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    Ok, I had an odd situation just happen with me with this one dancer I know.

    She had told me about this new club that she works at, so I decided to check it out. I got there, spent most of the evening with her, went to the VIP room and had a great time. Anyway, I wanted to go a second time, but she was gonna work at a different club that night, but she would come to the one i went to if I payed the $50 fee she has to pay to work there. I said I would and she said I better show up. I did show up and we ended up spending the whole night together, spending $700 that night for the VIP and dances solely from her.

    Anyway, we keep in contact, and she told me to let her know next time I want to come up there. So I text her earlier today that I'm wanting to come tonight, but I I was not feeling well, but that if I felt better, I'd let her know for sure if I was coming tonight. Anyway, I wasn't feeling any better, so I text her before as she was getting ready for work to let her know that I was sorry, but I wasn't going to be able to make it.

    You would think she would text me back,"ok, I hope you feel better", or something sincere. Nope, she sends me a text that says, "Why u text if u not going. U just bullshit." I replied back," 1st, I'd go tonight if I was feeling better now, but more than likely I'm not going to go. 2nd, I'm not one to BS either. If I say I am gonna do something, I do it. Sorry if I upset u" Haven't heard anything from her yet

    I dunno what's up with her reaction because she had planned to work tonight anyway, and I never I told her i was definitely gonna go tonight. Anyway, I'm just confused. Did I say or do something wrong?? How would any of you have reacted if you were her?

    Anyway, just curious...thanks for the input

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    Quote Originally Posted by luvsdancers

    So I text her earlier today that I'm wanting to come tonight, but I I was not feeling well, but that if I felt better, I'd let her know for sure if I was coming tonight. Anyway, I wasn't feeling any better, so I text her before as she was getting ready for work to let her know that I was sorry, but I wasn't going to be able to make it.
    I guarantee you the only part of the message she remembered was that you wanted to go that night-that's the only part that was important to her. Your only mistake here was expecting some sort of sincere emotion from her because you where not feeling well. In her book you are just another no-show customer. Sorry, that's reality in most cases.
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    He's right. If she cared at all she would'nt be talking that way to you.

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    Yeah, you're probably right. I guess it surprises me that she reacted in such a negative way because it makes me never want to talk or get dances from her anymore. I plan to go next week, and if I see her, I will not be spending any money on her

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    sounds ungreatfull to me. if someone was nice enough to come out just to see me, and spend that much money on top of it, i'd be a hell of a lot more appreciative and understanding. it's not like you told her you were going to be there and then told her you weren't while she was already waiting for you. also, you didn't feel good. she should know how to fend for herself when someone can't show up. she doesn't need to guilt you about it. pfftttt.. all these women who are "irritated" with these types of customers need to send them to me.

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    just delete her number & find you another girl to wiggle her ass for you

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pretty_Penny
    sounds ungreatfull to me. if someone was nice enough to come out just to see me, and spend that much money on top of it, i'd be a hell of a lot more appreciative and understanding. it's not like you told her you were going to be there and then told her you weren't while she was already waiting for you. also, you didn't feel good. she should know how to fend for herself when someone can't show up. she doesn't need to guilt you about it. pfftttt.. all these women who are "irritated" with these types of customers need to send them to me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by luvsdancers
    Yeah, you're probably right. I guess it surprises me that she reacted in such a negative way because it makes me never want to talk or get dances from her anymore.
    Sounds like an idea...

    I plan to go next week, and if I see her, I will not be spending any money on her
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    Very selfish! A good regular customer who is nice to you and treats you well is hard to find. Being bitchy and playing guilt games is not the way to keep a regular I think.

    Go out, find someone else who is fun to hang out with and you enjoy spending moeny and time with...there are plenty to choose from!

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    Just out of curiousity, if you felt crappy, why did you even text her in the first place about wanting to go out?

    I don't think we have the whole story here.

    You sound a bit high maintence to me, but I have no regulars. I don't have the stamina to keep up with a regular's emotional needs.


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    Paris... I thought what we had was special!
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    Thanks for the responses from all...

    Paris, you're right, it's probably not right to make a judgement without hearing both sides.

    Yes, I did text her earlier in the day to let her know I wanted to come out there but I was not feeling well. I had a terrible headache, and just wanted to try and rest up, so hopefully I could make it out there that night. After resting I still didn't feel very well, so that's when I text her that I was not going to make it out there last night. Trust me, if I had felt better, I would definitely have made the trip up to the club. That's when she text me back with her response...

    Hmmmmm....High maintenance?? lol, wow, never thought of myself as that. Even if she had simply replied "ok" or even if she never responded at all, I would have been fine with it. It was just unexpected that her response was what it is...

    Maybe it's my fault, and I should have not text her in the first place without knowing that I was 100% sure I was going

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mastridonicus
    Paris... I thought what we had was special!
    It isn't the same if I'm paying you, Mast. You studmeister, you!


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    Quote Originally Posted by luvsdancers

    Maybe it's my fault, and I should have not text her in the first place without knowing that I was 100% sure I was going
    Dude, don't be such a pussy. Your girl is not only rude but dumb. Whatever fines and hassle she may have incurred from working a night that you did not show up would have been more than paid for the next time you came in and spent $700 on her, had she excercized a modicum of tact. She doesn't give a fuck about you and can't be arsed to pretend. Fire her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xoxoGracexoxo
    Dude, don't be such a pussy. Your girl is not only rude but dumb. Whatever fines and hassle she may have incurred from working a night that you did not show up would have been more than paid for the next time you came in and spent $700 on her, had she excercized a modicum of tact. She doesn't give a fuck about you and can't be arsed to pretend. Fire her.
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    A professional approach would've been a more polite one. She should've been a bit more considerate and understood that you might not be familiar with her circumstances.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Paris
    It isn't the same if I'm paying you, Mast. You studmeister, you!
    Aww you're so sweet. I'll tell you what. You can take me shopping next week K? My mom's ill and I needed to give all my money to the doctor to take care of her, and my girlfriend, still doesn't work. I just don't know how else I could afford such nice things if you weren't so sweet. I promise, once my deadbeat bandmember girlfriend finally moves out, I want you to come over...
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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us
    I guarantee you the only part of the message she remembered was that you wanted to go that night-that's the only part that was important to her. Your only mistake here was expecting some sort of sincere emotion from her because you where not feeling well. In her book you are just another no-show customer. Sorry, that's reality in most cases.
    Yep. Although I think she's a bit of a bitch and not a very good businesswoman if she couldn't handle it better than that. If I were you, I would drop her. Go into the club when you know she'll be there and get the same vip you would have with her, with another girl. And if she says anything to you about it, tell her you prefer to spend your money on girls with more class. hehe

    If you don't have the balls to do that, then just ignore her from now on. If you spend more money on her, you are only encouraging her to treat you poorly. I'm not saying she should bow down on her knees for your money, but the fact you choose to spend that kind of money on her deserves a tad bit more respect than that. Find another girl.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette
    Yep. Although I think she's a bit of a bitch and not a very good businesswoman if she couldn't handle it better than that. If I were you, I would drop her. Go into the club when you know she'll be there and get the same vip you would have with her, with another girl. And if she says anything to you about it, tell her you prefer to spend your money on girls with more class. hehe

    If you don't have the balls to do that, then just ignore her from now on. If you spend more money on her, you are only encouraging her to treat you poorly. I'm not saying she should bow down on her knees for your money, but the fact you choose to spend that kind of money on her deserves a tad bit more respect than that. Find another girl.
    Many dancers are so jaded towards men and or "custies" that they don't know how to react when a guy treats them well and will assume he must have some bad ulterior motives. Just find an "extras girl" where there is no confusion between business and personal as it is much less complicated with an "honest whore" compared to a "deceitful stripper" IMHO.

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    I dunno, I consider myself pretty damn jaded and cynical, and I don't treat paying customers like that. I don't play the regulars game but I'd be damned if I'd say something like that to a paying customer. A bitch is a bitch and a considerate person is a considerate person, and a good businessperson is a good businessperson, jaded or not. I think a bitch like the one described in this thread NEVER knew how to act toward customers.

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    All good commnets and suggestions, Me I would go and talk to her at the club and see what's up....if it was a misunderstanding, play it out. If she's just laying a SS trip on you drop her and move on ......

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