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    Now how would I handle this one? I've been dancing at thei sclub for a while now, and I haven't told a soul, not anybody besides my fiancee what I do. And one day last week I'm dancing and I look across the room and my landlord and his buddies are there! and next thing I know he's tipping me on stage($ 20) and wants a lapdance. i was in such disbelief, I know the guy pretty well, he's my landlord and mechanic, and he's married and I was flabergasted! WTF? He tipped me well $30 for a $20 lapdance and bought 3 more. But how do I handle this? He wasn't grabby, but his hands did keep wandering. It was just weird, he's an okay guy, but it's like I know your wife and your in here getting dances from me and slobbering over me! Help!!!! What do I say? Or not say?

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    Default Re: Know somebody from "outside" the club?

    Rule #567

    Never dance for people you know.

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    Default Re: Know somebody from "outside" the club?

    Hey I mean...I guess Mechanics fix cars for people they know, doctors have operated on people they know. waitresses wait on people they know....At least he uh...tipped well? What happens in the club stays in the club I suppose.

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    I would never dance for someone i know...creepy, urgh.
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    I think I danced for him becasue I knew he has money and I was kind of dazed that he was there and right as I come off the stage he's there asking me. Maybe I'll get lucky and hell go somewhere else....... it was weird though lol

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    I would never dance for someone I know and I would never admit to being who they thought I was, I would deny it and act like I've never seen them before in my life. Now, the only time I would ever dance for someone I know if a really good friend of mine came in to see me, a couple of my girlfriends came in to see me on Saturday night back in the summer and I gave each of them a dance and didn't charge them because they are my 2 closest friends but any acquaintance, don't dance for them and act like you have no idea who they are or what they're talking about. It could get really bad for you OTC, especially if they know where you live and know people that you know.

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    Default Re: Know somebody from "outside" the club?

    Quote Originally Posted by Scout
    Rule #567

    Never dance for people you know.
    So what are the rules 1-566? lol

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    People I know come in my club all the time and always tip me very well. I guess it makes no difference to me because everyone I know knows what I do anyway. I think they feel kind of obligated to tip me really well because they do know me outside of my job....no complaints here...lol.

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    Here is why I have a hard time dancing for someone I know outside the club.

    When I give a dance I act like I want to crawl inside that person's pants and make myself at home, I look in their eyes and purr and give one helluva lap dance if I do say so myself.
    Now, anyone I know is going to know that's BS or it's going to be weird. They'de get some generic lap dance, maybe a silly one, or one with mostly talking......but it would still be weird to me.

    So, I don't dance for people I know. I'll send other girls over who I know give killer dances and tell them to have a fun night and check on the peridically.

    But this situation sounds icky...your landlord, and bought a few dances, and had wandering hands...I mean, the guy is going to see you again outside the club....wouldn't it be weird?

    Stripper says to guy in front of wife "Hey my rent is going to be a wee bit late....Oh, I told you that the other night while I was sitting on your lap topless, I forgot!"

    Not that you'de ever say that...but sheesh....it's just weird.





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    Next time you see him act confidently like it was no big deal. Like you are in control, and i bet he will be the one who is a little sheepish around you OTC. Hopefully over time the wierdness will go away. I wouldnt dance for him again though. Tell him to send his rich friends in to see you!

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    It really depends on my relationship with the person OTC. For instance, in my not too distant past I was doing a full nude pub show booking locally. The last person I expected to be there was my driving instructor however after I came out to collect my music off the DJ and chat with a few regulars for a short bit... he came up to me and said "Great show! I didn't know you did this..." and so on and so forth.

    You can guess that I dropped him and that driving school like a ton of bricks. I didn't know this guy however due to driving lessons taking place in an intimate environment (him and me in a car - confinded space as such) I have to have trust in my driving instructor to be professionial. He naturally had my mobile number and send me some text messages about possibly booking me for private shows etc... like I said... I never went back again.

    I never dance for good friends and if I do it is purely just to show them what I do and how I do it (as one friend didn't believe me that I am THAT good at lap dances and wanted to find out for himself ... he has since changed his mind yet we are still great friends). I also do not dance for people such as landlords or anyone I would have to deal with on a regular basis.

    Why? Lap dances are intimate encounters. They are sensual as well as sexual (you are "manipulating" sexual energy in a dance or well that is just my opinion) ... and just intimate.

    Truce is correct. You need to act confidently for a little bit and do not dance for him again.


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    Default Re: Know somebody from "outside" the club?

    Quote Originally Posted by Scout
    Rule #567

    Never dance for people you know.
    Hey now where's the rest of the list??

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    Default Re: Know somebody from "outside" the club?

    Quote Originally Posted by leogirl876
    So what are the rules 1-566? lol
    I believe they are building the list here.

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