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    When I was in high school, I was about 15 lbs heavier than I am currently (at 5'2", 15lbs makes a difference); I had long, black, unstyled hair; I was "so pale the walls were jealous;" had small boobies for a rather chubby body...I hung out with the punk kids, alternative kids, the intellectuals, a few geeks. Even though I was a cheerleader, I was only friends with a few girls on the team, and could not get a date to save my life.

    Throughout my senior year, I had a crush on a football player (of course). We'll call him "A". He would not give me the time of day! One time I went to his house with a girlfriend of mine, and although I did kiss him, it was clear he was interested in her, not me. He wasn't particularly rude to me, but it was commonly understood he was "out of my league."

    Fast forward 6 years. I lost weight, dyed my hair blonde, got a nice tan, and of course size DD breasts. I have a myspace page, with some provacative, professional photos up that I've had done in the past 2 years during my career as an exotic dancer.

    BIG SURPRISE: I get messages from long-forgotten A. We flirt. We talk on the phone. He's all into me. Right away (like our 1st conversation), he says he wants to travel the 450 miles down here to see me (from the Bay Area down here to SoCal). I am tickled pink! He is still SOOO cute, and I can't believe that someone who wouldn't look twice at me in high school is now totally on my jock.

    Ok, he's superficial...I don't care! I just broke up with a serious boyfriend and I am going to take full advantage of this opportunity to live out a fantasy from my younger years. It's nice to know that, after all the work I put into my appearance, it's paying off outside the club as well.

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    HIGH FIVE! Oh and I hope he is worth the 450 mile drive.

    I wonder if he'll put out...
    People are not ruled by their memories.

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    Really? Victory is yours? I dunno. I have been in a similar situation (mind you the guy i liked was an ass to me), and when i saw him years later and he asked me out, i was so very happy to reject his sorry ass. He was really good looking, but an arrogant dick. Argh.
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    ^^ No buzz kills. Let her ride it [email protected]
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    I love being rude to all the hometown boys who dogged me when I was an ugly teenager. But that's just me.

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    Another note I thought worth mentioning:

    This high school crush has turned out nicely, especially compared to my recent young, irresponsible ex. He has his bachelor's degree, a bonafide, upward-climbing career, and owns property. Not to mention he's my age, not 4 years younger like my last boyfriend. Basically, he's one of the few guys I've come into contact with who has his shit together even more than myself. So far he doesn't seem arrogant, he's leaving the past in the past and making a genuine attempt to get to know me. If he's just doing this to get into my pants, can you blame me if I don't mind? He's HOT, and I haven't been single for almost 2 years! Oh, and Mastridonicus, he will be the one traveling, not me. My last boyfriend had to scrimp and save for a $30 bus ticket every time he wanted to make the hour and a half trip between our homes.

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    This thread will be turned into Freddy Prinze Jr's next movie...

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    Quote Originally Posted by MishaBliss
    Really? Victory is yours? I dunno. I have been in a similar situation (mind you the guy i liked was an ass to me), and when i saw him years later and he asked me out, i was so very happy to reject his sorry ass. He was really good looking, but an arrogant dick. Argh.
    i'm with misha.

    i've had countless guys from my highschool come into work, who wouldn't have pissed on me if i was on fire back then, some whom even picked on me and made my teenage years miserable, and suddenly seen my transformation from chubby loser to hot stripper and been like "omg we should totally catch up for a drink or dinner one day". telling them all to go fuck themselves in the ass cos i would never touch a piece of shallow trash like them, was one of the best feelings in the world.

    i personally just don't believe that anyone who didn't give you the time of day for superficial reasons in school, certainly does not deserve a moment of your time now.
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    I have always been powerless to the "you-wanted-me-years-and-years-ago dude" too and thankfully- we are given free choice to choose our paths. Curiosity couldn't have killed the cat...heh heh Have fun

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    Booty call? Don't expect anything serious. But hey, free sex. Use condoms. Wear your heels. Etc.


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    Lol, I totally relate - I was also an ugly, chubby nerd in highschool... I just love bumping into the 'cool' kids back home who're pathetically striving for the life of popularity and status they once revelled in but have come to find doesn't exist in the real world and are knocked up with a dead-end job and fading looks and still living in their hometown.

    Forevernaked, good on you, I say ride this guy's brains out for your own amusement and then drop him like a stone and move on with your superior life

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    From your post it kinda sounds like you're fishing for his approval. Not the right frame of mind for such a conquest.
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    I've been there babe. I wasn't an "ugly duckling" in High-School but I was the once popular turned punk/goth chic everyone loved to hate. I was preppy/cheerleader until my sophmore year and then went through the "change". My "supposed" (preppy) friends would still talk to me 'to my face' but then say nasty things behind my back (like--is she on drugs, why did she get so weird, I heard she has AIDS and is dying, etc bullshit like that). This led to a severe depression, deterioration in self-image, "cutting", smoking, drugs, alcohol, all that good stuff.

    Funny thing, I was super excelerated in scholastics for my age/grade level. So upon, recommendation from our school guidance counselor I "tested" out of highschool at 16. Started attending a University at 17.

    Fast Forward....I grew up FAST in college. Started working out, dressing normal again, noticed attention fom the guys, got really good tit job with DD implants, some lipo, professional makeup lessons, etc. Graduated college at 21, got offered a job with a starting salary of mid $40's for a large Oil and Gas company in Houston (not Enron but close!). Realized climbing the corporate ladder wasn't for me and I could make TONS more money "entertaining" on my own schedule.

    Blah, Blah... Here I am today. I LOVE, LOVE going home to visit and running into old classmates. They are absolutely shocked by my appearance. Now, consider I went to school in East Tennessee. Most these girls and guys are overweight, have bad dental hygeine, 8 babies, grease under their bitten finger nails, etc. To them, it look like I walked off a Hollywood set. I drive my nice car, hair, makeup and nails always to the 9, I have a gorgeous baby daughter, I dress in high end clothes they have probably only seen on television. Anyway...that's my victory/revenge. I love it!


    But back to the point, I would NEVER give anyone that hurt me the time of day. IF you do though...screw him, tell him he is a lame [email protected], and throw him to the dogs.




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    I'm understand misha, but I am totally on forevernaked's side.

    Face it, how many people TODAY have you excluded from your attention based on certain physical attributes. Even ones you have no need to even communicate with!

    Look it's highschool, it happens. Time to let it go. I mean for me it would be almost a decade. How long do we wait to give someone a second chance? Would we all want to be held accountable for shit we did in highschool before we even knew how to be individuals much less have forsight? We're different people now. ALL of us.

    Ha, I'm not a great looking dude. Seriously. I was even worse in highschool. I kept my rat tail way too long.

    I met up with one chick I had some of the dirtiest thoughts about back in May. Yea, she didn't even recognize me until I told her my last name. She used to get her friends together and make fun of me. (Especially since we had gym together and the lower part of my tummy hung out under my shirt.) Honestly, I didn't really care. I let that shit go a long time ago. Any one of those people is welcome to step up today :/.

    Turns out she's a really cool chick. Kinda dead-end..but ok with that. Too bad she was moving out of town. Either way... Fantasy Accomplished.



    So.

    HIGH FIVE.

    On the negative note: ForeverNaked, don't put the cart before the horse. He looks like he has his shit together, as of this moment, unless you have banks statements, you have insuffecient proof. You like him. Until that changes, that's all that matters.
    People are not ruled by their memories.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lola Lee
    Blah, Blah... Here I am today. I LOVE, LOVE going home to visit and running into old classmates. They are absolutely shocked by my appearance. Now, consider I went to school in East Tennessee. Most these girls and guys are overweight, have bad dental hygeine, 8 babies, grease under their bitten finger nails, etc. To them, it look like I walked off a Hollywood set. I drive my nice car, hair, makeup and nails always to the 9, I have a gorgeous baby daughter, I dress in high end clothes they have probably only seen on television. Anyway...that's my victory/revenge. I love it!
    Feels good doesn't it? Kinda in the same boat really.

    But lets face it, stop being modest. I didn't know you in highschool, but you're one hell of a beautiful headturner now, Mrs. Arizona.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mastridonicus
    I'm understand misha, but I am totally on forevernaked's side.

    Face it, how many people TODAY have you excluded from your attention based on certain physical attributes. Even ones you have no need to even communicate with!

    Look it's highschool, it happens. Time to let it go. I mean for me it would be almost a decade. How long do we wait to give someone a second chance? Would we all want to be held accountable for shit we did in highschool before we even knew how to be individuals much less have forsight? We're different people now. ALL of us.

    Ha, I'm not a great looking dude. Seriously. I was even worse in highschool. I kept my rat tail way too long.

    I met up with one chick I had some of the dirtiest thoughts about back in May. Yea, she didn't even recognize me until I told her my last name. She used to get her friends together and make fun of me. (Especially since we had gym together and the lower part of my tummy hung out under my shirt.) Honestly, I didn't really care. I let that shit go a long time ago. Any one of those people is welcome to step up today :/.

    Turns out she's a really cool chick. Kinda dead-end..but ok with that. Too bad she was moving out of town. Either way... Fantasy Accomplished.



    So.

    HIGH FIVE.

    On the negative note: ForeverNaked, don't put the cart before the horse. He looks like he has his shit together, as of this moment, unless you have banks statements, you have insuffecient proof. You like him. Until that changes, that's all that matters.
    Um...I'm on her side too
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    ME SO SORRY!

    I meant Mistress Darcy.

    Forgive mast?
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    A second male perspective, from someone rather more aged than the popular young Mast:

    Go for it!

    Superficial beauty and popularity are fun. You have decades to get more serious.

    Mr. Football travelling 8 hours to see you? Savor it.

    One request -- will you report back on what has happened to HIM in the last 6 years? The tables may have turned more than you think!

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    If I were you, I would have fun and not have too many expectations going into your rendevouz. Just remember, you are not the same person that you were in HS and he probably isn't either. Keep your self esteem in check, be careful, and have fun for me b/c I haven't gotten any in a long time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by madmaxine
    I love being rude to all the hometown boys who dogged me when I was an ugly teenager. But that's just me.
    Exactly. At my age, the guys who were cute in high school are either fat or balding or their once perfect looking wives have major hip and ass spread.

    I was a late bloomer and, as such, still am thin (with bigger boobs now), young looking and vibrant.

    So fuck them...they should've paid attention then. They ain't gettin' none now...I went and got me a young 'un.

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    Girls have needs! Use him for your purposes then cackle with glee when he's gone. He might be a decent ride! (or a dud), but you'll never know if you don't give it a red hot go!

    Have a bit of fun (safely) and see it for what it is -- he sure ain't your soul mate!

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    Quote Originally Posted by casaubon1
    A second male perspective, from someone rather more aged than the popular young Mast:

    Go for it!

    Superficial beauty and popularity are fun. You have decades to get more serious.

    Mr. Football travelling 8 hours to see you? Savor it.

    One request -- will you report back on what has happened to HIM in the last 6 years? The tables may have turned more than you think!
    I agree(d) completely,

    Now why am I so young? And thanks for the kind words. And I'm about as popular as hemerroids.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lola Lee
    I've been there babe. I wasn't an "ugly duckling" in High-School but I was the once popular turned punk/goth chic everyone loved to hate. I was preppy/cheerleader until my sophmore year and then went through the "change". My "supposed" (preppy) friends would still talk to me 'to my face' but then say nasty things behind my back (like--is she on drugs, why did she get so weird, I heard she has AIDS and is dying, etc bullshit like that). This led to a severe depression, deterioration in self-image, "cutting", smoking, drugs, alcohol, all that good stuff.

    Funny thing, I was super excelerated in scholastics for my age/grade level. So upon, recommendation from our school guidance counselor I "tested" out of highschool at 16. Started attending a University at 17.

    Fast Forward....I grew up FAST in college. Started working out, dressing normal again, noticed attention fom the guys, got really good tit job with DD implants, some lipo, professional makeup lessons, etc. Graduated college at 21, got offered a job with a starting salary of mid $40's for a large Oil and Gas company in Houston (not Enron but close!). Realized climbing the corporate ladder wasn't for me and I could make TONS more money "entertaining" on my own schedule.

    Blah, Blah... Here I am today. I LOVE, LOVE going home to visit and running into old classmates. They are absolutely shocked by my appearance. Now, consider I went to school in East Tennessee. Most these girls and guys are overweight, have bad dental hygeine, 8 babies, grease under their bitten finger nails, etc. To them, it look like I walked off a Hollywood set. I drive my nice car, hair, makeup and nails always to the 9, I have a gorgeous baby daughter, I dress in high end clothes they have probably only seen on television. Anyway...that's my victory/revenge. I love it!


    But back to the point, I would NEVER give anyone that hurt me the time of day. IF you do though...screw him, tell him he is a lame [email protected], and throw him to the dogs.
    What Lola said, plus(+) what "Mastridonicus" said, mulitply(x) it by what misha said "From your post it kinda sounds like you're fishing for his approval. Not the right frame of mind for such a conquest."

    Equals (=)...................................... Redemption!

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    UPDATE: We're meeting up for the weekend in Tahoe next week. We've been talking almost every day and I think we've both been surprised at how well we get along. I'm just excited to see if/how things work out next week. If nothing else, I'm definitely hoping to get some booty from a hottie. Every girl needs a little romance in her life! I'll let y'all know how it goes...wish me luck!

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    Good luck, and I expect a full report ASAP

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