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Last edited by xfatrabbitx; 12-02-2011 at 03:05 AM.
Money's not good, your boss is disrespectful to you (I mean, even if you were whoring it up, she could have been discreet about it); find a new club to be comfortable in! You're paying for that comfort with your dignity and lost earnings. Worth it?
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That's how it is in my club, even if it was obviously your twin sister, you can't get into a car with someone who's been in the club as a customer, it LOOKS like prostitution and it puts the club and the other dancers in jeapardy. I doubt she meant to disrepect you, she probably didn't know that you didn't know that wasn't allowed and was making it very clear that can't happen and that you could not leave with that person. If it were me, the next time I went into work after everyone's calmed down, I'd go up to her, tell her you really did not know that rule and that it never even crossed your mind, I mean, why would it? You're not out hooking, you're not an extras girl, it was a totally innocent thing on your part, the club should have explained that rule to you when they hired you. Just tell her you really didnt' know and that won't happen again. And I don't think she meant friends can't come into the club, it's just that friends can't come into the club, hang out and then pick you up because it looks fishy. In my club, boyfriends aren't allowed to come into the club, at all I think, I don't know I don't have one right now. If you really like the club and feel safe there, maybe try giving it a little longer and see how it goes.
Your manager is probably afraid of getting busted by vice or something so she was extra hard on you (maybe it has happened before). It's totally unfair that she gave it to you like that... But I'd just go about my business and let it run off my back. However, she needs to understand that he is STILL your ride... ask her if it would be as big of a deal if he just never came in the club again. She may be easier to talk to next time you work since she's had some time to cool down.
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Like the first thing my club told me was they don't want anybody I know (friends, family, "aquantices") there.




I'd leave. She sounds like a rag...and unreasonable. You know he wasn't a 'customer', and if she'd been paying attention like a good manager does, she'd know too. Unless of course you were giving him dances, then she may have some reason. Or if you have a history of dodgy behaviour.
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I'd find a new club, like scarlett said. The money isn't great, you're past the brand new stage, and your manager is rude and disrespectful. your manager was right, but handled it in the wrong way.
It seems like many girls will stick with their first club untill it gets bad. Leave while it's good. Say you're taking a break from dancing so you can come back if you want to.




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Last edited by xfatrabbitx; 12-02-2011 at 03:05 AM.





Your manager is bullshit. At the clubs I work at the bouncers know my fiancee' when he comes to pick me up. And they know the girls who are overly obvious when it comes to hustling dates in the club.
My guy comes in "select" high volume clubs from time to time, but he remains completely anonymous. No one in the club knows him. Some small clubs I work at ask my guy to come in lots of time. It just depends on the club. As a rule of thumb though, unless a club is busy, don't let anyone know that your "friend" has been in the club. Don't act like you know him in the club either. Nonchalantly approach him as you are working the floor but make it appear you don't know him.
You manager is an example of women managers who are total bitches. I would quit that club. Her behavior was uncalled for. She obviously doesn't have anything else to worry about besides how the dancers are getting home.





I dunno, for me I think the manager was right in what she did. From the outside it does look like solicitation. Why would you allow him to come into the club anyway? He could've done other activities in the area of where you work, or sleep in the car.Originally Posted by MishaBliss
Your boss was just protecting the club from any illegal behavior. What if the cops where outside, or inside of the club that night? They for dam sure could care less if he were a customer or your best friend since Pre-K.
I would leave that club anyway because it seems like a pretty far travel for you. Also, you're not making good money there anyway. Just my opin.
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I would leave the club anyway, just because money isn't good. Feeling safe in a club is important, but most people don't get into this business 'cause it's comfy. I'd shop around for a safe feeling but more money productive and discreet with compromising situations. What if a cop had been standing in earshot and arrested you for prostitution just because theres a woman hollering it and it looked fishy. I dont' know. Id leave.




my club has that rule too, we HAVE to leave in our own car or a cab
--if the fight with managerbothers you that much--it might be better just to find another place to work. but i doubt she will be even mention it again. if youre stressed going in, you are not going to make $ anyways.
just meet your friend around the corner.
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It actually was illegal depending on state. You cannot leave with a guy as, leagally, it IS solicitation. Even if you knew him.
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Our club has the same rule.....if someone has been in the club you CAN NOT leave the club with that person. I have a feeling that is pretty standard for most clubs who follow the rules.
Yah, it sucked that she jumped your stuff...but I also think of this, imagine how many girls she deals with a on a regular basis who do stupid things that may jepordize many others. Not that you did that intentionally at all! but...she probably does deal with it a lot.
If you "I been at this club for about 6 months now, and love it.. money isnt too good but i'm very comfortable there..." and you don't want to go...then talk to her like one other girl said. Explain you didn't realize the rule, now you know, and it wont happen again.
My husband will pop into the club now and then...I say hi, send friends over that he knows while he has a beer or two...but that's it. If we plan on meeting for breakfast after, he meets me at the spot.
So honestly, I'd blow it off, chalk it up to a learning experience and smooth things over if you don't want to leave...otherwise, bail, take your new knowledge with you and find another place with a clean slate.
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I wouldnt sweat it. Obviously the manager was just enforcing the rules. Yea it sucks that such a big stink was made, but she was probably trying to cover the clubs ass by making it obvious she was trying to stop it.
I would go in on your next shift and calmly explain your very sorry about what happend, you didnt mean to break any club rules, your sorry you put the club at any risk and it will never happen again. Be very sincere about it.
Remember you are replaceable, strippers are a dime a dozen and shes probably so used to dealing with flakes she didnt realise you sincerely made a mistake.




yeah, i talked to her tonight and it all blew over.. thanks =)
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