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    Ok, wife and boy were out of town last week so I finally went out the night before they came home.

    I found a new club in FL that I really wanted to check out. When I got in, I noticed it was hoping fairly well and asked the bouncer who gave good private dances and is petite. He mentioned a couple and I went and took a seat to have a drink and survey the scene. I wasn't digging it at first, went to the stage tipped the girl up there and noticed she didn't have very straight teeth but has a body to die for....as I went and sat back down one girl the bouncer had told me about met eyes with me. I made it clear with my eye contact I'd like to get to know her. But, she was with a guy at the bar. Finally, he went to the restroom and I got her over.

    She was very tight (body), very nice looking (hard to say a 10 in a dark room!), and the initial conversation went well. I explained I'm a former personal trainer and that I was great at massage. I start massaging her neck and stroking her hair which she's loving. Long story short, was getting goose bumps and I was ready to rock. I asked her what we could do there and she gave me 3 choices: topless private, nude private, or champagne. I took the champagne. I felt if I knew her better we may have left, but, this was our first meeting.

    In the champagne room she started like it was going to be a routine dance. Finally she sat facing me on my lap and we made out BIG time. She kisses very well (my wife doesn't) and she seemed turned on by the kissing her neck and playing with her hair. I'll shorten this now....Bascially, she was fine with me going down on her but, not returning any of it except for heavy making out. She came when I went down on her too!

    After we cuddled, continued to make out, and she sucked my fingers deep, we talked about being married which seemed like we loved the affection we provided each other, but, weren't sure about this new endeavor. She's only been dancing a couple of months and we told each other our first names...

    Now, this is messing with my mind big time. I want to go back. I would love to take it further, but, know that's not the right road to go down! How can I get this out of my mind? Will it be time or what? I'm thinking of seeking counseling.....seriously. I DO have a problem with sex and affection...I need lots of it! Any suggestions?

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    Um... I don't understand the problem. Like you don't want to cheat on your wife? Then don't go back. Keep in mind, too, that she might not actually want to go further. I mean, she didn't exactly play hard to get. What you got might be all that is on the menu. Does that help?
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    I think cheating on your wife with a STD ridden hooker would be better karma.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MrChristopher


    (I can't find the popcorn munching smiley, dammit)
    lol ...

    to the OP ... there's a very simple answer to all this. Don't go back. It's not actually as hard as you might make it out to be. (Surely, you'll make all these excuses about how you can't stop thinking about her and blah blah blah ... but it's really not that hard.) Just don't go. And if you are seriously concerned about addictions ... maybe counseling isn't a bad idea either. It'll give you an opportunity to become introspective on why it is you are even entertaining ideas of pursuing a relationship (however imagined it may be) with another woman when you've got a wife and son to care for.

    Not intending to sound harsh - but a little bit of introspection here isn't a bad thing.

    Something to ask yourself, since this was in the first line of your post... why did you go in the first place? What is it that you sought? Clearly you had some ideas in mind, if you thought to ask a bouncer about suggestions on dancers.

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    I hate chicks that kiss at work..Whatever happened to mono??

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    She came when I went down on her too!
    How many 20's were you holding when she came?

    Your problem isn't with sex, it's your marriage. Seek couples counselling and tell your wife that she doesn't satisfy your sexual desires. Sometimes brutal honesty can save a marriage if it's done in the proper fashion.

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    Quote Originally Posted by evh1980
    lol ...

    to the OP ... there's a very simple answer to all this. Don't go back. It's not actually as hard as you might make it out to be. (Surely, you'll make all these excuses about how you can't stop thinking about her and blah blah blah ... but it's really not that hard.) Just don't go. And if you are seriously concerned about addictions ... maybe counseling isn't a bad idea either. It'll give you an opportunity to become introspective on why it is you are even entertaining ideas of pursuing a relationship (however imagined it may be) with another woman when you've got a wife and son to care for.

    Not intending to sound harsh - but a little bit of introspection here isn't a bad thing.

    Something to ask yourself, since this was in the first line of your post... why did you go in the first place? What is it that you sought? Clearly you had some ideas in mind, if you thought to ask a bouncer about suggestions on dancers.
    All good points here...I like the popcorn reference.

    I think this post and Nut's post: Your problem isn't with sex, it's your marriage. Seek couples counselling and tell your wife that she doesn't satisfy your sexual desires. Sometimes brutal honesty can save a marriage if it's done in the proper fashion.

    ...are very accurate and helpful. Knowing all my history and my thoughts on a daily basis, I definitely need some counseling.

    I think my ego was/is "stroked" when I get attention from women. Yes, this is/was a stripper, but, she seemed different from the others. I think though, say it did go further physically and emotionally and I started dating her, there are SO many things good and bad that would be beyond the first dating flutters. I won't go back and I will seek counseling. This is the hardest part....any help from you guys is welcome.




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