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    For real, maybe alot of you already do this, but I just discovered it. I recently had an exerience in a champange room where I witnessed a girl have sex with a custy. I knew this went on, but i have never seen it or known anyone who personally did it. I was in shock. The weird thing was, the custy wasn't one of those guys asking for or even hinting he wanted it, this gal just pulled it out and sat on it, with another guy and five girls in the room, all in awe. I felt horrible and for weeks could not get the images out of my head. I dreamed (more like nightmares) about it and it disgusted me.

    Anyways, to my piont, before hand she kept saying things like "I'm a dirty slut", "i love to suck cock" and "no need, to get me drunk I'm already a dirty girl". I thought this was her hustle, as did the customers. BTW she was waaaaay drunk and on something if I ever saw it.

    Prior to her "actions" her so called hustle technique seemed to work, just getting them excited (they weren't even grabby or anything, so her actually doing what she did must have been for her self esteem, she wasn't the prettiest girl and she didn't get any extra$$ than the rest of us)

    Ok, so 3 or so days ago I started "playing " slut, just as a hustle using quotes similar to the ones above, and still doing my same ole' clean dances. My income went from avg of 100 per hour to 200 per hour. Crazy! It worked for 3 days, so I am gonna keep trying it, but I figure it's a way to turn a negative experience into something positive.

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    Wow I hope she put a rubber on that first. Kinda off topic- but this past weekend for the first time, 2 guys I went in VIP with tried to get me to fuck them. (They straight unzipped their fly too!) No protection whatsoever!! It's very scary.

    Anyhow, a friend told me to act slutty, it will certainly help increase dances.
    I'm no prude- but I'm not sure how to put this into action...Buffie you just walk up to them and say this- or sneak it into the conversation somehow?

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    I am so envious of the girls who can act slutty. Silly as that sounds! I can act flirty, goofy, ditsy, seductive...but I just can't get to the slutty part. One of my best friends at the club will talk dirty (and I mean DIRTY) into a man's ear during dances, getting him so excited he just keeps buying and buying! I tried...and I laughed!

    I need to take a slutty coarse...do they offer those here?

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    There are different ways to act slutty. A lot of my best customers see me as an intelligent person, but loooooove the fact that I'm also "open" about sex and will talk about it with them. I don't imply that I'm going to do anything with them, but I do talk about my other job (phone sex), or past experiences, or fantasies. Lots of guys have weird hidden kinks, and if someone will get them started and listen to them talk about them, they'll pay $$$.

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    The first place I worked out actually handed out scripts to new dancers with every sort of filthy line known to man. At first I laughed my ass off. I couldn't even say them to my SO. But after you say it forty times suddenly it's no different that "pass the salt", lol.

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    I think many customers will go as far as you let them.

    If you come across as anything goes, you'll get tormented more when they do dances. You might not do as many VIP/dances if you are prudish, but would you rather make $500 with minimal abuse or $1000 being molested and fighting guys all night?

    I used to do phone sex and those lines were cool then, but these are guys who are going to be touching you. Don't taunt them and treat them like johns unless you want to be treated like a hooker.

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    Sounds like a great idea!!! Thanks!

    I think that there's a lot more to the "stripper as psychologist" than guys would like to admit. Actually, some will :-).


    Quote Originally Posted by xoxoGracexoxo
    There are different ways to act slutty. A lot of my best customers see me as an intelligent person, but loooooove the fact that I'm also "open" about sex and will talk about it with them. I don't imply that I'm going to do anything with them, but I do talk about my other job (phone sex), or past experiences, or fantasies. Lots of guys have weird hidden kinks, and if someone will get them started and listen to them talk about them, they'll pay $$$.

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    Wouldn't acting like a slut and saying such things run you the risk of getting arrested for solicitation? Even if you didn't actually make any promises by saying you were going to do it to him, wouldn't just by saying "oh I love sucking cock, or I love putting cock in my pu$$y, etc." get you in trouble with the law? I have to agree with Emily in the fact that by saying that stuff would probably get you a very grabby guy who you'd be fighting off the entire VIP time.

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    Ok, I don't say exactly what she said and i would get too embarrassed getting that graphic with the customers, but most of you got the point.I never imply in the tinist bit that I will or want to do anything with them. I will talk about in storylike mode the people i have been with or the things i have done (real or made up). I never even thought, before that incident, to talk about my sexual experiences, etc. during conversation to keep them buying. I prefer to dance for only one to three customers per night, not 20 or 30 I don't walk up to a guy strait off and just start talking dirty, I feel him out and open up gradually.

    Also I don't do it with everyone, people are different and require different techniques.For example, an older married man and his friends are buying dances. We converse, I find out he is married, he says he wants to take me to Vegas, bla bla bla. Normally I would say no thanks or something like that, thinking he is serious. This time I said something like "oh, so you wanna be my sugar daddie?, that's hott" and so on with the convo, just playing along. The guy never tried to take it any further, imo we were role playing. So maybe that example doesn't sound so slutty, but I am just not used to saying things like that. I used to try so hard to prove to the customers that I wasn't a stereotypical stripper, I would not be meeting their needs and I was making less money. Some guys do want the educated self sufficient girl, some don't , now I know how to cater to the one's that don't as well as the ones that do.

    What I have noticed mainly is an increase in my money and way less offers and requests for numbers, dates, marriage proposals, etc. I don't think I am acting like a hooker, I am verbalizing and adding to the fantasy, while still asserting myself in a manner where it is understood that this is my job. I won't put up with grabby guys. You can tell by body language the minute you introduce yourself if a guy is going to be grabby and I stay away from those types. If I sell a dance and the guy is grabby he has one chance to straiten up before I leave. I remove his hands and refuse to sell him another dance.

    Im not worried about the law b/c i am not doing anything wrong.

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    In Dallas, anything a dancer does is breaking the law.

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    The slut approach worked well for me for many years! I never had a stalker. But the prostitution soliciting was high. YMMV...it won't always work, some guys want an "innocent" stripper, lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by buffie06
    Im not worried about the law b/c i am not doing anything wrong.
    Yeah, I get what you're saying. Adding to the customer's fantasy, within reason, can be a good sales tactic. But this last statement about no worries? Ugh! Always be worried about the law even when you're relatively clean. You don't have to be doing anything all that "wrong" in this business to get busted. The technicalities of the law may be stricter than the club norms, or the law officer might be pursuing an agenda of finding whatever he wants to find, not what's actually there. Either way, it's cause for a certain amount of concern.

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    Well we all could worry, b/c how many of us really stay 12in away from the customer at all times? It is a risk with this job, i am not gonna lose sleep over it.
    BTW I was arrested in Oklahoma for Public Lewdness(for touching a girls butt-a custy friend of mine, who also got arrested for me touching her butt) , they called it a simulated sexual act, so as far as i am concerned I need to be worried about picking my nose in the bathroom stall. So far texas has proven to be much better , but no one is safe imo.

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    Hmmm, that last post scares me. I think I need to bone up on the "Public Lewdness" laws in Az. We get frisky with girls that come into the club all the time, swatting butts, pinches, etc...because they are usually friends of ours.
    In fact, between the girls that work there even, alot of frikiness goes on! So I wonder exactly what is the line here in Az...guess that's something I should know huh?

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    I used a variation of this today....but with my typical finesse, I just basically said "I'm a huge slut". It worked, lol.

    I actually used it to deflect a custy's dinner invite too...I told him he didn't want to take me to dinner because I'm a dork in real life (true), and the only time I let my 'real, slutty' self out is at work- in the champagne room, specifically . It worked!

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    I've seen the full-on slut tactic work for girls at the nudie club, they would just come straight up to men and whisper nasty shit in their ears before dragging them into the ld room. Wham bam thankyou ma'am! All the money in that club was lapdance and stage (and most men bought 1 dance at a time), so you had to hit up tons of guys every night.

    At the gown club I'm working at currently, the clients are a little more upscale and a little more conservative (older, married, business men). I deal with this by trying to act "classier", ie, less trashy and slutty. The way to make money at this club is to seduce the guys who are willing to "fall in love" with you... they are there and they will spend lots of money on a girl with the right personality and look. There are also guys that want to trap you in a room for 30 minutes and try to stick their fingers in your panties... but they definitely aren't the ones buying most of the champagne rooms (thank god).

    Of course it's important to read a guy and figure out what he likes. Normally I try and let something naughty or slutty "slip out" during conversation, and then blush and apologize for being vulgar,.. with a coquettish smile of course. The guys who like nasty girls will make it clear that they enjoy that sort of thing, and then I turn on the charm. The guys who are a little more prudish will appreciate the attempt to keep things classy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by scarlett_vancouver
    I told him he didn't want to take me to dinner because I'm a dork in real life (true), and the only time I let my 'real, slutty' self out is at work- in the champagne room, specifically . It worked!
    Awesome line of argument. I'll be borrowing this.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bella du jour

    Of course it's important to read a guy and figure out what he likes. Normally I try and let something naughty or slutty "slip out" during conversation, and then blush and apologize for being vulgar,.. with a coquettish smile of course. The guys who like nasty girls will make it clear that they enjoy that sort of thing, and then I turn on the charm. The guys who are a little more prudish will appreciate the attempt to keep things classy.

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    That is exactly what i meant by reading them and opening up gradually.

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    It is very true about different guys wanting different things... But unless they are very prudish, most guys appreciate someone who can talk openly about sex.

    Of course, there is a difference between being open, and being vulgar. Saying "oh, my! I just love to drink cum and let it spill down on my titties!" (while bouncing to emphasize them) is a lot different than saying "Well, I actually enjoy wrapping my lips around something big and hard" with a wink.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gypsy_Dancer
    But unless they are very prudish...
    My guess is that *those* guys won't be in a strip club to begin with.

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    ^^Well, there are some sensitive souls who prefer a shy, innocent dancer. I danced for a guy tonight who responded to me best when I looked wistfully down or away during dances and didn't smile. I modified my normal goofy cheerfulness accordingly, and he ended up buying many dances one after another until he ran out of money. He was one of those "aw lookit the poor sweet stripper" types who didn't want me to seem to enjoy myself too much, and prolly would've been shocked if I'd talked dirty to him.

    So yeah, as always, you have to modify your approach to suit the individual. You can drop hints and feel them out. Guys who want to hear more about your sexual tastes and proclivities will usually let you know.
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    I'm so going to try this at work tonight, since friday nights are more party and less chill after work atmospheres. I'll report back tonorrow, on how it goes for me.

    (I'm also able to act every which way but slutty, I think I've always had some inner fear or being seen that way, so tonight it'll be all out there!!!)

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    Wow, I'm suprised all of you havn't figured this out at all? Why do you think guys go to the club where they pay $8 a beer? They WANT sexual excitement! They can see naked women on tv. Although some of the junkies claim that fantasy has nothing to do with it, it DOES!!

    Assholes are going to try and get you OTC either way. Whether its asking you out on a date or asking you for paid sex, you must learn to be strong and combat these requests gracefully anyway....

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    I know i have been dncing for 2 years and making great $$, but i was probably the most prude dancer ever . It suprised me how just talking the talk was such a great techinque, and I havn't had any disrespect as a result.

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    Well, I tried it, and I'm happy to report back that last night I made the most of any night this month! I usually wear dresses/gowns, so I wore a long sleaved semi sheer lace teal top with boy shorts and a thong. I did 2 vips, and tons of dances. I just said stuff like "i'm getting so hot" while dancing, I licked my lips alot, and I told a few guys I love working here because i can act like the real me, and don't get judged for being a little slut! I danced a little faster, esp on stage. I let my long bangs fall into my face much more, sighed and tilted my head back durring my dances. My stage tip increase (as well as tips for dances) went up sooo much. I also was called over to do more dances, rather then asking for them. I didn't get solicited once, or touched (we're no contact). i did get asked if I wanted some drugs (never happened before, in the 9 1/2 months i've been there) by a very wierd guy. he was like " do you want some pills, I've got loratabs (sp?). I went and told my managers, no big deal.

    I think this is great, and will try it tonight as well. I think this will work for weekend/events (am nights) but not so much for weekdays. Good money, but probably not good for acumulating regs.

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