Okay, when you meet a new person... How long do you wait? I know it depends... But what's a general ballpark range?? I met this new guy and well... he's just awesome! First, second, and a third date in a week is really unique!![]()
Okay, when you meet a new person... How long do you wait? I know it depends... But what's a general ballpark range?? I met this new guy and well... he's just awesome! First, second, and a third date in a week is really unique!![]()
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I dunno depends on how I feel about him. Could be the 2nd day or 2nd date. Im waiting with the new guy for after several dates. So my view is kinda messed up. Now, Im waiting several dates into it...dont feel like complicating things with sex right now.
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The last guy (Tim the fireman) I didn't even reach the second date. I kinda had the attitude that we knew we got along with each other, there was some sexual chemistry .. let's not waste time ... and we got it on (as such).
USUALLY I like to wait until the 3rd date however if the relationship is going to be mainly or purely sexual (a fling, fuck buddy etc) then I will usually bed the person soon after... I consult the person first to see if they are looking for a relationship or just a casual affair/fling ... and if they are seeking a relationship.. I hold off for a little while longer as I want to get to know the person...
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A month or two usually...
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Why wait?




2-3 weeks.
When the time is right and I know I wont be asking for justification for "Why" in the morning![]()
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I make a point these days of no sex on the first date - its just something I decided to do. I dont think I've ever gone more than 2 dates though! I dont think theres any right or wrong amount of time to wait, it's just whatever feels right or is right for the individuals involved.
I wasnt always like this. I think the shortest amount of time between meeting somone and sleeping with them was just mere seconds. Ahhh, sometimes I miss those free and easy days, lol. (-:





When I drank - it was usually after the fourth drink ! Tacky I know - times have changed thank god .
People wait?
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I'm so picky I hardly ever have sex with anyone, but when I do it's immediate. I slept with my ex-husband a couple of weeks before our first date (it was supposed to be a one-night stand with a coworker, but we started to like each other afterward). And I slept with my boyfriend after one "date" (if it can even be called that as I was married at the time; again, we were coworkers).
So yeah, if you want to, go for it!
I guess I'm just concerned of what HE'LL think about it. I'd probably say more in this post if I wasn't hungover. Ugh.![]()
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A guy who would think less of you for doing what he himself just did is not a guy worth having.
^^^^^Exactly. For instance, my guy and I had sex on our second date. He could have cared less, even til this day. Screw guys with double standards, we're sexual beings too. If we want it on the first date, then that's our perogative. No on else's business.
If he's a guy worth his balls at all, his only concern will be, "When can we do this again?"I guess I'm just concerned of what HE'LL think about it.
Idealism is fine, but as it approaches reality, the costs become prohibitive.
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I had no idea there were still people around who would have an issue about it, lol!Originally Posted by Bella21
Originally Posted by Casual Observer
Well that's only if she's good. That's the problem. Sex can be a deal breaker if it's lousy. Don't get me wrong, I'm no dynamo in bed, but I know if the sex was bad that early on, I'd move on quicker.
But if it's awesome, I'd probably clear our schedules.
Hey, It is what it Is. Greater the risk, greater the rewards.
People are not ruled by their memories.
Sometimes I just start on my own before the first date.......


Two of the coolest women I met went to bed with me on the first date. My girl becomes livid when anyone pulls the double standard on women for whatever reason. I agree with her;sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander. If that doesn't give away my age I don't know what will...lol
Okay good... cuz I slept with him on the second date.He's a great guy! Doesn't seem to be into that whole double standard and is totally ok with what I do for a living (thank God for older guys). I was just wondering... YOu know how you can stereotype ppl... Ugh, I blame my religious mother for all these self-doubts!
Anyways! We'll see how it goes.
Relationship beginnings are always the best!!!!
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Keep her pictures of the internet dude!
Good for you bella.
People are not ruled by their memories.
You guys are so refreshing.
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Whenever it feels right.
For yourself? Your call.
For him? If you've waited until date number 3, then you're safe to take that step without him thinking you're slutty...![]()
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