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    Default Couple Qs (first time strip club goer)

    Whats up, you guys know where i can get an explantion of the strip club terms/lingo? And also the rules/ettiquete (sp?) on proper tipping and such....ive only been to a strip club once (Offarel in San Francisco) and would like to "know" whats up. Also is it bad if i come in and (payed my entrance fee) and just chilled in the 2nd (or futher back) rows and just watch the stage shows...not get private/lap dances etc? Please enlighten me guys, Thanks for any feedback.
    P.S. Id like to take my g/f (she said she wants to come) to the Strip club...any tips? by the way she says shes bi and shes not the jealous type. She doesnt mind me going to strip clubs as long as we go together.
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    Just going to chill and watch the show is fine, as long as you tip. Be respectful of the dancers' time, don't hassle them, and show your appreciation financially. The club does not pay the dancers, YOU do. And if you watch the show without tipping, you're stealing. So tip well and have fun.

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    Default Re: Couple Qs (first time strip club goer)

    also, keep in mind that MBOT is essentially a brothel, and most clubs aren't like that....or at least that obvious about it. But if that's your thing, you can have a lot of fun at any club, just bring lots of money, especially if you bring your girlfriend. Dancers won't even look at couples many times.

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    Default Re: Couple Qs (first time strip club goer)

    Thanks for the advice guys, also this question is to Emily, how did you know/what makes you say MBOT is a brothel? Hmmm i didnt even know this?

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    Default Re: Couple Qs (first time strip club goer)

    because I read stripperweb

    for instance: http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=70024

    (please stifle the urge to post on that thread, just showing you an example)

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    thanks and yeah i didnt post there, hmmm i just dont get how that club is "surviving" from the cops and what not. It says there that its one of the last SF strip clubs to offer extras...no wonder when i was there i had this weird feeling kinda like hmmm this club seems to be hiding something.

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    the cops don't care...they've publicly said this

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    Default Re: Couple Qs (first time strip club goer)

    Here are a few links and threads you may find useful:


    "Glossary of terms posted on TUSCL"
    http://www.tuscl.com/gloss.asp

    "Confused, Condused, Confused"
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=72263
    (Another newbie customer asking about club ettiquete, and about sitting back)

    "First time at a club"
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=72099

    ""Rules for Customers"
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=36352
    (FYI - It's a really old thread. Some good information, but yeah there is some hostility. PLEASE DO NOT REFRESH IT.)
    Best of luck.
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    Default Re: Couple Qs (first time strip club goer)

    In terms of your question regarding bringin your gf:

    Here's another thread on the topic:

    "Give me the strait up - are female custies ok?"
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=52955
    (Check out post #10 for tons of links to other threads on the topic)


    Many female customers tend to be one of two extreams ...

    On on hand you have the gf who are just tagging along and trying to prove to their bf how "cool" they are with the whole SC scene, while sitting back all night with a smug look on their face making rude comments and giving dirty looks to the dancers ....

    Then at the other end of the spectrum you have the ladies who show up and think they are part of the show, distract from the dancers who are working, come in dressed like they're a dancer, are way too grabby during dances because they think woman will be able to get away with more than male customers (you wouldn't believe how many stories I've heard of female customers coming in without any panties on and basically molesting the dancers).

    Now the best is if your gf can be in the middle. Someone who legitimately is there to have a good time, tipps the dancers, has fun, behaves herself like any other customer is expected to and does not try to become part of the show.
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    Default Re: Couple Qs (first time strip club goer)

    I hate the bitches who come in ONLY to try and look "cool" for their bf, and sit there either with a scowl all night or try and do ANYthing to get attention away from the dancers If they can't act any better than that they can get the fuck out as far as I'm concerned. I'd rather dance for the men and the small amount of money they spend isn't worth the hassle anyway.

    MBOT is most definitely a brothel, and they don't even try to hide it dude. You might be better off taking your girl to a place like Gold Club instead.

    Of course you can get away with going in and sitting there all night watching the show for free and not tipping anyone or buying dances, but NO ONE in the club appreciates that. At least tip the girls you like on stage. You don't have to tip alot, a dollar or two works. We girls have to PAY THE CLUB to work there, so we do not appreciate guys who go in and take up table space for free. Yeah, you pay the cover, but we pay a whole hell of a lot more for the privilige of working there. Please don't be one of those scumbags who watches the show all night and doesn't even tip. That is the worst.

    Other than that, simply using the same type of common courtesy you would extend to people in any other situation is how you should behave. Follow that and you'll be cool.

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    Thanks for all the feedback ladies. I was just reading the posts above me and thank goodness my girlfriend isnt like that. I just asked her last night to tell me what her motives were for going to a strip club and she told me that she just wants to have a good time and see some hot girls....lol sometimes when were out in public i catch her checking out other girls .

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    I found some good info for you at .

    (strip club terminology, standard practices,
    politics and etiquette)

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    thanks for the link =)

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    Default Re: Couple Qs (first time strip club goer)

    not getting lap dances is ok as long as you TIP when you are watching the show. also,
    let the girls who sit with you know fairly soon that you aren't interested in dances. you don't have to come right out and say it, but at least hint to them. usually saying "yeah we're just hear to watch the show" will be enough. just know that if you're acting interested in the dancer, and are buying her drinks, she might assume you want dances and you're more likely to accidently lead her on. most girls appreciate guys who are kind, but upfront about it.

    on female customers, it all depends on the girl. i've had some reallllllly awesome and fun female customers and i've met some total cunts. as long as she's just there to have a good time and follows the same rules the guys have to... she'll be fine.

    also, i -am- a female customer at other clubs. but when i'm there i'm not a dancer and i don't dress like one or try to dance on stage or any of that.

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    thanks Pretty_Penny

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