I really wanted my friend to start dancing with me because I'm nervous but our scheduals don't fit. I thought it would make the hustle better or hours or drama easier Is it normal to want a buddy...oh just tell me to suck it up and grow the balls
I really wanted my friend to start dancing with me because I'm nervous but our scheduals don't fit. I thought it would make the hustle better or hours or drama easier Is it normal to want a buddy...oh just tell me to suck it up and grow the balls
buddies are just people to stab you in the back later
go on your own
I'd say suck it up too. I did have girls I was friends with and we did hustle double dances well- but they were people i met there. I got a sense of how they were in the club- that sort of thing. SHe might just drag you down.
You'll learn a lot more if you go it alone. I've seen a lot of pairs come in and not do too well, as they tried to figure out what to do from each other,rather than watching and learning from the veterans.
It's also considered bad form by most to bring a friend to an audition, by the way. Part of getting the job is demonstrating that you have the guts to get up there.
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I agree with Emily. No matter what you do in life, you cannot rely on friends to have the same initiative about something as you do. Get used to working alone and even traveling alone. It's much better that way. It's not lonely.
I think like any other job you should be able to go to work by yourself. If you cant, then maybe stripping isn't for you... >>ooh, thinks of another thread<< (-:
I think it's normal to want someone to accompany you that first time on stage. Heh, I danced with a friend of mine who I knew wouldn't get hired. We had originally done it as a joke, but I ended up taking it seriously. The manager said, "Uh, you're hired, but your friend has to go." Lol, fortunately she didn't like it and didn't want to come back.
Not saying you should go that route, but it wouldn't be the end of the world if you did.
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Start alone. Its really not a good idea to have to many friends at work anyways, it will just limit the amount of money you make. anyways what guy wants to aproach a girl for a dance when shes stuck to another girl all night.





If you have a good friend there you amight feel more inhibited, be more afraid to ask questions...youll compare yourselves too much instead of focussing on goals, you'll stick to each other in the dressing rooms, youll always be waiting around for each other. You've got the guts, girl, just got to find them!! Good luck!
I didn't want to get on stage with her or anything, we worked together in the strip club as bartenders for three years. I just thought it would be easier but thanks for the advice she is flaky sometimes anyway and drinks to help dancing but I love her to death
bartending is different because you're not in competition...
Originally Posted by Rylee one
Go on your own... there are no true friends when money is involved... or alcohol, once that starts flowing...
Besides... you two won't always be attached at the hip in the club. Do it on your own because that's how you learn best.
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