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    Hi everyone I'm new here and had a few questions.

    I'm 19 and bisexual and have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 yrs.

    We've just 'discovered' stripclubs and find it really good.

    I'm just wondering what everyone thinks about girls going to stripclubs? Is it ok? I know that's probably a stupid question, but I've been to the stripclub 3 times and there's never any other girls visiting there. Is it weird that I'm there? I've been asked by a guy in there why I was wearing so many clothes - he thought I worked there!

    What does everyone think the dancers feel when I'm looking at them and stuff? What should my general etiquette be? I don't want to make them feel uncomfortable (I'm very respectful and friendly). One of the girls even asked if I was bisexual. They've always been friendly to me though.

    I'm comfortable going there and enjoy it - my bf and I even got a lapdance and were both able to kiss her.

    Thanks for reading my post. any other advice would be of great help

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    Default Re: Girls/couples at stripclubs

    do a search on "couples" and you'll find about 500 threads on this topic.

    in a nutshell, we don't care for it, especially young couples with little money.

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    Thanks for your help Emily.

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    And here are just a few of them!

    "Give me the strait up - are female custies ok?"
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=52955

    "Couples in SC's"
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=28776

    "Are Female Customers More Fun?"
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=26978

    "Customer wives or girlfriends - how do you act?"
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=25202

    "Why am I suddenly seeing more women customers?"
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=28799

    "Do you girls that dance? Like to dance for?"
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=26877

    "Females" (NOTE: Thread is in Ladies Only)
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=26990

    "Do dancers have an issue dancing for couples?"
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=25668

    "Approaching Female Customers"
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=28868

    "Curious"
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=25919

    "Do the ladies like dancing for couples?"
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=28898

    "Women giving other women lap dances"
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=26708
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    Here is the generic response I give in regards to couples/females in the SC:

    Many female customers tend to be one of two extreams ...

    On on hand you have the gf who's just tagging along and trying to prove to their bf how "cool" she is with the whole SC scene, while sitting back all night with a smug look on her face making rude comments and giving dirty looks to the dancers. Not cool.

    Then at the other end of the spectrum you have the ladies who show up and think they are part of the show, distract from the dancers who are working, come in dressed like they're a dancer, are way too grabby during dances because they think woman will be able to get away with more than male customers (you wouldn't believe how many stories I've heard of female customers coming in without any panties on and basically molesting the dancers).

    Now the best is if a female custy can be in the middle. Someone who is legitimately there to have a good time, tipps the dancers, has fun, behaves herself like any other customer is expected to and does not try to become part of the show. Best of luck!
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    The current thread on this very topic, only a few threads down in stripping general. Did you look around at all before posting? I don't mean to sound mean, just trying to make a point....

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    I was told that in many clubs here in montreal, women custies are only allowed into the clubs if they come with a man. That is, woman arent allowed going in alone or in groups of only women.

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    Montreal has a club where guys dance for women, the 281, which I think is like that, but in reverse (never been in, this is second hand). Always a crowd of ladies coming out of there on a Saturday night, by the way, so probably one of the more successful male4female clubs, judging by the look of it.

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    Default Re: Girls/couples at stripclubs

    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette
    The current thread on this very topic, only a few threads down in stripping general. Did you look around at all before posting? I don't mean to sound mean, just trying to make a point....
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=74360
    Ehh, she's a newbie, go easy on her. She probably hasn't figured out yet on how to use all the search functions and everything, it took me a little while, I posted totally in the wrong area on my first post!

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    I enjoy when couples come into the club, AS LONG AS the female part is not bitchy or being dragged in, or going to make a point. But if she is like you, Nikki, and truly enjoys going, smiles at the girls, tips and is fun, then more power to her! Basically, guy or girl, be nice, tip and enjoy yourself respectfully and I don't see any reason why you shouldn't be there.

    Good Luck and have fun!




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    It's really a shame that couples have this stigma attached to them as being bad customers. My female SC partner and I are young, both of us are there to genuinely enjoy the women and we are far from broke. If we go to a Tampa club where we are known because of our repeat business, we are treated great... however, everytime we go out of town we sit in the center of the action and are ignored by the dancers about 90% of the time (or more).

    From reading the comments on here, we are obviously in the vast minority... too bad that others have really screwed our fun outside of our favorite clubs.

    Not all of the couples are bad, ladies... just thought I'd voice my opnion!

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    I agree with above. as long as the girl isn't sulking/rude/catty, or as long as she isn't grabby, yay!


    If you are polite, tip well, and aren't trying to get on the stage yourself, you should be fine.

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    we KNOW not all couples are bad

    but it's like....if you stick your hand in a hamster cage and hamsters keep biting you, you're not going to like hamsters

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    ^^^Haha, I love the hamster analogy, Emily!

    I have to agree with the dancers who don't care for couples. Nowadays I will only go up to a couple if they approach me first and ask me to dance for them. I have had so many bad experiences with couples. Maybe 10% of them that come into the club are cool, spend money, and don't expect anything outside of the club rules. The other 90% fall into one of these categories.

    a) The woman clearly does not want to be there. She is scowling and has her arms crossed. She is also making snide remarks about the dancers rather loudly.

    b) The couple is looking to pick up a dancer for a threesome, or the woman expects to be able to lick and touch the dancers everywhere. She thinks the rules don't apply to her because she is female.

    c) The woman gets drunk and starts dancing around and taking her clothes off, trying to take attention away from the dancers. She may ask the male customers for dances or to buy her drinks. This is extremely rude. Leave it to the professionals, bitch!

    There are some good couples out there, but the ones I mentioned ruin it for everyone. However, if you go in and tip well, follow the club's rules, and don't try to act like an amateur stripper, you will be treated well.

    I don't know if it's just a Wisconsin thing or not, but lately I've noticed a trend of really fat women coming into my work and thinking they're better than all the dancers because they have big tits. One of them a couple weeks ago was putting down all the dancers and saying she had the biggest tits out of all the women there. Well duh, if you weigh 250+ lbs, of course you're gonna have big tits! Doesn't mean guys will pay to see you naked. I think most men would rather see an attractive female with A cup boobs than a majorly overweight woman with huge tits.

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    Quote Originally Posted by blondhotti
    I don't know if it's just a Wisconsin thing or not, but lately I've noticed a trend of really fat women coming into my work and thinking they're better than all the dancers because they have big tits. One of them a couple weeks ago was putting down all the dancers and saying she had the biggest tits out of all the women there. Well duh, if you weigh 250+ lbs, of course you're gonna have big tits! Doesn't mean guys will pay to see you naked. I think most men would rather see an attractive female with A cup boobs than a majorly overweight woman with huge tits.
    Nope, Ive had that too! This group of girls came in after numerous bitchy comments all night towards most of the dancers, started saying extremely loudly "OMG how can they let HER dance here, shes so fat!" The dancer in question had given birth 3 weeks before, and had the tiniest little tummy still (shes a petite size6AUS, about 5foot tall) and they chicks were ALL twice her size literally, Im talking rolls and triple chins.

    The manager over heard and said that he thought it was great that they were willing to get up and give it a shot, he stopped the music and went right up in front of the club, and announced that we had a group of amatuers who wanted to try out. Not one would get up on stage, and the rest of the custies laughed them out!

    IME females/couples suck, Ive had 2 good experiences in 5 years of dancing, and they were both lesbians, in alone for a dance.
    This is comparison to the numerous assholes, such as the one who tried to rape a girl in the VIP room, while his "girlf" held the dancer down.
    Oh and the one who BEAT his girl when I refused to a) give him a bj or b) watch while she did. And she yelled at ME for calling the bouncers!

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    One of them a couple weeks ago was putting down all the dancers and saying she had the biggest tits out of all the women there. Well duh, if you weigh 250+ lbs, of course you're gonna have big tits!
    Hehe...damn funny.

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    Quote Originally Posted by verfolgung
    Now the best is if a female custy can be in the middle. Someone who is legitimately there to have a good time, tipps the dancers, has fun, behaves herself like any other customer is expected to and does not try to become part of the show. Best of luck!
    We both go occassionally and I'd say the above describes my wife perfectly. She has never had a problem. She has gotten on stage a few times, but only when invited by the feature dancer. We have fun.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sexy_celeste
    The manager over heard and said that he thought it was great that they were willing to get up and give it a shot, he stopped the music and went right up in front of the club, and announced that we had a group of amatuers who wanted to try out. Not one would get up on stage, and the rest of the custies laughed them out!
    What a good manager!!! Awesome.

    Quote Originally Posted by sexy_celeste
    This is comparison to the numerous assholes, such as the one who tried to rape a girl in the VIP room, while his "girlf" held the dancer down.
    You are FUCKING kidding me. Holy shit! How horrible! I'm glad it was only "tried" and not succeeded, but I'm sure the dancer felt completely violated and terrified. UGH! I hope this couple got some consequences from this.
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    ugh, the amatuers always wanna jump up there when IM onstage, grrr! I just get off, I dont know you! At least it gives us a break from the stage when we're tired!
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