OK this is a different spin on the comment that a lot of cheap/rude customers say. There are some customers that, when asked if they'd like a lapdance, decline and say "But I'd rather do a lot more than just a lapdance. I don't get to touch or anything! My idea of fun is sex, and I can't do that here." Well newsflash, Cheap Bastard...I can't have sex either, so you being "deprived" of having sex in the strip club doesn't make you "special"!! As much as the guys complain that they'd rather have sex than a "teasing" lapdance, or they try to ask if they can have sex in the VIP, ever think think that us dancers are being deprived from sex, too?
For example, what if I happened to meet a hot guy at the club(a rarity, but hey it happens)...the type of guy that I'd probably arrange to hang out with and/or hook up with if I'd met him OTC at a "normal" place? Even if I was horny as hell, I couldn't have sex with him in the club because I would get fired for "extras" and besides, I don't mix work with personal life anyway. Sometimes giving a lapdance to a gorgeous guy can be just as much of a tease for me as it is for him. But I still abstain! Or what if I'd prefer spending the night with my boyfriend or "friend with benefits," but instead I'm stuck abstaining from sex all night long at the strip club, simply because I need to work and make money? By me going to work that night at the strip club, I'm not gonna be gettin laid there either or even that same night. And I'm stuck at work until 3am(unlike most guys with "normal" work schedules, who have their whole nights free to prowl around for girls but instead CHOOSE to come to a strip club), which at that time most boyfriends/"friends with benefits" are already sleeping. So yeah guys, I'M not gettin any when I'm at the strip club either; it's not just you. So stop whining that you hate strip clubs because you can't get laid there. If you hate strip clubs that much, stop coming in so that you stop wasting our time and bringing us down with your bad attitude.
But anyways, what's with all these guys lately asking if they can have sex in the VIP, then declining because they can't? What assholes...and if they're willing to pay for sex, then they're degrading themselves as much as the ho that is involved. Because if they are paying for sex, that shows that they do not view themselves as "worthy" or "good enough" to be able to get a girlfriend/get laid for free like most normal people do. Any guy that pays for sex, shows signs of low self esteem as much as a girl who will stoop down to the level of doing extras because she doesn't think she can make the same amount of money otherwise. Just wanted to rant.![]()


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)..GREAT IDEA!!!! I would imagine that would be pretty akward for everyone involved otherwise!

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