Okay, I kinda screwed up tonight, but I dont think I deserved the additude that I got for my fuck-up.
I tipped the bathroom house mom in quarters. I know, tipping in change is a strip club no-no, but I wasnt thinking at the time and didnt have anything other then 100's and wanted to give her something for using some body spray - I know that the money for supplying that stuff comes out of her pocket, and I'm not one to use something of someones and not pay for it.
Anyways, I put 2 dollars in quarters in her tip jar (I got the quarters from change that I got from the ciggerate machine) and she gave me the dirtiest look that I've gotten in a looong time and removed the money and put in next to the sink. I didnt know what to say at the time becouse I was kinda scared she was gonna yell at me or I dont know what - thats how pissed she looked and I'm very uneasy about conflict (if thats the right word) with people.
I went back in there about an hour or so later to tell her that I didnt mean any disrespect by tipping her in change - that was all I had besides hundreds and I wanted to give her something. She asked me how long I've been dancing and when I told her 5 years, she said I should have known better then to tip her in change and that by doing that I was disrespecting her and was being the worst kind of rude. I apologized agian and she kinda shook her head and wouldnt accept my apoligy.
Sorry if this was hard to understand, I think the whole situation was kinda crazy and that it was made into something much larger then it should have been. I just wanted to know if I was *that* wrong and if I should do something to correct it so Im not on this ladys bad side for the remander of my time at this club. When I went in to talk to her I gave her another 5 bucks (in paper this time!!!) for a peace offering - should I do something else next time I see her, or just forget about this whole incident and write it off as a learning experiance?




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