This isn't usually an issue, but my personal thought is that drinks tend to be a waste of money. I get no personal enjoyment from buying a dancer an overpriced drink that may or may not be water and I don't like overdrinking myself. I usually only have a beer or two for myself and lots of times am not even drinking when talking to a dancer. Waitresses invariably come up and I usually tell them I'm not thirsty (which is true) and they go their merry way.
Well, one night, I am sitting down with a dancer talking and ask her for a dance (they have back rooms). For some reason, she isn't too hurried to close the deal. Her waittress gal pal comes over and asks for a drink. I tell her I'm drying out from the concert I went to earlier so I don't really want anything. I also don't want to buy any drinks for her because I'm ready to get a dance and you have to go off to another room for that. Well, she doesn't pick up on this and orders a drink anyway. I'm annoyed b/c SC waittresses take FOREVER. So, after eons go by, the waittress comes over with her cocktail. I pay. She chugs, literally chugs it down, and then we go to the dance room.
Why do girls do this? This was a georgeous, classy girl. I don't understand the huge emphasis on drinking especially since you are at work. If a customer doesn't want to drink, why hassle him to? I may come across as a cheap ass, but I actually bought a ton of dances that night (but only one from her). She had no idea the reason I stopped buying dances and moved on.
Oh well. Typically this isn't a problem, but I just thought I'd run it by the ladies and see if they have any thoughts on it.



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