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    Im just having a bad couple of days. I broke my cell phone. I cant call anybody because I dont know numbers. I miss my daughter.I burned my meatloaf that Ive been craving all week. My ride stood me up so I didnt make it to work tonight,and its military pay day, I NEEDED to be there because I need this money. My ex (husband-seperated) found out something from the past that really hurt him, and I cant stand to hear a man cry,especially a good man like him and I feel so sorry but I cant make him know that Im sorry.I wanna be with him and have my family back to normal, but Im kinda involved with someone and I dont have the heart to tell him that I need to make things right with my ex, but Im just not ready to be involved with the marriage right now. But I want my daughter to have both of us. And I want this new baby to have a whole family.But my ex isnt really my type anymore. He is but he's not. But hes a good man. Im so confused. But tomorrow is a new day... maybe ill feel better.

    And Im out of milk. (I drink a gallon a day...seriously.)

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    Default Re: Need cheering up...:(

    Go back to your ex dump this other guy you are with. With all you have been through in previous posts(one about you wanting to kill your baby via swallowed pills, being arrested after your loser ex boyfriend stole your car, financial problems gallore) it sounds like you really need that help and support. Once you get rid of the negative people you have in your life such as dating loser men, and confront problems head on without avoiding hard solutions you will be a much happier person.
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    You are very right. Thats what I need to do. Its just I dont know how to tell this guy. I got with him when my ex was kinda talkin to his other girl,and then to tell this guy like hey ima get back with my ex u gotta go is kinda hard to do. I just feel like im betraying him, because he is a good guy. I keep tryin to find reasons to leave him on a bad note. U know what i mean? I dunno, its hard to explain. But i know I gotta do what I gota do. Thanx

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    you've just gotta be honest with him babe. trying to pick fights over silly things or blowing things out of proportion so you can end the relationship badly and not feel guilty about it is a cop out. if he's a good guy, then he deserves the truth. just tell him how you feel. you obviously wanna be with your ex, and there's no point being with someone if you wanna be with someone else.

    hope you have a better day tomorrow! *hug*

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    trust me, you'd be doing this new guy a favour if you left him. to think, he was going to help you raise kids that weren't even his... poor guy, set him free.

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    Sounds like a case of preggers hormones and emotional rollercoaster to me. Don't do anything rash right now. Try to cool it until your hormones aren't raging so much and you can think more clearly. You say you are confused, so just wait a bit and you'll find an answer.

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    i am SO confused. This guy said he will be there for this baby,and thats a big deal to me. But my ex is pressuring me to go to VA with him. Im just so torn. The big thing is my little girl...she should have both parents,but the whole "stay together for the kids thing" usually is a distaster. Im not sure if I love him because of Ahrie, or if I would love him even if we didnt have a child together. I dunno.... Theres so much bad history between us,and theres a lot of good history. Im losing my mind. Thanks guys for the help and hugs. Im gonna think about this and make up my mind today,at least Ill really try to. Thank you.

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    I agree with B.

    To be honest honey I also think that you should stay single for a good while and just concentrate on spending time with your children and being the best mum you can be... yuo don't NEED to have a man in your life.

    Seraya.


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    I didn't read the thread... but hopefully this cheers you up:
    People are not ruled by their memories.

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    oh honey...sometimes when i can not decide what to do the best thing is nothing. decisions made while confused never have come out good for me. time to be good to YOU. take a break from the boys and spend some silly time with the girls.

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    After Shawn I was like "ok, no more boys" i did good for a while, turning down a lot that i had been secretly interested in. then this guy came along. I dont know what my problem is. It seems like I always need a man by my side.But I still have the mind set that I WILL NOT RELY ON A MAN FOR MONEY or anything. I guess thats a good thing. I dont have a lot of girlfriends,just the girls from the club,and most of them smoke,drink,party....im not into that. I just like to hang out at home or on the beach or at chuck e cheese with our kids. Maybe i should post an ad"new best friend needed" haha But u guys are right, i need time to myself.
    MAST..lol thanx hehe Now if someone could just send me some milk! lol

    Anyways u are awesome guys,thank you.

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    Default Re: Need cheering up...:(

    I'm gonna let the ladies chime on this one. And yes, tommorow is a new day.

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