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    Default Maybe im not doomed...and an extra thanks

    Hello! so its 21 to dance legally over here...but i found out theres a club that has two sections..a 18+ and then a 21+. then i heard theres another club that you can be under 21 because theres no liqour being served. wow, i never knew that! i felt so happy when i heard about it. i thought i was doomed on this island till i was 21 and didnt think i was going to be able to dance until i moved to the mainland next summer.

    anyways, im really excited now. i cant wait to buy new clothes, shoes, garter belt....and im picking out music i wanna dance to and putting it on a cd now lol

    well jus wanted to make that annoucement. hopefully those clubs let me work there!!! hopefully its true that they hire under 21 gals. im exicted yet nervous cuz i didnt know id start dancing this soon!! but as soon as im not busy, im calling the clubs to see when i can audition!

    *just wanted to say thank you to everyone on here for all of your advice. before i came to these forums, i thought strip clubs were dirty, and to be a stripper meant u had to be a slut/druggie(like everyone else assumes) but u gals really changed my perspective for the better! i understand now that a womans sex appeal can be used for her advantage, that its a power, not a weakness. that if u use it right, you can get ahead - while remebering not to let it get you behind. everyone thinks that strippers are tottaly different than everyone else in a bad way.,..but theyre just the same as every other girl, and maybe different in a good way.
    and even if i cant get hired here, ill still continue to go here and learn from you guys! you are so sweet everyone! thanks for all the advice!*
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    What you said in the *-ed area...I felt similarly before I started reading more about stripping, and encountered really intelligent ladies here!
    Good luck with the stripping...you should do ok...you look very pretty : - ) (i'm referring to the picture at the bottom of your posts). there's definitely stuff to learn...i feel like i'm still learning stuff...like if you're in a club with girls wearing short dresses, you might want to do the same...you don't want to look like the conservative long-dress girl to customers...unless it's a really sexy, more revealing long dress that can be comparable in sexiness to a short dress that shows a lot of leg,etc....
    just make sure not to get caught up in the craziness...I mean, I feel young to be getting into this stuff, and i'm 22...you're even younger than that...so some things might seem much much more tempting...just be careful, and remember your dignity.... and here's my opinion....if you start having to rely on smoking or drinking lots, etc to get yourself through, you might need to do some readjustment...soul-searching, etc...for example, maybe you're feeling crappy and getting addictive behaviors because you're letting yourself get compromised too much (i started feeling crappy when I where was the first time a guy ended up fingering me for the first time while doing a lap dance..i wasn't sure how to react...told him it was against the rules, but I felt bad that I didn't tell him to stop sooner...because what if I see him on the street later..it makes me feel dirty...to have let a sexual encounter like that happen so easily, without any special relationship with this total stranger...and i end up feeling that way because i think sex should be a special thing that's not given freely to everyone...plus I have a boyfriend too...but I think it's the 1st reason more so ). and then there was the 1st few times when guys tried sucking/biting my nipples during a dance...when it's the first time, you don't know how to react...or at least I didn't...but I felt bad not being prepared to tell them (you're not allowed to lick me there...or else we'll both get in trouble by the bouncer)...and i've even thought "well , if i let him lick, maybe i'll get a 2nd dance" ...but really, is another 20.00 really worth it? and it's not guaranteed... you'll come across things like that that will test you and you''ll figure out, hopefully, what your boundaries will be and you'll stick to them so that you'll be able to sleep peacefully with your soul when you get home.
    one thing I didn't do but should've done before i started dancing was rehearse out loud, in a private place, what you'd say to a guy who's trying to lick you or finger you in ways that might get you in trouble or that you think is against your own personal comfort..etc... you don't want to embarrass the custy, if it's not justified...you want to be effective.

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    Congrats Windy! That's very exciting, I'm so happy for you! Good Luck!!!

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