Okay, so I know where it is supposed to be.
Theoretically.
And I know how you are supposed to find it. (come hither motion, all that.)
Hypothetically.
And I am supposed to be able to enjoy having sex cause it feels good.
Supposedly.
But.... I feel motion, okay. Feel friction, all good. I can't orgasm unless I'm playing with my clit. If he's playing with it, still can't get there. He goes down on me - nothing. He plays with me - nothing. Even having sex, it's gotta be clit stimulating or I can't come. I can't even find my gspot when I play alone. There's gotta be an answer to this - something's gotta be wrong with me.
I do the relaxing thing, I fantasize, all the things they tell you to do, but I can't come unless I'm alone, playing with my clit, or I'm playing with it while he has me. I've been with five guys total in my life, and... nobody.
Somebody please tell me they know what's going on. I wanna like sex. I swear I do.



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