I have a page on MySpace called "Ask a Stripper" http://www.myspace.com/askdrstripper I was bored one day and created it. People send me mostly relationship questions and I answer them. One girl wrote me and said that she was a dancer and needed help improving her hustle. I had made a comment that I get upset on those nights where everyone is turning you down and the end of the night you have a $100 or less. I never sit on my ass and complain so when I made my measly $100--I worked hard for it. One guy had made a comment:
"You want to cry on nights when you have $100 to your name at the end of the night? Get the fuck out of here! What makes you think that you should earn more than that? See, that's why this country (along with Western Europe) is going to shit. We got uneducated bimbos (no offense) getting upset that they take home $100 on a SLOW night and cab drivers with Master degrees from Bangalore working double shifts to pay off a shitty two bedroom in a terrible neighborhood. Now I know you make way more than $100 on an average night (because men are stupid) but to be perfectly honest, based on your human capital, you should be thankful for every red cent that you get because... to be perfectly honest... you don't DO anything (save me the song and dance about how hard you have it standing on your feet for 6 hours straight, migrant farmers have it rough and earn $5 an hour if they're lucky). PS I hope you're having a good day."
I have known this guy as one of my readers for awhile and he usually has something to say--but it doesnt bother me. I felt this time he was out of line--and misinformed.
This same guy emailed and asked a question about a girl he met that he was considering going out with. He told that she had a lowpaying job--he had suggested that she dance because it takes "minimal effort" is "not mentally taxing" and is "easy money" the girl told him that she felt that dancing is a demeaning job. he told me that he felt he couldnt date her because he felt she was lying "because every woman has wanted to do it" and he couldnt be with someone that is lying about it. I replied by telling him that he didnt know what he was talking about and not every woman wants to be a stripper and he was direspectful and had a skewed vision of women.
This was his response:
"You missed a small detail: she's lying to me. I said that all women considered stripping at some point in their lives (because it IS EASY MONEY). I told her to consider stripping because she can make enough money to do what she wants (move out of her mom's place) and since it's not mentally taxing she would also have the ability to go to back to school. Her telling me that it's "demeaning" is total bullshit. She doesn't want to do it because she's either embarassed of her body or is unmotivated. I appreciate frankness and hate it when people insult my intelligence. Speaking of frankness, which part of my posts did you find insulting? The part where I wrote that strippers don't do anything? Prove me otherwise. Tell me all the hard work you put in every night and how challenging your job is and why you think you should earn more than a civil engineer (who actually has an education). Lastly, my attitude towards woman is not skewed. I'm simply realistic, and yes, I've dated strippers before. I even lived with one. It's not that different from dating a regular girl."
While you may find his response annoying...we all know that is the opinion of many people who are not in the industry.
My question to everyone here is this: Do you feel that this line of work is easy or "easy money"? Do you feel that it is mentally taxing? Do you feel guilty about the money that you make--whatever the amount?
Oh! and if you have a MS page--drop me a line and a friend request!



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hes funny
I've stopped caring about these idiots.. they're just amusing
But i dont think you understand my posting in its context--maybe i came across wrong.




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