Ok here's the deal, Im dating a dancer that travels on and off from montreal to windsor to work. Most of the clubs in montreal are contact and those that have no contact dont get as busy. So she works in windsor where the money is good and the laws are more strict.
She's been there for about a week now and was planning to stay another, but last night I got a call from her at about 1am. She tells me that she's hardly made any money. She's been a bit sick the last 2 days and that she got freaked by by bumping into some guy that used to stalk her a couple years ago. Now tells me she just feels like coming back home even tho she the trip will end up costing her money (train fee and staying at the crack house fee).
She feels she's not making much money and that its because she's feels like she has lost her "mojo". She doesnt feel sexy nor does she feel like being flirty. A friend of hers told her that she isnt being aggressive enough in the hustle with the custies. Now my girl has been dancing on and off for years now so Im sure she knows how to hustle, but I think now she's just lacking a bit of motivation.
I told my girl that its ok to have a FEW drinks (she's had to cut down in the past) just to loosen her muscles up. And to imagine a time when she felt sexy to get herself in the mood. After reading some of the tips here I mentioned to her that she should talk to any man with the idea that he ALREADY wants a dance so just assume it and act accordingly - meaning dont ask, rather just say it and take the lead.
So to all the dancers in the house who have had similar experiences of temporarily losing their mojo, got any tips on how to get it back?
Thanks to all the sweeties that answer!![]()
Alex


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But, I will at least show her around this site as I was telling her that the internet pretty much as all the answers you would ever need.



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