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    Ah, no problem, I was just curious. Not trying to insult. Thank you. And fancygirl, when I asked the question it wasn't because I thought she was 'lower class' and had poor spelling. I just figured I had misread something and wanted to know what she meant by it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by fancygirl
    Guys, I realize that Leila's posts are really frustrating to read, and I also think that because of her grammar and spelling and sentence structure, we're grouping her with the lower class girls that are causing her so much strife.
    As I've read her post in body business, I don't think she's saying, "hey, look at me! I'm so happy I finally beat her ass!." I think she's honestly surprised by being overcome by her emotions because of all the stress she's been under during the anniversary of 9/11. She's just crap at explaining that because she does try to justify her actions a bit by talking about how much shit these girls talk, and how they've tried to attack her in the past.

    Obviously, Leila needs counseling to help her deal with her friend being taken in such a manner, but ya'all need to stop saying, "I hope you get sued" and all this and that bullshit. How would you feel if you were literally overcome by your emotions and could not control what you did? It sounds like that's what happened here. She feels bad, and while she thinks that this girl did, in the end, deserve physical punishment it more sounds like leila didn't want to be the one to hand it out. She's stressed out, no one (according to her) has helped protect her, and she finally just fucking snapped.

    Ya'all just need to shut up and consider what that's like. And if you've never been that close to getting out of control and seriously hurting someone, well bully for you. I don't see this as a regular issue for Leila. She's not routinely having smack down sessions with bitches. It happened once, and Leila-- you need to understand that if you don't get help, there is a chance that this is going to happen again repeatedly. Not that you'll necessarily hurt THIS girl again, but what if next time you snap and you hurt someone you care about? or you hurt yourself? or you continue to do things you wouldn't normally do?

    Now, from a legal point of view, if she does go to seek counseling on her own before any legal repercussions come down the pike, I think the judge would be more lenient because s/he would recognize that Leila first recognized that there was a problem and that she was, indeed, taking responsibility for her mental state that made the violence occur in the first place.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lilithmorrigan
    Ahhh, normally I can translate what you say but you totally lost me on:

    "People be like you going let them do that you!"

    Are you reffering to me or what people said to you?

    Your posts are always so difficult to read. Always the wrong tense and structure. What's your first language?
    I put this in to my translator, and I think this is what she was trying to say (I have added punctuation and then a translation)...

    "I be like, 'You going to let them do that to you?'"

    Meaning "I feel like I shouldn't let them do that to me."

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    What does the club have to say about all of this??
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Hyde
    I put this in to my translator, and I think this is what she was trying to say (I have added punctuation and then a translation)...

    "I be like, 'You going to let them do that to you?'"

    Meaning "I feel like I shouldn't let them do that to me."


    The people who witness the verbal abuse. Did say " You gonna let them do you like that".


    Meaning -> Are you just going to let those girls. Do those things to you!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella21
    What does the club have to say about all of this??


    This happen to me at school. These girls never been to my club. These girls are from another side of town.
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    At first when I read this, I was just as shocked as everyone else. But then I thought, gosh, the girl snapped. And who's not guilty of "snapping" once in awhile? Remember that kid in A Christmas Story? How he was tortured every day by that ugly little shit on his way to school, and one day he just couldnt take the abuse anymore. I think she knows it wasn't the smartest thing to do -there DEFINITELY could be lawsuits, but to judge her from a moral standpoint and say she's crazy...come on. When you are relentless and cruely bullied, and you fear for your life and you take the proper precautions to try and stop the abuse and it doesnt happen, is it fair to say that most of us would not act if provoked enough? No one else here is capable of "snapping?" Please.
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    Are you still in high school? This reminds me of highschool behavior.

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    Leilani, maybe I can relate a little more than some others, because I've been in a fight or two myself. They raise us mean out west.

    It IS scary to get so angry and scared that your emotions overcome you. Maybe you thought you were defending yourself, or maybe you were just sick and tired of being picked on. But the adult thing to do is to develop some control over our anger and fear. I know that you know this, or you wouldn't have posted about this.

    Remember that you're actions are always always always your responsibility, no one else's. Though it may not have felt like it, you had many choices about what to do when those girls were talking shit to you. Fighting was your decision. Saying that the other girl's behavior MADE you act that way you did is just victimizing yourself even more by claiming that you had no control over yourself and your actions.

    That's a strange school where you get picked on like this. I've never heard of any college like it...maybe you're still in high school? Anyway, sounds like a bad situation, and I hope that you find a way out of it. Like it's been said in this post, and your Body Business post, look for professional counseling if you can. If your life is really this miserable where you are, save your money and move the fuck away. Worked for me.

    Hugs and good luck. And don't beat any more people up.

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    No, I am not in HighSchool. In fact I transfer out of UIC, because I could not afford thier prices. I've decided to go to another College. Where I would finish school, for a nursing degree. Which I am going to call College (A). ( The school I am attending now)! I now see that I would have been better off, If I solds things on Ebay. To help pay that tution at UIC.
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    Sorry to go off topic

    Quote Originally Posted by fancygirl
    Ya'all just need to shut up and consider what that's like.
    Umm but why? (the shutting up part I mean) and who are you referring to when you ya ALL need to shut up? Sorry but i found that kinda rude and it was actually only one member who stated that she hope's Leilani get's sued. If you post this kinda stuff on a PUBLIC board then you have to accept that fact that people are going to give their opinion's (otherwise why post ?) regardless of whether it's to you liking or not. Its nice that your defending her and all but it's not really your place to be telling peeps to shut up ya kno'?.

    Leilani you really should seek some kind of counseling to prevent this from happening again. This is how people end up commiting murder, sometimes they also just snap. Also I wouldn't just be worrying about being arrested you better watch your back when you go to school.

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    Next time, just sleep with their boyfriends.

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    LOL.....Also how people get killed...... but much more effective .

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    OK here's a better one then...go catch chlamydia, give it to their boyfriends, wait til they get it, and then tell them you gave it to them.

    At some point, you know, get it cleared up...

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    I plan on getting counseling Seraya. This cost me my future. If she press charges on me. I can not be a nurse. I'm done with that school. When I made complaints agaisnt the girls. They did not take action, even when they tried to jump me. I still have a lot of emotion bottle up inside! I am going to seek counseling!
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    It wont cost you your future if you do something now to change it. Yes you did get out of line but if you recognize it and do something about it then you can chalk it up to a learning experience. Deal with what you did and then make SURE it doesn't happen again.... and seriously, I think basically everyone would get some benefit from counseling,myself included.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Hyde
    Next time, just sleep with their boyfriends.


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    I think I have learned some lessons from this thread....

    1-Try not to associate with hoes. Garden rakes, maybe. Shovels, sure. Hoes...forget about it.
    2-When a group of people vaguely do something that makes you mad, try to avoid throwing them to the ground. And definitely try not to stomp their face with your 4 inch heels.
    3-Try to be discrete when flaunting your BabyPhat accessories so as not to piss off other hoes.
    4-Get counseling if I feel like I can't do the above.

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    OMG, stop the hilarity!

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    Chill out. Violence is just not acceptable for civilized people. By acting this way, YOU become the HO. get it?
    Last edited by scorpio; 09-13-2006 at 08:11 AM.

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    If it was so bad before and they were threatening your safety, why didn't you go above the school and get a restraining order through the police dept?? It might sound wussy, but it would have saved you a lot of problems. You have rights, too but not the right to stomp someones face in with your heels.

    I'd advise on getting some professional helps as well. I had to go through it, too and you are not alone. After I came back from Iraq it was hard to deal with the feelings of loss and just the sheer shock of it all. I lost a close friend too so I know how you feel. I was an angry, scared person when I came home. Counseling helped. Alot. Hope this helps, too because I would hate to see you throw away your schooling and career because of this. Good luck to you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by seraya
    Sorry to go off topic



    Umm but why? (the shutting up part I mean) and who are you referring to when you ya ALL need to shut up? Sorry but i found that kinda rude and it was actually only one member who stated that she hope's Leilani get's sued. If you post this kinda stuff on a PUBLIC board then you have to accept that fact that people are going to give their opinion's (otherwise why post ?) regardless of whether it's to you liking or not. Its nice that your defending her and all but it's not really your place to be telling peeps to shut up ya kno'?.

    Leilani you really should seek some kind of counseling to prevent this from happening again. This is how people end up commiting murder, sometimes they also just snap. Also I wouldn't just be worrying about being arrested you better watch your back when you go to school.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Hyde
    I think I have learned some lessons from this thread....

    1-Try not to associate with hoes. Garden rakes, maybe. Shovels, sure. Hoes...forget about it.
    2-When a group of people vaguely do something that makes you mad, try to avoid throwing them to the ground. And definitely try not to stomp their face with your 4 inch heels.
    3-Try to be discrete when flaunting your BabyPhat accessories so as not to piss off other hoes.
    4-Get counseling if I feel like I can't do the above.
    MrHyde, you're killing me.

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    I have a friend who's a TKD blackbelt who was getting bullied by this group of girls while she was in HS. She just ignored them, even through all the threats.... but one day, one of the girls confronted her at night as she was getting out of her car, when a picture of my friend's boyfriend fell out of her wallet. The girl picked it up, teased her about it, and then tore it up and let the pieces fall to the ground.

    Sooo, with no further ado, my friend sent two fast punches, one breaking the girl's nose, and one breaking her jaw.

    The chick didn't press charges and my friend almost got expelled but they decided against it.

    Funny how my friend is an anime/car nerd.

    But, ahem, unfunny! needs counseling ahemahem

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    I thought of an ACTUAL unfunny one.

    My boyfriend's ex-Aikido trainer told them all this story one day:

    Basically the guy is a master in 3 different martial arts, and at the time was in the Marine Corps. Soooo he comes home one day and finds his wife sleeping with some guy in their bed. He, um, kicks his wife in the face, then beats the shit out of the guy, breaks multiple bones, pulls out his gun, sticks it in the guy's mouth, decides against that, throws him out the 3rd-story window onto a car, slaps his wife again, hears the cops, runs downstairs and confesses to killing the man and having been about to kill his wife too..... and the guy ended up a quadriplegic....

    BUT via the courts he GOT OFF ALMOST SCOTCH FREE because it was a "crime of emotion". The guy didn't press charges.

    HOW IN HELL can you paralyze someone and cause allover mayhem to people when you're using technically 4 lethal weapons, and get off?

    Fucking court systems.

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