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    This has nothing to do with stripping. I was just wondering though if you were giving bad bj's how would you feel if your partner basically told you that you were doing it all wrong. From a guy's perspective it is really hit and miss. There is really no way to tell if a girl will be good at giving head until the moment of truth.

    There are lots of different techniques out there and some girls are really just plain bad or have chosen an awful technique. They may be totally into it and have lots of experience but still suck (no pun intended). No guy wants to risk getting cut off, so they will mostly just not tell the girl that she is not living up to her potential in this area. Thus, the girl never gets better and her guy is stuck with bad head.

    What is the proper etiquette here?

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    I would tell her, but chose your words carefully. Women can be touchy about criticism. Remember, postive criticism.... Instead of being "No, not like that" I'd try to focus on what she is doing right, if she is doing something right. Try to tell her what feels good for you. I don't know if you're vocal about it, but let her know if it's good. Hopefully she will be able to tell what makes you moan and what doesn't. Tell her "I like it when your tongue is -----" and hopefully she will get the hint. More than likely if you just come out and say she's bad, kiss your bjs goodbye cos she'll probably feel inadequate and just not want to do it anymore. Of course, if there's any improvement, make sure you tell her that. You don't want her having a "relapse" and going back to the bad bj way. Good luck and hope great bjs are in your future

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    If my male didnt like how I do it, he can demonstrate on another dude to show me.
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    lol. Raven thank you for the kind words and Paige, thanks for the laugh.

    This got me to thinking. What are you girls' favorite techniques? How do you like to do it? lol

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    Haha, I don't "kiss" and tell. My secret, but I never had any complaints.

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    Maybe what's bad for you is good for someone else? She might not be doing it the way you like, but stop thinking in terms of it being 'bad'; that attitude will come out when you're trying to 'correct' her.

    It's OK if you like it differently than she does it, and she probably won't be offended if you're like "could you try doing xyz", as long as the "you're no good at this" undercurrent isn't there (even if you don't say it- we can sense these things).

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    Tell her things you would like her to do...try telling her 'hunny I would love it if you tried doing this' dont tell her other stuff shes doing it wrong... just try getting her to do the stuff you like and tell her how awesome it feels.

    Paige I laughed when I read that but damn I knew you were so serious...

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    You don't tell someone that they're doing a bad job, dude....you explain what they can do that you especially enjoy. That's a sharing experience. It's not about "good" vs "bad" - it's about sharing what is enjoyable for you.



    Quote Originally Posted by SC_dude
    This has nothing to do with stripping. I was just wondering though if you were giving bad bj's how would you feel if your partner basically told you that you were doing it all wrong. From a guy's perspective it is really hit and miss. There is really no way to tell if a girl will be good at giving head until the moment of truth.

    There are lots of different techniques out there and some girls are really just plain bad or have chosen an awful technique. They may be totally into it and have lots of experience but still suck (no pun intended). No guy wants to risk getting cut off, so they will mostly just not tell the girl that she is not living up to her potential in this area. Thus, the girl never gets better and her guy is stuck with bad head.

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    There's such a thing as bad head? Who knew?

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    Different guys like different things. Maybe she was told by someone else to do it that way. In my experience, most guys will ask for what they want in one way or another. I think you are in the minority if you don't.

    Instead of telling her she does a bad job, just tell her how you DO like it. When she starts sucking, just say something like, "baby I love when you suck my dick, but I really like if you do ______". Or "can you try _____? I really like that." Then when she does it and it feels better, be sure to make the moaning noises or whatever to let her know she's doing a good job. Most girls will happily try to do what you like if you let them know.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PaigeDWinter
    If my male didnt like how I do it, he can demonstrate on another dude to show me.
    Wow, I'm shocked at that answer. What if your dude was eating your pussy and was really bad at it. You're telling me that you shouldn't say anything?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Hyde
    Wow, I'm shocked at that answer. What if your dude was eating your pussy and was really bad at it. You're telling me that you shouldn't say anything?
    If he really sucked... I'd gladly show him how its done
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    Quote Originally Posted by PaigeDWinter
    If my male didnt like how I do it, he can demonstrate on another dude to show me.
    Yes but does that mean if I don't eat pussy right, she can demonstrate on another woman how it should be done? Makes me want to be bad just to see that. lol


    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette
    Different guys like different things. Maybe she was told by someone else to do it that way. In my experience, most guys will ask for what they want in one way or another. I think you are in the minority if you don't.

    Instead of telling her she does a bad job, just tell her how you DO like it. When she starts sucking, just say something like, "baby I love when you suck my dick, but I really like if you do ______". Or "can you try _____? I really like that." Then when she does it and it feels better, be sure to make the moaning noises or whatever to let her know she's doing a good job. Most girls will happily try to do what you like if you let them know.

    Bridgette has once again hit the nail on the head. (now that is a bad pun). Ok so lets shake the dew of the lily shall we? Is that better? Lol. Bad pun and anime reference, double point score. Anyway, I'd go with her recommendation. A prior partner is usually the ruinator of such activities. Although I think screaming or otherwise showing pain should be a hint. Unfortunately there are some guys out there that like lots of teeth.
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    I've never had a problem being on the receiving or giving end of advice. :/ I mean, is it obtuse for me to find that if someone gets offended by "advice" in bed, is just unattractive? I mean if you can't tell me how to please you/vice versa, then I don't want to catch shit for not doing it. Only Human Club Member here.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PaigeDWinter
    If my male didnt like how I do it, he can demonstrate on another dude to show me.

    ROFLMAO

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