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    Every dancer out there---YOU have my complete respect!!

    Okay....so, I've never danced before...well, not in public anyways.

    Having recently gone through some extremely tough times with money, I thought I'd look into stripping. I've thought about trying it before....plus I have a nice body....and the confidence to go with it. Plus, I love to dance so I figured...hey, why not.

    Well...I was lucky enough to find a place that was willing to let me hang out and work the door for a few nights to get a feel for the place & what the dancers go through. After ONE night...I decided that dancing was totally NOT for me! There were several factors that played into my decision....but mainly, I'm just not strong enough to do it, and do it with talent & total confidence (on and off the stage). The girls in there were beautiful, strong....and were great at working the crowd. I have total respect for dancers now seeing what they go through from a 'wannabe dancer's' perspective.

    I just thought I'd let everyone out there know about my experience....and how I have realized that stripping is not easy. It is not glamorous and fun all the time. It takes a special kind of woman to get on stage and perform....and I am completely in awe of that ability!!! I now know that I'm meant to be in the crowd instead of on the stage.

    I wish all of you the best of luck in your careers and lives.

    **MUAH**

    --Diana

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    Default Re: Every dancer out there---YOU have my complete respect!!

    Thank you. We don't get enough real love, dammit. (((Hugs.))) Hope things work out for you.

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    Wow...now I'm in awe. Someone who realizes that it's not all wine and roses.

    I hope you figure out what it is you want to do and do it well. Best of luck to you.

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    Thank you. I wish more people saw it like you.

    I wish you all the luck too. You seem like a very nice person and I am sure whatever path you choose will lead you to a happy place.

    What a nice post.
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    Thanks a $1,000,000! It takes a real woman to affirm this out loud.

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    We <3 ppl like u too

    ppl who know its not all what ppl assume it to be




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    Thank you for being so open minded about all this and in return you'll have our respect.



    I really dispise how people think this the type of employment "anyone with a pair of tits" can do... whilst that my be true to a certain extent... it takes a special woman to be able to do this employment successfully.


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    Quote Originally Posted by madmaxine
    Thank you. We don't get enough real love, dammit. (((Hugs.))) Hope things work out for you.
    Ditto!
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    Best thing I've read today. Thanks for the post!
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    Oh, and nope, rubbing titties isn't air dancing.
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    The cut-off age for stripping is when customers stop paying you.

    The end.

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    What a great way to start the morning!!!

    Thanks you sweety! You have no idea how refreshing that is!





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    That's an expectionally nice comment. It is nice to see that someone that works with "us" dancers, but is on the otherside of the fence (i.e. door girls, waitresses, bartenders, etc) recognizes that this is a very high stress level job.

    To many of our industry coworkers (and the general public) think that we are a bunch of spoiled, drunk, anorexic, drugged out bitches that have it soooo easy making our money.

    It's not easy getting naked, performing, hoping you haven't started your period, your smelly ass doesn't smell, constantly pushing guys hands off your chest and thighs, dealing with drunks, trying NOT to get drunk, getting rejected when you are all glammed up and "think" you look your best, counting on making a few hundred and coming home with $50 bucks, etc. etc. I could go on and on.




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    Default Re: Every dancer out there---YOU have my complete respect!!

    Thanks....it'a always refreshing to see that someone understands what we go through and actually comends us on it.

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    thanks.

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    All I can say is Thank You. You are obviously a wonderful women and may all the best in life be yours.
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    Quote Originally Posted by madmaxine
    Thank you. We don't get enough real love, dammit. (((Hugs.))) Hope things work out for you.

    You're welcome...and you definitely deserve respect...and much love

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    Default Re: Every dancer out there---YOU have my complete respect!!

    Quote Originally Posted by Lola Lee


    That's an expectionally nice comment. It is nice to see that someone that works with "us" dancers, but is on the otherside of the fence (i.e. door girls, waitresses, bartenders, etc) recognizes that this is a very high stress level job.

    To many of our industry coworkers (and the general public) think that we are a bunch of spoiled, drunk, anorexic, drugged out bitches that have it soooo easy making our money.

    It's not easy getting naked, performing, hoping you haven't started your period, your smelly ass doesn't smell, constantly pushing guys hands off your chest and thighs, dealing with drunks, trying NOT to get drunk, getting rejected when you are all glammed up and "think" you look your best, counting on making a few hundred and coming home with $50 bucks, etc. etc. I could go on and on.

    I totally agree....and I find it unfortunate. It's just like any other high-stress profession....and it should be recognized as such. I wish you the best!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by GoldCoastGirl
    Thank you for being so open minded about all this and in return you'll have our respect.



    I really dispise how people think this the type of employment "anyone with a pair of tits" can do... whilst that my be true to a certain extent... it takes a special woman to be able to do this employment successfully.
    You are more than welcome....and to hell with close minded people!!


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    Thank you so much,sweety!! Man, I wish you worked at my club!

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