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    If all strip clubs all across the globe made lap dances "no contact" -- as in customers can't touch you and you can't touch them -- and enforced the rule, would you like it?

    EDIT: I'm amending the "no contact" to "no contact and light one-way". By "light one-way" I mean that a dancer can touch shoulders, hair, arms, etc. lightly and sparingly. Absolutely no kissing or nibbling on ears.
    Last edited by Scout; 10-08-2006 at 09:35 PM.

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    yes! of course I'd prefer less contact.

    I can't imagine many of us enjoy rubbing all over random dicks.

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    I voted yes and let me tell you why, it takes much more invention and creativity to do these dances and earn money. I went from a medium contact ( we could dance ON the customers they weren't to touch ) to a club with zero contact. I found that I make not only more money and get more repeated dances but also have a better time and at the end of the night if im too fucking tired to take a shower, I can wash my face and go to bed without sludge from faces between my boobs and slobber.

    It is a pleasure to do my job now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily
    yes! of course I'd prefer less contact.

    I can't imagine many of us enjoy rubbing all over random dicks.

    Oh now emily... you know you like it dont play it down

    But oddly enough I met a few that do like it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tart
    I voted yes and let me tell you why, it takes much more invention and creativity to do these dances and earn money. I went from a medium contact ( we could dance ON the customers they weren't to touch ) to a club with zero contact. I found that I make not only more money and get more repeated dances but also have a better time and at the end of the night if im too fucking tired to take a shower, I can wash my face and go to bed without sludge from faces between my boobs and slobber.

    It is a pleasure to do my job now.
    Hear, hear!

    I used to grind my butt off and would leave my shift feeling worn and degraded because anyone with $20 could have me rub their balls. I still have nightmares of penis against my thigh. For so little money!

    Working no contact, I feel that my job is more like socializing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tart
    I voted yes and let me tell you why, it takes much more invention and creativity to do these dances and earn money.
    It really does. I dunno..it just doesn't seem like a hard (no pun intended) thing to just sit in a guys lap and dance. But doing a no contact dance is some serious work. You have to be creative enough stimulate a man mentally without laying a finger on him.







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    well and grinding etc when that goes on ...having a boyfriend is a gazillion times harder or at least one that doesnt hate your job or what to bring it up in damn arguments.

    How about for 20 bucks not only can they get their balls rubbed with our asses etc through their pants but if they have an "accident" we get to have it on us.

    good times


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    Quote Originally Posted by Tart
    I voted yes and let me tell you why, it takes much more invention and creativity to do these dances and earn money. I went from a medium contact ( we could dance ON the customers they weren't to touch ) to a club with zero contact. I found that I make not only more money and get more repeated dances but also have a better time and at the end of the night if im too fucking tired to take a shower, I can wash my face and go to bed without sludge from faces between my boobs and slobber.

    It is a pleasure to do my job now.

    Yes yes yes yes yes!!! Gods I would love to go back to no contact dancing. Gah!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tart
    well and grinding etc when that goes on ...having a boyfriend is a gazillion times harder or at least one that doesnt hate your job or what to bring it up in damn arguments.

    How about for 20 bucks not only can they get their balls rubbed with our asses etc through their pants but if they have an "accident" we get to have it on us.

    good times


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    ^^ Yah i agree. Or having random guys licking your tits..neck..ass crack if they can get their neck down there like that...

    It just sucks that when its allowed for guys to have some contact that most take it or try to take it to the next level with sucking..biting..licking blech.

    I mean on one hand they are fucking trashed and we are half naked. On another hand, what kinda person wants to lick where a few others have licked and had their greasy ass hair and faces?

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    Oh hell yeah. I really don't mind some contact but obviously if I could get away with less and make the money I'm ALLLLLL for it. Too bad most the guys feel the exact opposite

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    I prefer one way contact. Me to him and no touching me. Not like cock grabbing but arm touching and hair rubbing. Damn it is hard to sell a no contact dance and takes some SS to pull off.
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    I live in a city with no contact dances, and I travel to places with contact dances...because it's so much harder to make money without. I don't do 2 way contact at this point, but for me it's one-way contact all the way. I think it's the perfect system.

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    No suprises in this poll. I'm sure the majority of the dancers working right now would prefer non contact dances and still be able to charge $20 a song.

    Some might prefer to even not give laps at all and make all of their money on stage. I used to be able to pull a regular $300 a shift from stage only and only doing 1 stage set per hour. No mingling with guys you didn't want to, just hang out and talk to the the customers you enjoyed talking to. I even had a few $800-1000 nights doing stage only back in the late 90's.


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    ^^^ Wow! That would've been so great! I wish times hadn't changed in that regard.







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    Nah, I like a little light two-way contact. Plus it's much kinder on my feet when I kneel on someone's lap instead of standing up.

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    The club i currently work at doesnt allow friction dances (as most Manhattan SCs dont), but they dont enforce the no touching rule which pisses me off. I prefer LESS contact, i dont want to grind and I dont want the customer touching me if I tell them not to--its sensory overload at the end of the night from being touched so much.

    I never liked grinding--it left zits & scratches on my butt.

    I think its sexier to face your customer and look him in the eye as you dance. If you make it really hot, you get more money. If you grind and they nut after one song..all you get is $20. Of course, I know you cant get away with that in a club where thier intention to cum from from the dance.
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    Ahhh... the good old days, when you banked in a non contact club. Those were the days when I danced... I soooooooooooo could not dance with the contact there is today!!

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    I make less money now at a less-contact club but I go home feeling cleaner, happier and safer. Plus, my bills are less and I even share those with someone now.

    So I still feel like I'm making more for less pain.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Paris
    No suprises in this poll. I'm sure the majority of the dancers working right now would prefer non contact dances and still be able to charge $20 a song.

    Some might prefer to even not give laps at all and make all of their money on stage. I used to be able to pull a regular $300 a shift from stage only and only doing 1 stage set per hour. No mingling with guys you didn't want to, just hang out and talk to the the customers you enjoyed talking to. I even had a few $800-1000 nights doing stage only back in the late 90's.

    Oh, honey, I love you, you're making me nostalgic. Oohh does anyone remember the eighties? If only I hadn't partied all that cash away (all you barely legals, PLEASE listen)...I'd never have had to work again, seriously. That said, I now work for an agency where I make most my cash on stage, and laps are just an option. I think some guy's too creepy to dance for, I just don't. And... I don't pay, I get paid, not much, but some. And I keep all my earnings. I so hope it lasts. I generally make more in 3 hours than I did at the nude club downtown in 8. I love it. The city is trying to shut us down, yet leave all the "wanna dance" clubs downtown, that are rapidly becoming whorehouses.... oh wish us luck, please....

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    why do they want to shut ur club down, NakedT?
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    honestly i make more at a non contact club and everyone I work with seems to do rather well. Hell if you didn't you couldnt work there, after housefees ..gowns etc.

    Dont say its impossible to make money or good money or even great money at a non contact club because thats bs. I avg 800 take home nightly so thats basically 1300 a night. and most of the girls I work with tend to do the same.

    Its all about how the entire city operates

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    I stayed at a shitty club, purely cos I could enforce the non-contact rules.
    I dont like being touched uninvited :-(

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    all the clubs where i am are either strictly no contact or only the dancer can touch the customer. some of the girls do the nibble of the ear but i don't like to put my lips on anyone. im actually surprised with the level of contact some of you girls are describing. its pretty strict in AUS i guess.
    i don't think i could do the contact thing, too many really slimy guys

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    I voted yes, but really I think my preferred contact level would be one-way. That's how it was when I first started. No grinding or even boobs in the face, just rubbing the guys neck, using nails down the arms...sensual stuff...and they kept their hands to themselves!! I do miss those days when I could actually defend stripping as it was innocent entertainment. Two-way contact gets way to outta hand.

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