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    Too hard for my own good

    Alright first off let me say...I love that I found this web site.
    I bartended in an exotic club for about three years and even filled in dancing but I just never could get it, the girls tried to help me but I am a bitch or something...I'm goth and I want to make the money.. my son and husband need it but I have anxiety or a bad attitude.
    Please give me some boosters.

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    The goth thing is hard to pull off. You need just the right attitude, and most guys believe in stripper steriotypes. Many of them will assume you're a lesbian or do drugs or w/e. It's intimidating. This job puts a lot of pressure on us to look nice and always be happy, so if you can do that and are a decent hustler, you'll do good. Go into it knowing you'll succeed, that should help. Also, biggest advice: don't act like a bitch! That can work, but you have to understand when and how.

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    With the attitude you can make good cash. Dress as a dominatrix, dance to goth music the customers can relate to (Marilyn Manson, Type O neg, The Cure, Rob Zombie etc.) and you'll have the men wanting to dominated flocking to your stage.

    Make sure you are in a club that has this kind of clientele. Older rich white guys are the ones who most use dominatrix services. Study up a bit on what the customer expects from a domintrix dancer, and you should be rolling in $$.


    Promote yourself and earn more money! This is a business that is owned by strippers for strippers. Let's make that money!


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    Hi, maybe just try toning your look down a little and practice smiling and making good eye contact with people. You want people to think you're approachable when they see you or when you talk to them.
    Sometimes I take a second or two before replying to think about what I'm about to say, then find a way to either rephraze it or say something different which wont go down like a lead balloon. In this job I find that I can get away with being myself most of the time, but it's just a matter of smoothing out some of the edges.

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    I really just want to whip people, pull there hair, spank them, call them names aznd get free drinks plus tons of cash but I could try being nicer... if I have to.
    I do ok as a bartender , maybe I get nervous when I'm naked but I am not that insecure(I'm sorry I don't always spell so well)

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    Most people are scared at first of being naked for the world to see. Don't worry to much about nerves, it's normal.

    Also, there is a girl in my club who does the dominatrix think, and she usually either banks or does horrible. I guess it evens out.

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    instead of dancing, have you looked into actually being a dominatrix. Are their dungons in your area?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rylee one
    I really just want to whip people, pull there hair, spank them, call them names aznd get free drinks plus tons of cash but I could try being nicer... if I have to.
    I do ok as a bartender , maybe I get nervous when I'm naked but I am not that insecure(I'm sorry I don't always spell so well)
    Lol, maybe you should check out your local dungeons / BDSM scene and look for employment opertunities there?
    Otherwise with some patience you could probably build up some sort of customer base made up of submissive type people, but if you seriously want to make $ you'll probably need to be a bit more "versitile" especially to start with
    My spelling is shit also, lol!

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    well, that would be great but I'm in bum f*ck egypt...formally known as the bible belt...oklahoma..no dungeons. I had a friend who worked a dun in texas and she made 300 dolllars an hour for like 2 to 4 hours jumping up and down naked on live grasshoppers...wierd but cool

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