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    I'm starting to think I vastly overestimate how much I have to work to satisfy the average customer!

    Last night, around midnight, I was tired and in a shitty mood, but wasn't about to sit in the dressing room and miss out on whatever I could make. I ended up cutting out most of the bullshit talking (like i said, was not in a good mood and not in the mood for talking). I still acted upbeat and fun, but i didn't spend a lot of time chatting--just approached, maybe asked where they were from or some other opening line, and then just asked for the dance--really not caring whether I got it or not!

    To my surprise, I got most of my dances after I started operating this way. guys were a lot more receptive for some reason, and the ones that weren't or that wanted to "just keep talking", i didn't waste time on...just moved on to another guy who usually woud up dancing with me.

    Then while I was in the booths, I started giving what I thought were "crappy" lapdances--not nearly as much grinding, not as much contact, moving much more slowly and drawing everything out, not putting up with their roving hands, etc.
    I thought for sure I'd only be getting one dance from these guys, since I wasn't working hard to "give them their money's worth". But the opposite happened. half the time I didn't have to ask them for a second dance, they asked me! More than one guy who I gave my supposedly-crappy dance to went back to his friends' table with me and raved about how i was "so worth it" and they all should try me (LOL). I was standing there thinking WTF? I did much less than usual, and had a MUCH more profitable night than usual?

    Does anyone else find this to be true?

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    Yeah, I'm all about doing shitty (well, I don't think they are shitty, but to a SCJ, they probably are) dances.

    There are girls that do full out grinds, rubbing their pussies all over his bulge and they do alright, but so do I....so why work as hard for the same money? Plus I go home with less DNA on me.

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    I never waste too much time before asking for a dance. I think it's smart to ask and then move on if they say no. As for doing "lazy" dances, I'm all for that as well. I'm not there to be groped, so I have no problem telling them my boundaries.

    And even though I do all of that I still get tons of dances. More is not necessarily better for a lot of men. It's about the fantasy, not how much they can get off in the VIP room.
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    agreed. I think I do "lazy" dances in an AIRDANCE club, yet, I rarely do just one dance, and I'm very popular. I say, if you can get away with making the same amount (or more!!!) for less, that's gold.

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    I work in a club that does air dances and couch dances (clothed, touching customer from the bellybutton up, no kissing/licking). Instead of trying to make my dances "dirtier" by sneaking in extras, I focus on making the dance more personal. I smile, make eye contact for nearly the whole song, bite my lip cutely, and do what I call the "vulcan wallet pinch", where I dig in my fingers and massage their necks (another poster recently wrote about doing this kind of massage to their heads). Many customers ask if I'm a massouse, and each one thinks I think he's Mr. Universe.

    Telling the customer that you give "the best dances" either when you're making the sale or before you begin also goes a long way in making HIM believe it.

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    i learned to stop wasting my time. if he buys a drink, i'll wait till i'm almost done to ask. if he doesn't i'll wait about 2 songs max... maybe only 1 if it's really busy and i see better options. i'll at least say hi and chat for a few minutes though. the "wanna dance" doesn't work for me. however, i got really sick and tired of sitting for 1/2 hour or more and not getting any dances. i'd only do it when it was slow, but now i'd rather just sit with another girl or do something else after a couple songs... unless they're just really interesting. i shouldn't have to fucking pry the money out of them. they should all have enough sense to know that we aren't there to spend an hour talking to them for free. i used to get so irritated when a guy would ASK ME to sit with him. then i'd sit..... and after 15 minutes of good coversation and then me getting denied for dances, i would excuse myself and he'd be like "why?? don't leave!!" w......t........f
    that used to happen all the time. screw that noise.

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    Default Re: a revelation for me!

    Yep. Welcome to the way you REALLY make money

    Although I'd have to add that, a slow sensual lapdance will almost always keep them coming back for more, even more than the really hardcore "hot" dances. Drawing it out really is the key there

    And less talk is usually better.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette
    And less talk is usually better.
    This seems weird to me, but I'm starting to see that it's true. A lot of guys don't come to the club to make friends -- they find it awkward to talk to you and would rather you just got naked.

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    Default Re: a revelation for me!

    If a customer comes to spend money, a half hour interview isn't neccesary. Five minutes is plenty.

    I like to develop some rapport with a girl first, but if she was "on the bubble" to begin with, I'll know within two minutes whether its or .
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    Default Re: a revelation for me!

    I was just talking with a new girl at my club about this the other night. She asked how I manage to get into VIP so much...and I think it boils down to everything this thread talks about.
    I don't give it all away in a dance, I stay mysterious, not too much talking...but lots of body language, eye contact and what my friends and I call face f*cking; biting the lips, brushing the earlobes, touching the mouth, etc...

    Also, I feel like I am being more asserive when I don't sit around and pull converstaion out of them, and that seems to appeal to the men here.

    I guess for each girl one method will be more comfortable than others, and that is what will make them money.... But I do believe we are all on to something here.

    Good Luck!

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