requires a modicum of testicular fortitude that a great many customers lack.
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