In the “real world” I am a normal girl who has a boyfriend I truly love and adore, an average sex drive, and no real desire to flirt or show off in public as I have the ability to release that energy in the job I do (stripping). In fact I really resent any sexual attention outside the club.
Then when I put on my makeup, stilettos and I am in the club I turn into a totally different person i.e. very flirtatious, extraverted, loud, claiming to have a massive sex drive etc etc. And this is great for the customers as it brings in a lot of bread, however it has started to develop a little problem...
My manager (who has a girlfriend of his own mind you) and the DJ (who has a wife) have gradually over time become very “friendly” and overly affectionate with me. Started telling me privet details of their lives, telling me I am a real cool chick and joking around that I am hot as hell and would dream of being with me one day and generally just flirting their arses off with me.
Now in the beginning I thought this was all shits and giggles and I played a long with it just having some fun as I was in the role already but I have noticed that very few other girls in the club get this kind of attention and I don’t want to be sending out any wrong signals. They both get especially worse when they have been drinking.
I try to be professional and have tried to pull back a bit from flirting around with these guys when they speak with me but when I am all done up in costume I find it difficult not to be flirtatious and suggestive cos I am in that mindset.
Apart from just staying clear from them (cos I have obviously already tried this but a little difficult when you are working the same shifts as them) does anyone have any advice or been through something like this before….?
Sorry its so long...




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