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    Who was your 1 and how did you know? Are you still with them? Are you with someone else?

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    Uh...my one is my jr. high school sweetheart. We were best friends before that for about a year, and we really didn't think much of it when we got together.

    Almost 8 years later, though...things are great. He's my one- I can't explain HOW I know...I just do!

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    I knew I was going to meet him before I did. I told my friends about the premonition & then I met him days later. It happened for a reason. He was my One.
    I haven't spoken to him for years.

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    A guy I met at a nightclub 5 years ago. Knew when I saw him. He didnt want a relationship tho. We were best friends for years and also bed buddies, but I stuck around cause I just knew he was it.
    Eventually, he wanted to move to Vegas, so I said Id go, we packed up and moved out here together, he eventually became my boyfriend......we are getting married soon, and noone has ever treated me as good as he does. It just took him a few years to grow up. Im glad I waited, hes the best thing that ever happened to me.

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    My one was Joe...I just knew...we completely clicked. Yes, we're still together...1 1/2 kids later.

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    i dunno if i believe in 'the one' concept.

    ive met some amazing people who i guess could have been 'the one' in the right time and place....ive also been with someone i didnt really like for years, and made myself love him. weird.

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    I have no "one". All of my relationships have been special and important, and I've internalized them all. Although I do sometimes feel like I'm done with it now - like I've used it up or something. But that could just be more of my neuroses.
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    I don't believe in the one. Statistically, you're more likely to fall for someone in your town; within 5 blocks if in the city. If "the one" held true, the majority of our "ones" would be Chinese.

    That being said, I think there are certain people with whom you're more likely to be compatible. And I think you know it when you meet them. I met my fiance and I knew we would have an amazing relationship. He challenges me and supports me in everything I do. I know it's cliche, but he makes me a better person. Do I believe that we were "meant" to be together? No. But I do believe that I will have a good future with him and he with me.

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    Mine is an ex. We both ruined the relationship - me unrepairedly. We are still good friends and very close. People still treat us like a couple, or think we're a couple when we hang out or tell us to get back together. I dont think that will ever happen though. I always hope I'll meet someone that I'll bond with in the same way, but in all honesty i dont hold out alot of hope.

    How do I know? Thats a hard one, lol! It was / is just extra special in many ways. When you see pics of us together we just look like we are a couple and should be together too as opposed to any other guy or girl we may be in photos with.

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    I have not found him yet. But I'm still hopeful he's out there!

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    Quote Originally Posted by VenusGoddess
    My one was Joe...I just knew...we completely clicked. Yes, we're still together...1 1/2 kids later.
    1 1/2?
    More like 1 8/9!!!

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    I thought I met "The one", but I was wrong...now I don't know anymore...maybe my current one is "the one" and maybe not...
    Just have to see how it goes!
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    Quote Originally Posted by mermaidnz
    i dunno if i believe in 'the one' concept.

    ive met some amazing people who i guess could have been 'the one' in the right time and place....ive also been with someone i didnt really like for years, and made myself love him. weird.

    What she said...^ I'd like to believe there is "the one" but if you look through time...from arranged marriages to early tragic deaths of "the one."

    I'll tell you when I'm 60 and if she's still right by my side

    p.s.Mmy parents are happily married for 33 yrs. When I visited home, it was nice to see them cuddled together, asleep as the T.V. is still turned on. AND I wonder who had to turn it off

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    My 'one' is Jenny... I was her first...and now I just cant get her off my mind.. now to make her see me that way

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    Quote Originally Posted by VenusGoddess
    My one was Joe...I just knew...we completely clicked. Yes, we're still together...1 1/2 kids later.
    The first thought when I first saw her was "I'm going to marry this one...."

    Still haven't gotten there yet, but all in good time. We share everything else.

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    I have been with mine since I was 13 years old. I am now 29. We have been married for 11 years on December 1st. We have 3 kids and still act like newlyweds.

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    My One?... My ex Definitely. We got together when I was 15 and he was 16. We stayed together almost 10 years. We had some issues growing up in a relationship together but we did work well together. Eventually he did cheat though, so that was the end. We've been apart since Thanksgiving day 2003. So I guess It wasn't really meant to be after all.
    I really do love my boyfriend now (immensly!) but it's just not the same. We talk about getting married and everything. But secretly I still find myself thinking about my ex sometimes. I feel sooo guilty for it, but can't help it. He really did me wrong, and I still think of him even when I've got this incredibly great guy right here. I hate it.

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    no such person exists...

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    I met my "one" almost 10 yrs ago when i auditioned for him(he owned a theatre company which we ended up running together until we moved down to FL). We were both just getting out of long term relationships(me 5 yrs, him 8 yrs) and NOT looking for anything serious. We agreed at the beginning that it was just fun and sex...whatever...just a fling...no big deal.
    Uh huh.
    Fast forward...we've been married over 6 yrs and still happy together.

    Funny thing is that nobody expected us to end up staying together. He's super old fashioned in his tastes(but not his morals...hence a stripper wife!!lolololol!). He has gotten me to listen to his big band and swing music and some I can listen to for awhile and actually enjoy it! and I've gotten him to get into some of my hard rock. He's all fedoras and old cars, I'm black motorcycle jacket and ripped jeans. But somehow it works.

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