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    Default i gotta rant... 2 girl dance!

    I almost never rant, but i got really... frustrated... by this. *note our dances are done on the floor*

    Last night i approach a bachelor party, and begin chatting up a guy. I ask what brings them in, he says bachelor party, i said, "oooh, can i give the bachelor a dance?" he said sure, hey, why dont you jump on in there with that other girl (someone i dont know). i say, ok. i go over (guy yells, just jump on in there, laughs) i say, hi... i was sent to join you guys! she looks at me with a cold hard stare. im not trying to steal him, bitch! im trying to optimize both of our time, and do what the customers wanted. so i begin to get undressed, and start to join in, and she FREAKS OUT. i mean freaks out, "I DONT DO TWO GIRLS! NOBODY ASKED ME! DONT TOUCH ME" im like... whoa ... and i try to bring her back to reality... "let's make this good for the bachelor, since it's his party." and i take one leg, so she can take the other. well she doesn't, she spends the rest of the song touching herself and standing in front of him dancing staring at the floor. so not even into it. im like... oh my my... well the song ends and she just walks away, and i feel like, oh my god this poor bachelor was just treated like shit. so i stay a lil longer and try to make the experience more pleasurable. i say im sorry for her behavior and that i dont know her, but ill give you some mroe for free to make up for it. he smiles, his friends smile, and im completely still astounded. so i finally get up and say, congratulations! and walk over to her as she is checking herself very narcissitically in the mirror. i say, im sorry for that, they asked me to join, and im sorry if i made you uncomfortable. i didn't mean anythign by it. she is like, yelling, "NOBODY ASKED ME!! I DONT DO TWO GIRL DANCES!" im like, calmly, "i dont think there was time for anyone to ask you, it didn't happen that way. i was also trying to optimize time for each of us, since time is money."
    "well, i was giving him a dance and you just busted in!" and she just walks away.
    ok walmart blondie, get out of your cheap ass lingerie as it appears to be clouding your brain and realize that that's how this works, i wasnt trying to steal your custy, i was trying to make us BOTH more money... IDIOT! GODDDD! lol. ok ive ranted. ever had a situ like this? in nearly 7 years of dancing... never before...

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    OUCH!! Never seen that in 4 years. Is this girl on something??? What a dumb bitch!! She is probably so conceited and full of herself she sees herself as god's gift to the customer and thinks that another girl "intruding" would make her less money, as he is only REALLY interested in her. If she chooses not to do doubles that is her problem. She should have handled it a lot better than that. I do always inform girls of a situation. Lesson: If you don't know her, ask if she'd like to do a double. If she doesn't offer them another hot girl who is willing. You can't "steal" the custy if she declines the double.
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    Default Re: i gotta rant... 2 girl dance!

    Some people really freak out about same-gender contact. If you both keep working the same shifts, you might want to see if you can work it out still.

    Was this before the bachelor guy (Ian?) was up on the stage or after?

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    Oy, she was way out of line, obvioulsy. But you handled it perfectly. Just blow her off if she tries to give you any crap about it in the future - any attempt at rational discussion seems beyond her.
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    What the hell? Homophobe much? That is ridiculous. and hilarious. If she'd said that to me I would have repeated it *out loud,* stood and watched her, then danced for the dude myself, calling over a friend who *did* do two-girl dances. What a nut.

    But Chrissy, I can understand why she was scared, what with your intimidated physical presence and overwhelming sexual charisma. She was probably afraid she'd turn lesbian if you danced next to her. God knows I'd do something inappropriate.

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    But you have danced next to her...

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    Default Re: i gotta rant... 2 girl dance!

    Not to sound stereotypical but she's probably on meth or something, I don't know of anyone who would act that psycho and do it sober! Fuck her! Just try to stay as far away from her as possible, there's a couple of girls at my club that I avoid at all costs, can you say DRAMA QUEENS!!!! Some people just love drama!

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    Chrissy, I might know who you are talking about. I knew the word "blondie" was coming before I even read the end of your post where you referred to her as that. She sounds a bit homophobic. One time a guy was paying me to dance for his girlfriend, and she walked by and he asked her to join in, and she declined and said that she "didn't do that." Susan Wayward might have a point, that maybe the girl is afraid of becomming a lesbian, and because she sees so many other girls in this industry that are(there seems to be a higher % of Lesbians/bisexuals amongst dancers than in other work fields). Or maybe she had a bad traumatic experience involving another woman...I had an ex-boyfriend who was EXTREMELY homophobic(despite many peoples' suspicions that he's bi/gay), because he claimed that he got molested by a guy when he was younger. But odds of that are very slim...odds are, she either wanted the attention all to herself(selfish reason), or she's simply homophobic without any real reason to be.

    I think you handled it perfectly. If anything, the guys didn't handle it perfectly because they shoulda quickly consulted with the girl if she was ok with the 2 girl thing...but that's not your fault. But then again come to think of it, why should they have consulted with that girl? What girl WOULDN'T want to show a bachelor fun, or at least PRETEND to like other girls to turn on the guys and thus elicit more money from their pockets? We're there to provide a fantasy, and a lot of guys fantasize about 3somes, so a 2-on-1 lapdance is a good clean way to partially act out that fantasy for them. Most girls don't mind dancing 2-on-1 anyway, and like you said, our job is to show the bachelor (good, clean) fun. But yeah, I can see why you'd be annoyed at how she acted...I probably woulda felt the same way. At least you had the assertiveness to talk to her about it afterwards.

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    Default Re: i gotta rant... 2 girl dance!

    Quote Originally Posted by Chrissy68
    ok walmart blondie, get out of your cheap ass lingerie as it appears to be clouding your brain and realize that that's how this works, i wasnt trying to steal your custy, i was trying to make us BOTH more money... IDIOT! GODDDD! lol. ok ive ranted. ever had a situ like this? in nearly 7 years of dancing... never before...
    I swear that was the funniest shi I've read all day. That totally sounds like something I would've said

    I cant' offer any advice except that I agree she may just be homophobic.







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    i think that was the case christa... she always looks so into herself and not into the custies when she's dancing, either on stage or privately.
    Quote Originally Posted by PhillyDancer1982
    But odds of that are very slim...odds are, she either wanted the attention all to herself(selfish reason)
    thanks for the support ya'all. im glad to know i handled it right. i geuss in the future i will ask, "Do you mind if i join in, instead of being sexy about it." in fact, i got asked later the same night to do another 2 girl dance and i was super careful, said, "do you mind being touched?" to the girl, who responded, "hell no girl, i like girls. shit, i dont even like men." and then i thought, damn, that was way TMI.

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    Default Re: i gotta rant... 2 girl dance!

    If I am invited to dance with another girl who I have never danced nor interacted much with before I will definately decline the dance at that point and up-sell another dancer who is working (and available) so as not to encounter that situation. Not to mention that if you can't even fake being into each other a little bit that the dance just will NOT work. I've been there, I have done dances where we were just two strippers dancing for the same guy ... not anything the least bit bi-sexual... and it just wasn't as 'sexy' or as good (IMO) a dance as it could have been.

    If I do find that I am put together with someone that I have no experience with, I do ask what their limitations are etc. It may not be sexy yet it will save you alot of trouble

    Lesson learnt for you and I hope others learn the lesson inherit in here. Do not assume that all dancers can or will do 2 girl dances even if there is no hint of 'homosexuality' in the dance.


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