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    So I tried out a different club this week, and it is all in all a much better fit for me. The management is more professional (ie- encourages us to stick to what's legal), the money is better, no smoke in the changeroom, free parking, open until 3 (which makes for better business than the clubs that close at 2 it seems), and the private dances we get to keep a g-string on. I thought, being Quebec, it'd be more extras riddled, but I got way less flack from customers than ever before. The dances sold themselves (I got constantly approached for dances when it got busy- it was basically hustle free $$ after midnight). Easy money, better dancing, obviously I'm going to switch.

    I've heard girls where I used to dance bitch about how snotty everyone is at this place, but I didn't get that vibe. Overall the look is more competitive (very pretty dancers, some of with whom I can't compete, but that didn't seem to matter because there are so many customers and the managers actually control how many girls are allowed to work). Anyway, it's a better place for me to be. And if it ends up not working out, I can always go back.

    So even though I'm happy, I also feel kinda guilty about quitting my old club. After a shift at the new place I was eating at an all hours diner (I was nervous about the new club and hadn't eaten all day) and saw two girls from my old club. They were so friendly with me. One asked if I worked and I said "at Pigales", and she said "oh, I find all the girls there sooo bitchy", blah blah. The irony of it is I always found many of the girls at the other place by and large disliked me. Only recently have they started to be nice, and then I started to feel bad...

    I always feel bad when I quit jobs or drop courses. This is ridiculous though. There is no reason for me to stay, and yet I can't shake this bad vibe. Anyone else get this way? It's like I'm letting people down, but why should I care when they were never very nice to me for over a year?

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    You shouldn't care. In this job, you have to be as happy as you can; you have too many other factors that can bring you down. Don't let where you dance be one of them and instead make it make you happy.

    Congrats!

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    Girls always talk badly about clubs with money; it's like a lack of confidence thing or something, makes them feel good. Girls who move out west brag about having worked there...like "I used to work at Pigales, and now I'm in this dump".

    I'm glad you're liking it! Don't feel guilty, that's silly. Though I do kind of get it...I feel guilty about not working in Vancouver much...which makes even less sense. I feel disloyal or something, lol.

    Now I'm going to really get on your ass about learning french though.

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    Don't let it stress you out. Be happy about your career move. Don't allow others to chose what is right for you.

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    Don't know if I've ever felt guilty about leaving a club, but I have felt a kind of reluctance to leave known territory for unknown territory. Is this part of it?

    Anyway, you'll get over it and you're obviously making a good change. Congrats.

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    Just have to do what's right for you, and not feel guilty for making changes. All about making you happy and making you moolah.

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    Do what's best for you because you know the club would do what's best for them not what's best for you and if you look at it that way maybe you won't feel guilty.

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    Quitter!
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