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    Quote Originally Posted by xfatrabbitx
    This may sound a little odd, but its the best way i can phrase it,
    what do you do when your hustle is too good. Most would think, well hey, why complain, but i complain because it makes almost every guy want to persue a relationship with me.
    If this is the case then your "hustle" is, in fact, not good at all. Replace the word "hustling" in your vocabulary with the word "selling." Now, based on what you've said, your selling completely the wrong product. You're working way too hard on building rapport and not working hard enough on closing the sale. You don't need to be their best friend in the club, just make the conversation intimate and comfortable...then close the sale.

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    Ya, that's what I was going to say. A good hustle = lots of money without stringing guys along.

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    As soon as the dating-boyfriend questions come up, I get silly with the customers. I'll say things like "I'm down to only 3 boyfriends these days, I must be slipping" or when the guy asks "What does your boyfriend think of your job?" (which is just fishing for my availibilty status), my response is always "Which one?"

    His response is always "You have more than one boyfriend?" I respond with,
    "At least two most days, usually more. I'm awfully demanding. Sometimes I have to get rid of the whole heard and go find me some fresh studs." They don't know whether to take me seriously or not, but usually that keeps the conversation professional and light hearted.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Paris
    As soon as the dating-boyfriend questions come up, I get silly with the customers. I'll say things like "I'm down to only 3 boyfriends these days, I must be slipping" or when the guy asks "What does your boyfriend think of your job?" (which is just fishing for my availibilty status), my response is always "Which one?"

    His response is always "You have more than one boyfriend?" I respond with,
    "At least two most days, usually more. I'm awfully demanding. Sometimes I have to get rid of the whole heard and go find me some fresh studs." They don't know whether to take me seriously or not, but usually that keeps the conversation professional and light hearted.

    lol, thats good..thanks

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    Ooooh, Paris, once again you have given me some excellent amo. I have the same problem. I can "Hustle" someone for quite a bit...but then I lose it, and I turn it into something else, which in turn makes them want to date me.....It never fails.

    The only time it didn't happen was when I was up front with a guy right away....and it such a smart ass thing to say "Ofcourse I'm not going to date you, you just want me for my thong. But I will have a great f*cking time with you here!" That was the only one who never asked me out again, but still came back to party every month or tow, and stayed well into the night.

    This thread made me remember to keep it fun, flirty and a "possibility" while still being un-reachable. Thanks!




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    Quote Originally Posted by Paris
    His response is always "You have more than one boyfriend?"
    when i do that they always say "what about one more?"


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    "when i do that they always say "what about one more?""

    "Well, lets talk it over some chapagne in the VIP, maybe you can convince me I need one more boyfriend....". ????

    it's an idea.




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    i'm always very upfront about my "status", in answer to the "what does your boyfriend/husband/ SO think about this?" i always just tell the truth. i've found it actually HELPS the sale, they know i'm unattainablle still, but that i'm being a bit naughty and "disobeying".

    i also don't get asked out near as much, and often times, they want to take him and i out to dinner/breakfast after work. *shrug*

    i basically tell them that i operate on the whole "golden rule" principle. i believe that they deserve to be respected and nto be strung along, and that i expect the same from them. more often than not (i'd say about a 20 to one ratio) they end up buying the dance and actually THANKING me for being so professional with them.

    there's another girl in my club that tries to string them along, and while she does get decent business (about 75% of what i do) she also has a lot more drama to deal with, and a lot more disgruntled customers every night because she didnt give them her number, or declined a date, etc.

    ths might not work for everyone, i know. but i've found that it really does work for me, as well as decreases drama.

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    Basically, regular customers often push for more, which is why they are such a mixed blessing. You really have two choices: you can string them along with half-promises that maybe someday you'll see them outside of the club, or you can be upfront with them from the beginning that this isn't going to happen. Be aware that if they think there is even a possibility that you'll see them outside the club, they will push for it relentlessly. Finally, you'll have to either see them outside, or tell them what's up. If you've been stringing them along a lot, they'll probably get pissy with you, cause some drama, and then disappear or move on to other dancers. If you are upfront with customers about your status, you may get less repeat business, but the customers who do come back will be more realistic and may stick around longer. The choice is yours.

    I think I know what you mean when you ask if you're hustle is "too good." I don't pretend that I'll ever meet them somewhere else or date them, but I'm very good at finding what I like about my customers and focussing on it while I'm with them, so that it does come across as "really liking" them, and a lot of my customers get attached to me, which can be kind of a headache. I've actually thought that maybe I should work less on building this kind of rapport with customers, so that they don't feel so much "connection."

    I also know how addictive regular-customer money can be, especially if you are in a smaller town that doesn't have the tourist traffic and customer turn-over of Vegas or Dallas. But don't fool yourself that your regulars are the only way you can make money. If you're as good a hustler as you say, there will always be new customers out there for you. I've had some $great$ nights with regulars, but just as good or better without them. I think the addictive thing about regulars is not just the money but the ease of getting it. Once you have a regular, you are getting paid to hang out with someone you already know -- no working the floor, no walking up to strangers, no fear of being groped by some weirdo who then pretends to have lost their wallet...don't let regulars make you lazy, though. Sooner or later, they will all move on or press for more. If you really feel dependant on their money, then when they threaten to take it away, you will be tempted to cross your boundaries --meet them OTC, "date" them, sleep with them -- to keep them happy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lizlizliz
    when i do that they always say "what about one more?"


    boo.
    "I'm always looking for fresh people . I'll give you an application for the next available boyfriend position. No guarentee that your application will be accpeted. The application fee is $300 and the interview process is in the VIP room. You may have to re-apply and re-interview in the future. Shall we get started?"

    Eh... Works sometimes.


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