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    Ok so I'm at work right? And I see this guy kinda sitting by himself away from the stage a bit, so I decide to go chat it up and see what his story is and maybe get a couple dances from him. Well I approached him and said "Hey there! Ya having fun??" I was SO cheerful. He just glares at me...so I said "Aw, has nobody showed you a really good time yet? I'll show you a good time" (with a big smile of course) He TOTALLY snaps at me and says "All the girls here are conceided and bitchy!!" I was taken aback a bit, but I replied with "Oh I'm sorry your experience here hasn't been the best, I would love to make you night better.implying a dance) And he just looks at me and goes "Every single girl here SUCKS!" I was like wtf? He was being SO mean and I was trying to be SO nice. I felt like asking him why the fuck he was still in the club if he didn't like any of the girls, but I refrained. He just sat there and pouted like a fuckin 3 year old, literally! I excused myself and said "Well if I can help let me know". And all he said was "You can't, you're just like them all, whatever". Isn't that mean?? have you ever had anybody like that be such a jerk to you???
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    Misery loves company babe. Good think you left him alone when you did. He woudl've just sucked your energy dry.







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    You handled that well.

    On very rare occasions, I run into the token asshole. If they intentionally say/do anything mean , hurtful, or rude, I walk away. It's their karma, not mine. No reason to let someone like that ruin my night.

    While you experienced 20 seconds of negativity, that guy LIVES in his misery.

    It was nice of you to offer your time if he changed his mind.
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    ^^Agreed.

    Sometimes people just love to impose their miserible lives on other people. You would have been one of them. Also, by handling it the way you did and not snapping back at him you made less stress for yourself. I love seeing their reaction when they are mean a-holes and all I am is nice.
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    You are not the only one who has encountered guys like that. I have had guys tell me "No, I would never get a dance with you", or if I ask them if they want company, they says things like "I dont want YOUR company and I dont want a dance from you", or "come back when you lose weight". they are just mean bastards. dont hang around them and stay your cheerful self.

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    Dude, what a little bitch! Ugh! You have a lot of patience. I would have been outta there the second that guy opened his mouth.
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    there's a reason why they are in the club in the first place..because no woman in her right mind would spend time with such an arrogant whiny he-bitch for free!!

    i commend you for being polite.... i dunno how i would have handled the situation.

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    Maybe I'm kinda naive, but I always like to give people a chance, maybe something just happened or a girl was a real bitch to him and it put him in a bad mood. I thought that maybe if I was nice he would not be in such a "mood" anymore. Like one time I was at the store and this girl was working cashier and this guy in line in front of me was giving her so much shit cuz she accidentally rang up an item twice and didn't know how to void it and she had to call a manager and he bitched and bitched at her about how he had to go and he had shit to do. This girl was upset, almost in tears and angry. When I got up to the counter I just smiled at her and was really patient, told her to take her time and then looked her right in the eyes and just gave her an honest "thank you, I hope you have a good day". Her mood totally changed and she smiled back and said "Thank you so much, you have a great day too". And the next customer in line she smiled. I just like to give people a chance, I know what it's like to have a bad day. But you guys are right, this guy really was just SO negative.
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    I had a similar experience with a customer who was sitting at the bar and I went up and started talking to him. To make a long story short, he came in the stripclub because he was in a bad mood, but didn't want any dancers speaking to him, he wasn't tipping the stage & wasn't getting dances. He was there to get a free show while he was in a bad mood. I tried to cheer him up and he wouldn't have any part of it, after a couple minutes I was "Ok, well you take care now" and I left and he even said well thank you for trying to cheer me up but I'd much rather sit here and be in my bad mood. Ok dude, hope you enjoy being miserable!!!! If I'm in a bad mood and someone's trying to cheer me up, it works and I at least give them the credit for trying. Whatever, idiot customer!!! Grrrr!

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    I've seen that...assholes who claim EVERY girl in the club is ugly, bitchy, etc...etc...and yet continues to stay drink and watch the show on stage. I've gotten to the point that if a cpl comments "well, you havent met me yet...I'll make your night better" types doesnt work..I just bluntly say..."if you hate it here so damn much..why the HELL are you STILL here???? Go HOME and stop taking a seat away from someone who might actually enjoy themselves and NOT piss everybody off!"
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    Maybe BitchyMan's penis doesn't work & seeing hot sexy girls just frustrated him more...? LOL

    I used to be sensitive about people like this, but now it rolls off....
    & They can't take what they dish out to others!...It's pretty amusing to see bitchy people get all whiny when they're in an uncomfortable position.

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    He's had some bad experiences, no doubt. There are plenty of negative experiences one can encounter, especially in the exotic dancing business. Don't take it personally. You could've been anyone.

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    Omg Metal, I had almost the EXACT same experience.
    This guy is sitting his chair, off to the side of the club and pouting. So I walk over and say "Why the sad face honey, having any fun?" He says "No, I'm not...I'm actually really disappointed." So I sit down, ready for a story...."I was here a year ago, and back then they had the A-Team playing. But now they have the B-team on and I'm really not happy about it, and it's the low end of the B-team." So I laugh a little and say "so you haven 't found that you think is attractive yet and want a dance from?" as I put my hand on his shoulder and scoot closer...He turns, looks right at me, and says "NO, there isn't anyone in this club I would spend a dime on, they are ALL ugly." So I stand up to go and as I do I hip check his table and spill his drink and say "Oh! We're all ugly AND clumbsy! Go figure!"

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    That's the type of guy who will waste your time, short you on dances, not tip you or the waitress, doesn't pay his taxes or child support, ad nauseum......

    I've had those guys too. My favorite, or least favorite depending on how you look at it, are the ones who have their faces down in their drink and won't even make EYE contact with you even though they know you are talking to them. Of course, as soon as you walk away, you can feel his eyes boring into your ass. Fuckers! Oh well, one of the lows of the job.

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    I'm thinking perhaps he's one of those weirdos who gets off on acting like that and seeing how many girls he can get to try to 'make him feel better' Some guys are just fucken weird. Definitely best to just walk away.

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    I'm sure nothing happened to make his night go bad. He was probably one of those guys who came into the club with that kind of attitude and then was surprised that he wasn't treated well. You sound like you had a lot of patience.

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    I really don't think I could have avoided saying "Hmm, thats weird. I wonder why someone would bother to come in here if they thought all the girls were horrible bitches" in the naivest voice I could muster.

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    You don't know how much i wante to say something really bitchy, but I was having such a good night, some ass hole is NOT gonna ruin it for me. Eff that!
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    ^^Right on. Just keep moving and don't even think twice about these guys. So not worth it.

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    My reply to this guy would be simple and to the point:

    Your reap what you sow.


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    I like that quote Paris! it's definitely good to be reminded about how people are partly responsible for some things...gives us a nice little reality check.
    In the beginning, I was more patient with idiots...for example, there were a couple of guys who were pretty drunk, but i thought i could talk them into getting a champagne room (first off, it could be a bad idea to go to a room with a guy that's very obviously obnoxious...could you stand an hour in the vip room with him?)....i was wasting my time trying to get them to get a dance. etc. now i know better to not waste my time...
    then there was some other guy who was like "i earn plenty of money" and i'm thinking i'll keep sitting with him because we might even get a room...but instead he spends lots of time trying to persuade me to visit him in another city because apparently he knows how to please a woman and work her up...and i tell him i have a boyfriend... and there's one time when he says "so show me what you've got" so i guess that's a cue to give him a dance../so i take of my dress, start dancing..... and then he's like "no, i don'[t want a dance!" so it's like he tricked me into disrobing for free....i should've just left right then...but being a little naive, i didn't... then i ask him to tip me for my time...he only tips me five dollars! when i've been sitting there for many songs.... I should've just asked him, "hey, a little more for the lady...i've been here for several songs...other girls would've earned more for their time" but I wasn't gutsy enough...hopefully i'll get more demanding...you don't get if you don't ask...
    maybe some guys like to play mind games...as in they think they're superior? s h-theads!

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    There have been a few times when I have gotten into a funk so deep that it was too late for anyone to snap me out of it, and most wouldn't try anyway, no doubt from seeing my expression and the body language. It's way easier to reach this state if you are drinking, & doing so alone (even in a club, it can make you feel even more isolated to see everyone else having fun if you're in a funk)--a dangerous combination.

    However, the guy crossed the line by not making you an exception to the group judgement--that's just rude. Tough shit for him, then.

    You did the right thing--this business is way too rough to let an asshole bring you down for any reason whatsoever.
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    ^ You're back!!!


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    Sorry, I missed that--yes, sort of, but I'm getting a better connection now that I just got a cool place to live here. I'll post about it in another thread, though, so it's not off-topic.

    Back on topic, though, maybe the guy was reveling in his pain, rejection, and alienation. I've seen it happen.

    The next step would the old Why I'm Superior To Strippers Who Didn't Want To Date Me defensive persona.
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    LOL! Sounds like your typical loser XD

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