So Wednesday night, a customer pulls me aside (after I tried talking to him earlier) and is telling me how pretty my eyes are and blah, blah and invites me back to the VIP room. This dancer comes up to me and says "Actually, I'm going back there with him" I said to her "no problem, I'm not trying to take him away from you, he's asking me something". So then I say loud enough for her to hear me, "do you want me to leave since you're already with her?" He says "No, I want you to join all of us" So, I'm like great, I'm not stepping on any dancers toes or anything like that.
So we all get back to the VIP, there's 2 men and 3 dancers back there. The one customer who invited me back there asked the bouncer what was allowed back there and the bouncer spelled it out that the dancers could touch you but you cannot touch the dancers. Of course the customer said "well, in xyz you're allowed to" the bouncer said "well this isn't xyz", you can't touch the dancers and this room will be checked on from time to time. So as soon as the bouncer left, the girls started fondling each others breasts and then actually encouraged the customers to do the same!!! I asked them "what are you doing over there?" They said they were comparing boob size and boob density. This was going on while I still had my bra and shirt on. So then the grabbier of the two customers started to reach over to feel mine! Since we hadn't gotten paid yet, I kinda played cutsie that I was shy and like to take things a little slower on a first date. So I just kept on playing up the shy, innocent thing until we got paid. I also did say that it's not allowed here that there's no touching allowed and that we could get fired for allowing it.
So, my question is, would any of you have said something to the girl #1 that was instigating it and encouraging it to happen or would you not say anything? Girl #2 was pretty much just going along with what girl #1 was doing, I don't think Girl #2 would've done that if Girl #1 hadn't encouraged it. I was so tempted to pull girl #1 to the side and say "WTF are you doing? Why are you letting these men fondle your breasts when you don't have to?" We work in an airdance to light one-way contact, so it wasn't like she had to let them do that. I got paid the exact same amount the other 2 girls got and I wasn't touched at all because I WILL NOT let anyone touch me! But the thing is, I was put in a very awkward position there, when it wasn't necessary! I was that close from walking out and saying F$ck with the money, I don't want it that bad, but luckily I was able to get away with it. I was so close to pulling her to the side and telling her to stop encouraging them and to say to her WTF are you doing?
Considering that we work in an airdance club where the customers are not allowed to touch the dancers, would anyone have said something to the girl that was instigating/encouraging it or just played it up the way I did until I got paid? I don't like to stir up anything or cause tension with another dancer because I basicaly get along with everyone but that really pissed me off! Any feedback would greatly be appreciated, I really didn't know what to do because I've never been in this situation before. I either do VIP's alone or with girls that I know won't do that. Thanks in advance for advice and sorry this is so long!![]()



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