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    Okay, so I know where it is supposed to be.

    Theoretically.

    And I know how you are supposed to find it. (come hither motion, all that.)

    Hypothetically.

    And I am supposed to be able to enjoy having sex cause it feels good.

    Supposedly.

    But.... I feel motion, okay. Feel friction, all good. I can't orgasm unless I'm playing with my clit. If he's playing with it, still can't get there. He goes down on me - nothing. He plays with me - nothing. Even having sex, it's gotta be clit stimulating or I can't come. I can't even find my gspot when I play alone. There's gotta be an answer to this - something's gotta be wrong with me.

    I do the relaxing thing, I fantasize, all the things they tell you to do, but I can't come unless I'm alone, playing with my clit, or I'm playing with it while he has me. I've been with five guys total in my life, and... nobody.

    Somebody please tell me they know what's going on. I wanna like sex. I swear I do.

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    Default Re: nonexistent G-spot?

    doesn't sex feel good anyways, or nothing? I mean, I haven't come during sex but I think that's pretty common for young women.

    so....maybe get a g-spot toy so you can explore the g-spot on your own? But I don't think it's something to worry about because you should probably eventually, with enough playing, come? unsure.

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    Cherry, you and I are so alike. I have the same problem. But at least sex still feels good to me, even if I don't orgasm. I can't offer any advice, but at least I can sympathize...

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    Default Re: nonexistent G-spot?

    does he say he can feel it? it's not really a spot, it's like an area... you can feel ridges or bumps, sort of... it gets easier to feel as it gets stimulated... most girls Ive been with have had trouble finding it on their own....

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    I've always wondered about the mythical G-spot myself. Ive never found it.

    Quite frankly, I'm not too bothered. I love sex because it's sex. It's wild and animalistic, primal, sweaty, dirty and wonderful, all at the same time. It doesn't matter to me if I even orgasm. Sex needs to be good in it's basic form, otherwise you're skipping out a lot :I

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    I have tried g spot toys. And my man swears he can feel it... but I have literally, nothing. All I feel is some faint pressure and some friction during sex. That's it. I guess I thought you had to find your g spot for it to feel good - but some of you say it feels good anyways? Weird.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cherry_sin
    I have tried g spot toys. And my man swears he can feel it... but I have literally, nothing. All I feel is some faint pressure and some friction during sex. That's it. I guess I thought you had to find your g spot for it to feel good - but some of you say it feels good anyways? Weird.
    Um, if he has to swear to you that he 'can feel it' and all you feel is 'some faint pressure and some friction'... then I don't think he found it... at least based on my experience, if he really found it -- you'd know

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    In my experience, the g-spot is real, but not always. It will migrate, it will fade, it will intensify, it will grow, it will shrink. For some people, it's always there, and for others, it seems like a figment of the imagination.

    People are different. I have my own problem(s) that no one else seems to have, but the lady and I enjoy things anyway. I wouldn't worry too much about it.

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    Three fingers, put them in to the hilt. Then, start pumping JUST the fingers as fast as possible, keeping the base of the hand flush to the opening of the vag. His fingers will get tired, you'll feel like you have to pee. Keep going, he'll feel it growing under the ever quickening and increasing pressure of his fingers. Also, have him put his other hand onto your pubic mound just over your clit and press down hard. That will bring the g-spot closer to his fingers....

    Don't let him start moving his hand in and out like a dick. It doesn't help.

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    See, with Katrine, it's always there.

    My most common experience has been pressing down on the hard slope of the front wall, with fingertip pressure coming from above and behind. As Kat says, pressing over the pubic mound has helped. The main lady doesn't like three fingers, which is good, because then she can enjoy my microgenitalia (for further reference, see the Big Boobs/Big Dicks thread in the Lounge).

    Just stay patient, see what gets the best results, follow up exploring the most rewarding paths.

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    Just like girls like different things when it comes to sex, I think girls feel different things as well. I've talked with women who don't believe in a g-spot, who have, just like you, "tried everything"... I have it, and I know I do, becaues it causes my limbs to go numb. But it's still hard as fuck for me to get off during intercourse, anyways, cause a dick won't usually hit it (like you, I have to touch myself to get it- and yeah, sex is great, but who DOSEN'T want to come?). So I feel ya on that.
    Have you tried kegals? A big part of female orgasm is tightening the vaginal muscles- penetration or not. And if you're tighter during penetration, you're going to feel more, and it should feel better.
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    G-spot, shmee-spot! Vibrating cock ring--this is how I come during intercourse!

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    Thanks you guys! You all rock.

    I'm off to read Katrine's post to my man, LOL.

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