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    my boyfriend is the most negative person on earth. all he does is bitch and complain abouut everything. he never has a nice thing to say about anyone or anything. he actually bitchs about going to the beach if there are no waves its rediculous. i just ask him if he would rather be back in ohio and working at that shitty foundry and he rolls his eyes. hes never fucking happy. he will bitch about anything, and he loves bitching at the tv specifically the news. if a football game is on i leave the hosue becuase he yells and cusses at the tv the whole time.

    all his hatefullness takes its toll on me and raises my anxiety levels to max. all i want is for him to not bitch constantly!!! ughghh...

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    Well, he is pretty fuckin unhappy about something and takes it out on everything and everyone around him. I am sure there is a book about this. He might be fighting some mild depression too.

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    Dump him. You can't change people. He obviously likes being miserable, so unless you want to hear his whiney ass for the rest of you life, dump him.

    In the meantime, here's a line I used on my giant asshole ex who had the same bitching problem, "would you like to borrow my panties? 'Cause if you're gonna act like a bitch, you might as well start dressing like one." Feel free to use it.

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    hahaha thats beautiful.

    he treats me good its just everythign else and everyone else that he bitches about. ive told him it bothers me and i hope he will get it under control.

    if he doesnt its going to be a tricky situation because we just moved out of state together

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    I've known people like this... boyfriends and girlfriends. You're just gonna waste your energy trying to make him happy and he's gonna drag you down instead. I'd dump him.
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    I agree-dump him! That would bother me too-we're all only human, but I can't stand it when people are negative all the time. Life's too short for that shit.

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    RUN! He sounds like an emotional vampire. Why would you want to hang out with someone who is negative all the tim?

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    Ask yourself this. Is this the kind of behavior you think you will be happy with in five years? How about ten years?

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    Hmm, I had one of those, lol. His need to complain frequently was a big factor in why we split up, but there were other things too. I possibly could have found the energy to work at the other problems if he was more pleasant to be around.
    I didnt mind the complaining he did so much as to the times and places. It used to piss me off when he'd spoil a perfectly good moment over something fairly trivial. And most of his problems were in the morning when I'd be trying to sleep and he'd be yelling down the phone or banging cupboard doors soon after Id got home from work which I really didnt need... I hardly ever understood why he was so negative about so many things, it just seemed to make life so much harder, but he seemed happy enough in his own grumpy way, lol.
    You have to like it or lump it I suppose unless he's willing to try and stop somehow. Patience! (-:

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    His bitching isn't worth your personal sanity.


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    Quote Originally Posted by i.breathe.in
    hahaha thats beautiful.

    he treats me good its just everythign else and everyone else that he bitches about. ive told him it bothers me and i hope he will get it under control.

    if he doesnt its going to be a tricky situation because we just moved out of state together
    I have much sympathy for you. I live with a complainer... oy some days. They need to learn to take everything with a bit of sugar and salt. But then they'd complain about that too. Sometimes you just need to tell them to back off, and let them know they are doing it. If you don't communicate, it won't improve. It may get worse, but at least that isgetting somewhere, and will show you what you need to know.
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