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    Ok I was at work on Sat night when an old man came in and say down. I thought nothing of it...just a lonely old guy. Well at least 10 girls asked him to dance and he declined. I decided to give it a shot, you never know....Well he looks up at me before I even say anything and says "I've been waiting for you! Let's go have some dances!" So I'm thinking "Alright, that was easy, yay" Well we go over on the couch and he says "So Alexa, how are things going?" It was wierd because I hadn't even introduced myself yet, so figured he remembered my name from my being on stage or something...Well then he says "So are you still starting school in the spring?" Ok, I AM starting school, but I didn't tell him that...He told me that he'd come in before and spent some time with me but I didn't remember him at all...He had remember EVERYTHING we had talked about when he had come in before and he said it was like a month ago. He knew my major, he recalled everything we had talked about....Do you find that creepy at all?? Like stalker kinda creepy or do you think that's just a good regular customer?? I dont' really know what to think of it.....
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    Default Re: Do you find this creepy??

    Freaky.. It would just freak me out cause i could'nt remember him,I usually remember everyones face.

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    Default Re: Do you find this creepy??

    I've been stalked before, not by a customer, one from this guy I went to college with and another guy that lived in my old apartment complex and I'll tell you, this sounds kinda stalkerish! The guy that lived in my apartment complex remembered detail things that we talked about (we met for a brief 5 min like 8 months prior) and he remembered everything!!!! And then it got worse, he just knew everything about me and was always there when I got home, when I left, it was creepy. This sounds kinda creepy to me. If I were you, I'd be real careful about what I told him and if it seems to get worse, I'd totally blow him off because I really think this has stalker potential, coming from someone who has been stalked before, and let me tell you, it doesn't get better, it gets worse if you don't nip it in the bud asap! I had to move out of my apartment and get my name and number unlisted so he wouldn't know where I lived. Be careful!

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    Yeah I just don't really know what to think of it because he is this retired marine, just sweet old guy. And he spends big bucks on me, it's just that I don't know what the line is between, he just really likes me and remembers me because I stood out to him, and he's a stalker type of guy.
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    Default Re: Do you find this creepy??

    Funny you don't know the difference between a stalker and someone who actually listens!

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    Default Re: Do you find this creepy??

    Stalking involves behavior. Just remembering you or liking you does not constitute stalking.

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    Default Re: Do you find this creepy??

    I agree with the guys here. Yeah, it's kind of weird, but more so because he didn't start off with, "hey, remember me? We met up a month ago," but instead started with your name and all the personally related questions, which to me signals a bit of a control thing-- like he's got the advantage over you.

    But it really depends on the tone. Did he ask the questions and then listen to everything that you said or did he interrupt you to go on to the next "name-drop" or in this case, "fact-drop" to keep pinning you down metaphorically?

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    depends on him.... I tend to remember guys pretty well, so while the first or second clue might have thrown me, by then I would have probably remembered who he was.

    Since he's spending a lot on you, I wouldn't worry about it. Hone your memory skills so you can remember his name and ask him things about his life, while still keeping on eye on any other strange or threatening mannerisms.

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    He seemed genuinely interested in what I had to say, and he smiles really sweetly and doesn't try to touch me or anything like that so maybe he just likes me and happened to remember what I said because he really did like me...
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    Poor men. Damned if they don't listen, damned if they do. He sounds to me like a sweet old man who's genuinely interested in getting to know you ITC.


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    I wouldn't worry about it. Just remember him from now on!!

    When I was a dom I'd see people and talk a lot with them and never remember them. Two months later some random guy would come in that I had seen a while back. While I couldn't remember shit, they had remembered every little thing and was re living it in their heads frequently till the next time they got to come back. Quite often. This sounds like the stripper version of that.

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    Default Re: Do you find this creepy??

    Quote Originally Posted by dlabtot
    Stalking involves behavior. Just remembering you or liking you does not constitute stalking.
    I totally agree. I do not find that creepy or weird in the slightest. People remember things about other people that they find interesting. It's not that uncommon for customers to remember their last visit and you to not remember a thing.

    In your situation I would've explained how I have been working alot since that time so please forgive me as I couldn't remember anything about our last interaction. I then would've thanked him for the compliment as I realise he found me interesting enough to remember.


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    I can see why you're freaked out because most people never listen! lol My girl and I shock the hell out of just about everyone we meet because we'll talk about something they're going to do over the weekend and then ask them how it turned out when we see them later, just for instance. We hadn't seen our dancer friend for an unusual length of time and she showed genuine concern for where we'd been when we went into her day job. It's always a wonderful surprise when someone actually remembers someone else and then asks about them. Makes the world seem a less lonely and forbidding place

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    Nah, he's just sort of smitten with you is all. You see scores of customers a month, he probably only goes to the SC once every now and then. It's easier for him to remember this stuff about you than vice versa.

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    Default Re: Do you find this creepy??

    Try acting excited and saying "Oh my God! I can't believe you remember!!" Act flattered and check his reaction. If it's innocent then he just wanted to impress you. If he doesn't seem moved then IT'S A POWER TRIP. Good luck.

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    I doesn't seem like anything worisome to me. It's normal that he would remember more than you would. To him, you could have totally caught his eye and made quite an impression. To you, it's a customer. That's not meant to be mean, but you see tons of guys everyday. He might hardly go to a strip club so it makes sense that he would remember you well.

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    I don't think he's any more of a potential stalker than the next guy. Remember, you have to be cautious of everyone. But people will remember the damndest things from so long ago, it's amazing how you can stick out in someone's mind.

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    Default Re: Do you find this creepy??

    Quote Originally Posted by Deogol
    Funny you don't know the difference between a stalker and someone who actually listens!

    I agree. He just had a great memory.

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    It might annoy me a bit that I couldn't remember him, but honestly I think quite a few guys think of us alot after they leave the club so it's not too surprising that they remember what we tell them.

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