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    I know this was just posted in another thread but I have a slightly different question I'm hoping someone can help me out with. I have a couple of customers that always buy dances with me and one or two other girls (I'm the only steady girl they dance with, and they rotate other dancers) The past few weeks several of the girls are going up and pretty much guilt tripping customers to buy dances from them (these are really nice guys) and they feel so bad they ended up giving these girls all of their money and then complain to me that they would rather dance with me but so and so needs this bill paid, this girls needs groceries etc... Its really getting on my nerves and I'm not quite sure how to handle this. God damnit I want their money too I'm half tempted to walk around and say "my dog needs braces, wanna do a dance"....

    sorry I had a really crappy week
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    Default Re: Guilt Tripping Customers

    the guilt trip may work ok with them for a few weeks, but for long term repeat business it's a turnoff

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    the guys may just be blowing you off. i'm not saying it's a fact, but it's a possibility. most guys won't "spend all their money" on a girl when they'd rather dance with someone else, no matter what the other girls "guilt trip" is.

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    Default Re: Guilt Tripping Customers

    You can politely remind them that the strip club is not a charity telethon and that they should spend their money as they want to. All you can do after that is hope the concept sticks into their head.

    People who are that pathetically spineless will only be cured when they want to be.

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    the guys may just be blowing you off.
    That's another thing I considered. Of course, she says they always get dances from her.
    Former SCJ now in rehab.

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    I think that the guy will end up resenting their putting guilt trips on him.He will end up avoiding them or the club all together.What a pathetic tactic.

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    I don't like it. It just leaves a bad taste in my mouth and I think it makes the whole profession look bad, just my opinion. I've worked with girls who do that as their sole hustle.

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    I work with some dancers like this as well, and being in small town clubs, some of the guys fall for it.

    These types of dancers pick their targets well, and know the "types" of guys it will work with, and those who will tell them to fuck off they avoid.

    Some of these "pity" dancers have been working in the same club or same area for years and are known by a lot of the repeat customers. Many guys don't like to argue or make a scene in the club, so they patronize these girls.

    Again, this type of behavior is intensified when business is slow, and in most clubs nowadays it is slow more than it is busy, and if a club is busy, there are tons of dancers competing for the dollars.

    Also, in many clubs the crowd has only a handful of "spenders" in it, so that makes the girls look for ways to get the guys spending heavily on another dancer to spend on them.

    If the guys are your regulars, you may have to confront them on not giving these girls any money, or in other words stand your ground.

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    Default Re: Guilt Tripping Customers

    Quote Originally Posted by Tina
    These types of dancers pick their targets well, and know the "types" of guys it will work with, and those who will tell them to fuck off they avoid.

    Some of these "pity" dancers have been working in the same club or same area for years and are known by a lot of the repeat customers. Many guys don't like to argue or make a scene in the club, so they patronize these girls.
    Yup! The first dancer I met had a knack for zeroing in on these guys and damn if they didn't "fall for it " every week. Illness after illness crisis after crisis. I think they like playing hero. That's why I see it as an odd but effective hustle for guys who have the superman fantasy. Don't act angry about the girl's hustle. Tell the guys that her story is not true and suggest they spend time with a girl they can trust. If you trash her they might want to defend her more.

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    Thanks for the advice. I just went back to work yesterday after a mini vacation so I haven't seen any of my cutsys yet but our new manager is really cutting down on all the BS in the club so hopefully I'll see some changes.
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    Default Re: Guilt Tripping Customers

    Yea I tend to avoid talking about my son... But custys almost always ask about my tattoo, my sons name.

    I say its my baby boy and they ask how old he is and I say hes 1.

    I dont try and avoid talking about him but I never bring him up unless I'm asked. I dont think its fare to use him as a way to get money.

    But I am down right honest. I was talking to one custry right before my set started and he asked how things were going (because I'm new) and I was upfront and said I wasnt making as much money as I hoped but everyday I'm learning so I will get better. He tipped me a $10 and told me I was doing great.

    I dont need to walk up to a customer and say "Hey I'm a college student and a mom want a dance" but if it comes up I'm honest. I dont sugar coat things and I dont make things look "worse" then they are.

    Besides when I'm honest I dont have to "stick to a story" and I certainly dont have to remember to keep up the same bit and lie.

    They say "Whos ______" I say "Thats my baby boy" and then I automatically turn it to "Do you have any kids" "What are you doin tonight" "Wow what an awsome job you have"

    I cant sit there talking about my son when I'm naked. LOL...

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    Default Re: Guilt Tripping Customers

    Seriously, if a girl told me her dog needed braces, I would totally buy a dance from her.


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