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    Okay, I kinda screwed up tonight, but I dont think I deserved the additude that I got for my fuck-up.

    I tipped the bathroom house mom in quarters. I know, tipping in change is a strip club no-no, but I wasnt thinking at the time and didnt have anything other then 100's and wanted to give her something for using some body spray - I know that the money for supplying that stuff comes out of her pocket, and I'm not one to use something of someones and not pay for it.

    Anyways, I put 2 dollars in quarters in her tip jar (I got the quarters from change that I got from the ciggerate machine) and she gave me the dirtiest look that I've gotten in a looong time and removed the money and put in next to the sink. I didnt know what to say at the time becouse I was kinda scared she was gonna yell at me or I dont know what - thats how pissed she looked and I'm very uneasy about conflict (if thats the right word) with people.

    I went back in there about an hour or so later to tell her that I didnt mean any disrespect by tipping her in change - that was all I had besides hundreds and I wanted to give her something. She asked me how long I've been dancing and when I told her 5 years, she said I should have known better then to tip her in change and that by doing that I was disrespecting her and was being the worst kind of rude. I apologized agian and she kinda shook her head and wouldnt accept my apoligy.

    Sorry if this was hard to understand, I think the whole situation was kinda crazy and that it was made into something much larger then it should have been. I just wanted to know if I was *that* wrong and if I should do something to correct it so Im not on this ladys bad side for the remander of my time at this club. When I went in to talk to her I gave her another 5 bucks (in paper this time!!!) for a peace offering - should I do something else next time I see her, or just forget about this whole incident and write it off as a learning experiance?


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    Sounds like drama to me hun. Yeah, no one wants to be tipped in change but if it's all you have it's better than nothing, especially if this is a one time thing! Don't worry, maybe next time it would just be easier to run too the bar for change so you don't have to deal with it.

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    I don't know if it's my Canadian-land-of-one-and-two-dollar-coins sensibility, but I don't mind getting tipped in change if it all adds up to the same thing anyway. I mean, I'd draw the line at a handful of dimes and stuff, but I wouldn't be all pissy. You could have tipped her nothing. I mean, wouldn't that be worse?

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    I would have commented that next time I just wouldn't tip her. She can either take $2 in change for my using something of hers...or nothing at all. In the end, its all money.

    Drama queen.

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    Putting two dollars in quarters into a jar is a far cry from being tipped a handful of change on stage.

    Bartenders bank at the end of the night with the extra quarters left with their regular tips (I miss my Atlantic City Fund). Why is she any better than them?

    Don't say anything more to her. She doesn't deserve the attention.

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    you guys dont know how much better youve made me feel about this. i thought it was stupid drama, too - but the extent of her anger made me kinda wonder if i made a big fuck up.

    aww, **big huggs** to stripperweb for some much needed moral support


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    ^ Glad you feel better.


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    I also agree that it's all money. You put it in a tip jar, where it would stay, not like tipping a dancer where she might have no where to put it on stage. She just overreacted.

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    Yah, she got a little overly bitchy about it..... it's money, it all spends the same.

    *hands house mom a hanky* Sorry to hear you got tipped, we'll remember next time how much that bothers you.

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    Eff that woman. Any reasonable human being would have understood once you explained the situation. Two dollars is two dollars. It all spends. What a total bitch. I'm with Venus--if it were me, I would have told her she'd recieved her last tip from me. You just totally fed her bullshit by coming back with the fiver. If it were me I'd never use any of her things again. The next I went to the bathroom I'd slide a penny across the counter and say, "Thanks for keeping a place for me to shit." Seriously. What a stuck up bitch.

    Sorry, for some reason this post struck a chord with me.

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    It is rude to tip in change. I would have refused too. It is a matter of respect.

    HOWEVER ...

    I would have accepted your apology with joy and taken the quarters given the explanation.

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    i think two dollars, whether it be in change or ones is sufficent enough for using one measly spritz of perfume in the bathroom....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tabytha
    Putting two dollars in quarters into a jar is a far cry from being tipped a handful of change on stage.

    Bartenders bank at the end of the night with the extra quarters left with their regular tips (I miss my Atlantic City Fund). Why is she any better than them?

    Don't say anything more to her. She doesn't deserve the attention.
    Exactly, I miss those quarters.

    I really think she over reacted and she probably can't count either. She probably would have been happier with a one dollar bill than 8 quarters.


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    what's the tip she usually gets though? I mean, if my housemom got a $2 tip from a girl holding "only $100s", I'm sure she'd be offended. Not that it was quarters, jsut that it was $2. But then, she wouldn't be rude about it either....

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    ^^ That's what I was thinking too.







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    She got an additional $5 from you because she bitched enough? I'd be happy that I got money period, especially as a bathroom attendant. All you used was some spray, $2 is effing fine! It may be rude if you gave her only like one quarter, but you gave her 8 which tallied up to a decent tip.
    I wouldn't have given her shit for her ungreatful self. $5 for her bitchiness is just encouraging her to bully others for money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by VenusGoddess
    I would have commented that next time I just wouldn't tip her. She can either take $2 in change for my using something of hers...or nothing at all. In the end, its all money.

    Drama queen.
    Yep. Me too.
    Maybe she was then trying to guilt you into another, bigger tip.
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    Ahh, i just re read your post...and she did guilt you into another tip! Not cool.
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    Quote Originally Posted by KamrynAnne
    i think two dollars, whether it be in change or ones is sufficent enough for using one measly spritz of perfume in the bathroom....
    Dude, seriously. She TOTALLY over-reacted!
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    That Lady is a bitch. Money is money. A tip is a tip. Next time if she doesnt want it, dont give it to her.

    what a snot. fuck her.

    but for future referenced maybe u could get us changed made into bills at the bar.




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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily
    what's the tip she usually gets though? I mean, if my housemom got a $2 tip from a girl holding "only $100s", I'm sure she'd be offended. Not that it was quarters, jsut that it was $2. But then, she wouldn't be rude about it either....
    But, she wasn't the housemom...she was the BATHROOM ATTENDANT. Big difference. I'm not paying someone $20 to use the hand soap or for a little spritz of that gaudy stuff they call body spray.

    When I went to the bars and there was an attendant in there...I tipped $1. Unless they are wiping my ass, holding me up while I pee (you know some of those great drunk girls can't figure out how to pee in the toilet), a bathroom attendant doesn't get more than that.

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    Seriously, if she would have put up that big of a stink with me, I would say "You don't want it? Ok!" and taken it back. Money is money.

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    Personally, I would have taken the money back and said, "I'm sorry. I won't make the mistake of tipping you again." She's a bathroom attendant for chrissake!
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    ^^ Great one!

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    And did you point out that it was $2, not 50 fucking cents? Sounds like a simple bitch to me. I would've told her if my $2 is so disrespectful and rude then I'd happily take it back because it spends the same for me as 2 dollar bills. And I would NEVER so much as look at that bitch again. She doesn't deserve your time or apology. What a bitch

    If you gave her an additional $5 after she bitched, you rewarded and encouraged her shitty behaviour. She hustled you like some strippers hustle customers - the guilt trip hustle. Better to stand up for yourself instead.

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